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I'm out!

btiger

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Well, I finally did it. I'm 29 years old and I came out today. I've made a few new friends here who are gay and they convinced me to go to Pride in St. Louis yesterday. I had a great time and when I got home I decided it was finally time. The stress of not being out has been so intense lately. It's so nice to be rid of it. I dated a guy while I was not out for awhile... he was not out either. We eventually broke up because I knew I wanted to be out and since he's bi, he decided he wanted a wife and kids. We ended on good terms, though.

So today I've spent the day telling my sister and those friends who are close to me (the ones who I felt should hear it from me first). Every one of them was awesome about it. I have no idea when I'm going to tell my parents. I expect their reaction to be emotional but also expect that they should eventually be ok with it. I'm just glad I live ten hours away so I don't have to be in the middle of it, when I actually go through with it.

Anyway, I wanted to share my awesome day. :-)
 
Congratulations on this huge step! I hope all goes well with the parents.
 
Holy Cow man..
posts/threads like the one you have just made make me so very happy..

Damn good for you! ..|:=D:

Seems to me you will be happier in the long run wth your decision... I hope that is the case.

I wish you the best.. and I'm sure you will have a great live and will not regret your decision.
 
Congrats!! Im so jealous, I wish it would work out so well for me
 
Congrats!! Im so jealous, I wish it would work out that well for me :(
 
It's interesting because now that the adrenaline of the past few days has worn off, I found myself thinking, "Wow, I'm out. I can't believe I did that." Don't get me wrong, I have absolutely no regrets and it is a great feeling to not live that lie anymore. It's just interesting to experience the different emotions.

Thanks for all the congrats. In addition to some friends I made this year, this message board has been a huge help to me. You guys are awesome! (*8*)
 
Congratulations on you new found freedom!
 
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