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I'm pretty confused...haha

Good points dutchdog. Here's to hoping it will turn out ok.that's what happens to you when you don't listen to your fbi mom!
 
It's from the tv-series V, alli-berri. The girl on the pics in the first post is from that show.

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That's her evil alien 'twin' who killed her bf. His mom is in the FBI and tried to warn him.

^ Girls like this turn curious guys to gays :D
 
alli-berri said:
^ Ohhhh.



:eek: No kidding... Although, she's looking pretty good for being so other-worldly. Who couldn't love a demon...vampire-thing that gives a shit about her brows and lashes?

And that hair. Damn
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Yeah, she looks super hot!
But that's just her human skin. Underneath she looks like this:

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:badgrin:
 
jumponit55 said:
Been reading JUB on and off for over a year now, but only joined tonight. Reading this post was like reading a summary of my life, pretty crazy!! I like men and women for all different reasons and at all different times. Glad to know there are other guys out there who are struggling with the same stuff, but I definitely sympathize with how stressful and anxious the uncertainty of it all can be.

I've been beating myself up about this a lot lately. Basically over the last year or so, I've come to terms and come to being comfortable with the fact that I'm bisexual. It used to be something I was ashamed of and hid from everyone, but now most of my family and my friends know. And it felt great to get it out there and not have to lie to people or cover my tracks/live a life of secrecy. Like the original poster, i also beat off to usually gay porn, and I've only felt something serious for a guy once, though he was my first gay experience, which may have had something to do with it.

So I guess I haven't been with too many girls in recent months and all of the sudden I meet this girl - drop dead gorgeous, sweet, really nice, the whole package ( though I wish she was funnier, I find humor really attractive). But anyway, there should be no problem here. But immediately, even before our first date, I'm extremely nervous and doubting myself - mainly: will I be able to get it up when we're hook up? I had an issue with it with the last girl I hooked up with. I was worried about the same thing then. And of course...the first time we have a serious hookup....nothing. She's super into me and I so badly want to be super into her but I can't stop worrying about this. I feel like it was just my nerves getting the best of me and i just psyched myself out way too much. I know I need to just live in the moment and ENJOY it...the feeling of being close and intimate with someone, but in my head I was having a fucking panic attack. Of course I never have any problem getting it up with guys, I think just because it's way more comfortable. I cannot get comfortable with this girl. She's also a few years older, which doesn't help.

But it gets me thinking about broader things, like maybe I am gay. Cause if I was really attracted to women I would have no problem just bringing her home and plowing her. She's fucking beautiful. So anyway, I think I would be fine with being gay if it was something i truly felt....but it's not. My friend says I need to accept the possibility that I might be gay...just be at peace with all possibilities, and then whatever happens, whether i am gay or realize i like women more, it will be okay. He says I fear that possibility, which I suppose is true on some level, but not because of what friends and family think, rather because it's not what I feel is true. I don't feel it in my heart 100%. Yes I have a strong physical attraction to guys, rarely emotional. But I feel a lot for women too. But maybe I'm just fooling myself??

So I don't know, the whole thing has been cycling over in my head all day, day after day, really starting to stress and bum me out. I just want to live a happy life, but I can't even be happy because I'm so uncertain of myself and my sexuality. I like versatileplayer's advice to just roll with it and do whatever, but it's almost not that simple. People demand labels and explanations and in some ways they have a right too - especially if it's their feelings that have potential to be hurt. I'm only 23, which I know is pretty young, but I feel like I should know who I am. I'm so envious of all my friends, straight and gay, because they know 100% what they want, and I'm seriously so confused.

Sorry for the long and convoluted post. Needed to vent, I guess. In summary, I definitely sympathize with you, LIkesDudes22. Some of the advice being posted is good stuff. Thanks guys.
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Wow sounds just like me. Its good to know i'm not alone. Thanks a lot.
 
Ahhh! Poor Diana!I'm still waiting for them to have some gay aliens! Most of the characters are pretty cute esp the alien that's on the ship thay is part of the fifth column-he is a Cutie! Glad they brought him back life.
 
gr82talk2 said:
Ahhh! Poor Diana!I'm still waiting for them to have some gay aliens! Most of the characters are pretty cute esp the alien that's on the ship thay is part of the fifth column-he is a Cutie! Glad they brought him back life.
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Joshua ;) He's played by Mark Hildreth
Apparently he played a gay role in the 2004-film Everyone.

Hm, actually.. he would make a nice couple with Lisa, so whenever in future they finally manage to kill Anna, Lisa and Joshua can lead the V's and make peace with humanity.

:D
 
Thanks for the above Info! He is a cutie alright. They both would do an excellant job at peace. Makes me miss klye bates from the original 80s tv series . I had THE biggest crush on him back in the Day!
 
But curious guys, you also should realize that you often are difficult to read by gay guys. If you know a guy is gay and you're interested to try something with him, please don't just give him signals, but make a real move.
 
dutchdog said:
But curious guys, you also should realize that you often are difficult to read by gay guys. If you know a guy is gay and you're interested to try something with him, please don't just give him signals, but make a real move.
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I would never go for a gay guy, specifically for the reason you state. It might open to some form of emotional thing in which I probably wont reciporicate. I'd feel like I'm not just leading him on physically, but emotionally too which I consider to be wrong on my part. I don't want any guy to be emotionally into me as a result of my own action, so I try to find other curious guys.
 
I have a post in a thread called "Calling all straight guys..." that kind of touches on this.

I will add (to what I say on that post) that their are plenty of people who are unsure just as yourself. It's funny because I was/am in the position where there's never been any questioning at all (beyond a more philosophical "I wonder what it's like to have such an experience of being unsure"); because it went against my own experience, I really didn't get it at all. Of course, I'm not going to believe that other people are lying about such confusion, so it just means that sexuality really is just that complicated and all over the place.

Also, I'll mention, that there is this concept of "romantic orientation". Though I've oft heard it referring to those who identity as asexual, there's no reason it couldn't apply to others. Basically, it's about "being in love" and wanting to be in a relationship sort of desire. So someone who identifies as male straight asexual, would not be sexually attracted to anyone but still like the emotional intimacy of being in a relationship with women.

Frankly, I don't see a reason, why one's "sexual orientation" and "romantic orientation" couldn't be different after all there are people whose gender identity doesn't match their sexual identity, etc. It sounds to me like both of your orientations aren't absolutely polar, but they are each closer to opposite poles.

I think this "orientation" identification is more of a modern issue, because these are more modern concepts. Before, such concepts did not exist, so peoples' views on sexuality were different from ours (i.e. they labeled things differently than we do today). In some cases, relationship "orientation" and behavior "orientation" did not always have to align. Hope this helps.
 
LikesDudes2 said:
I would never go for a gay guy, specifically for the reason you state. It might open to some form of emotional thing in which I probably wont reciporicate. I'd feel like I'm not just leading him on physically, but emotionally too which I consider to be wrong on my part. I don't want any guy to be emotionally into me as a result of my own action, so I try to find other curious guys.
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Nah, not all gay guys are like women. And even not all women are like that. I am very masculine and enjoy contact with curious guys without emotional strings involved. It depends on the person.
 
LikesDudes2 said:
I would never go for a gay guy, specifically for the reason you state. It might open to some form of emotional thing in which I probably wont reciporicate. I'd feel like I'm not just leading him on physically, but emotionally too which I consider to be wrong on my part. I don't want any guy to be emotionally into me as a result of my own action, so I try to find other curious guys.
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Most men I've fucked around with are fine with it being just a fuck -

It's been the first step in any long term relationship I've had with a guy - fuck first - and if that goes well, let's see IF I like him as a person. :)

Men have an easier time with the concept of recreational sex or sex for the sake of sex without emotional attachments.
 
LikesDudes2 said:
I also think anal sex is gross (no offense to anyone here). Would that be any indication at all of anything orientation-wise, or is it just a simple preference
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That's naive. Well, for one thing, gay sex has only anus for penetration, that's why.
 
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