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be patient. it will happen at it's own time, you can't rush or force things cause you'll be setting yourself up for failure. and believe me your better off alone than with someone you don't love or like for that matter, just because you don't want to be alone. and way too many people fall into that trap, me included.
 
Wish I could help you with that, Bud. From what I've experienced of you on here, you're a great catch. *hug*
 
Antares, you are sooooo gorgeous. I can't believe that the guys in Kingston haven't snatched you up yet! It's inevitable that it will happen though, because you are such a nice guy here on JUB, you have a great sense of humor, and you have shared your sexy pictures with us! And when it does happen my younger friend, it will be sooo worth it. Patience and perseverance! And you know that I do speak from experience....:D
 
Just to add to what ronboy said - it will happen and when it does it will be when you're not looking and least expect it. Trust me

Good things are in store for you my friend

(*8*)
 
Antares said:
I'm Mark.

I want someone, now.
I'm lonely.
I hope it happens soon.
I'm tired of waiting.

:(
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Hey Mark! Long time no see. I use to follow your blog site but you took it down and I lost touch of it. Anyways from what I've seen of you writing back those few months ago and the limited chats we use to have on MSN. I have to say that your trying too hard. :) Your mind is racing with the thoughts of where,when, and why not now! I know cause I use to be in your same shoes. It's hard to just sit here and listen to the others say how great you are...how nice of a person you are, etc. Cause that still doesn't make up for the pain that you feel watching other fall in love or being with there loved ones. You feel lonely, lost, and out of touch with the world. Everytime you sit down to watch a movie or your favourite tv show (Don't know if your still watching Supernatural or not...I'm loving the second season and I hope they don't cancel it) by yourself you feel as if your missing something. Nobody to be next too and to talk about the show. I know I feel that way when I watched episode one of Season Three of Doctor who! (sidenote: to all who fans who are reading this...that was the best episode EVER!! Makes me want to carry a straw around on me! :) I am so going to do that shoe thingy at somebody's house soon! :D heheheh. You have to have seen it to get it ppl!)

Anyways back on topic, the point is you have to find away to control yourself...hard to explain....but basically the more you keep thinking about the stuff you don't have in your life...the more you miss your chance to find that person. Why? Cause your thinking about what you don't have that your too busy to see your environment around you....kindof like a racing horse with blinders. Sure we all have our "type" of guy that were attracted too. But our soulmate or partner may not be that "type" of guy. I don't know if this makes any sense to you or not but basically you gotta let it go. Gotta let it happen naturally and you gotta stop worrying about it. Trust me...I've wasted too much of my life worrying about finding someone that I didn't release what I had. Hence I'm a 31 year old who has yet to date. I spent my 20's denying what I was and then my late twenties trying to find a boyfriend. Well, for some reason..hitting 30 made me stop and smell the roses. Time is too short to spend your life worrying. Treat each day like it could be your last...cause you never know when it might!!

Oh...Love the Tommy Boxers man.....as the 9th doctor would say...."FANTASTIC!"

:sex:
 
Double post...sorry...maybe that means I mean it twice as much???
 
Hey Mark ( I know better as Antares lol...)

Mate...you deserve to be happy...you're an amazing guy...and you will be...trust me.

Dont change, dont let go, keep your chin up, your values strong and your wits about you. Soon enough those amazing traits will amaze someone close to you the way that they shine to us.

Stay strong mate... I have a feeling that yours will be the real thing!

(*8*)
 
I know it's hard, but you've got to focus on living your life and not on pining away for Mr. Perfect. You need more hobbies, more friends, more general enjoyment of life to keep your mind occupied until he stumbles into your world one day.
 
I went out, and I didn't have guys hitting on me, but I had a lot of guys fall in love with me online. So if a fat ass like me can make the attempt of doing it so can you. Take charge, at least you can stop and say that you at least tried, also I hear that usually love finds people when they least expect it to happen, and it's happened to me once.
 
Antares, judging from your other posts, you seem like a really nice guy. We all get lonely...i know exactly how you feel. I get depressed sometimes too. But I'm sure you're a great guy and you just gotta give yourself some more time to meet that guy who's just as great as you. You gotta have hope. And until he comes into your life, know that you got your friends @ JUB by your side. Good luck. We're in your corner.
 
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