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I'm rethinking the whole "I don't care who knows I'm gay" thing...

If you let people decide and influence how you live now, you will be doing that for the rest of your life. The longer you stay in the closet, the harder it's going to become to get out. Plus, the only way we are going to be accepted is by being out and allowing "them" to accept or reject us. Does that make sense? Once straight people,or those who have a problem with "us", see how many and where we are, and that we are so much a part of society already, they will have to learn to accept us. The more we hide, the less acceptance we are going to have.
 
About 37 minutes ago I was at the gas station and in a truck next to me were these three 16 or 17 year old boys dressed in black trying to act all goth (in a tiny hicktown, as if, get a life) and one of the boys in the truck (which was like this tiny little tonka thing) kept trying to get the attention of the one pumping gas, FINALLY he does, and when the gas pumper put his head through the window I heard the other say "look, thats that gay kid from school I think he's nicks brother."

If everyone knows I'm gay, am I going to be known as, recognized as, and remembered as "the gay guy?"

I don't even know why but that just really bothers me that that kid said that and I became really self concious after he said it :(

OK, I have a few points.

First, so these kids said something. Why not just rise above it? Or make a smart comment back? :-) You'll always get cunts in the world, so ultimately we have to deal with it.

Second, once you have the money, time, etc. move to a more gay friendly area. I can understand that it may be difficult to be fully out in your area.
 
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