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I'm scared lol

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Ok there is this guy at school (I'm a hs senior) and he wants to ummm well screw me .he's definitely bi because he's had sex with a lot of girls but wants to try it with a guy for the first time..or so he claims...he's really cute...and has an awesome butt....the first time he asked was months ago and I said no because I was so afraid..but now I want to because I want to see if I'd really like it...and his cock is huge...!! Does bottoming hurt?
 
Re: I'm scarred lol

Physically, not if you do it right ..|

But based on your post, this might hurt emotionally if you allow yourself to be caught up infatuated with the guy afterwards and he rejects you ...

Please be careful on all levels, ok?
 
Re: I'm scarred lol

lol I'm more so scared because if I actually do it ..that would mean that I'm gay right? I know that sounds stupid..but i'm not ready to label myself yet.
 
Hi there, I'm moving this to the health forum, where bottoming and associated "pain" has been discussed often. (P.S. I think you mean "scared" as in frightened in your thread title, so I changed it. Scarred means something else, but you might have meant that too!)
 
No it doesn't make you gay. Just relax and have fun. Don't worry about labels.

And no bottoming doesn't hurt, if your partner does it slow initially, and you use lots of lube (make sure its the water solluable kind safe for condoms, oil based lubes disentigrate latex.)
 
condoms and tons of lube! it doesn't necessarily make you gay... it just means you have like to have sex with guys... don't worry about labels.
 
That's so cute. Agreed, don't worry about any labels, just have fun. Be sure to read the bottoming instructions on this site. use lots of lube and take it slow. And don't let anyone label you no matter what you do...but be prepared to like it, it can feel real good ;)
 
star-warrior said:
Ask him to reciprocate. If you're gonna bottom for him, give him the pleasure too.
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Agreed. However, you should tell him that on one condition... he bottoms for you FIRST. It's only fair as he's the one making the request to use your butthole, because he might not let you fuck him after he's done with you... Once you've done him, then let him have his fun, but make sure you guys use condoms and go at the pace you're most comfortable with. Have fun!(*8*):sex:
 
I wish to emphasize, whatever you decide, absolutely, positively, without question BE SAFE - USE A CONDOM!


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I'm more so scared because if I actually do it ..that would mean that I'm gay right? I know that sounds stupid..but i'm not ready to label myself yet.
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Ah yes, I remember this. Thinking that being gay/bi is based on actions. Really, it's not, but people tend to think it is. There are gay guys out there that are married.... they'd prefer sex with men, but married a woman b/c then they wouldn't be "gay". But the thing is, every one of them is still gay. They just happen to be living a lie. And it's a lie to themselves more than to others.

I would agree, don't worry about labels. People don't fit into nice neat categories, but we always try to put them there anyway based on different characteristics. That's a societal flaw, not an individual one.

Having sex with guys doesn't make you gay any more than having sex with girls makes you straight. But I would agree with what others have said here.... 1)USE A CONDOM and 2) have him bottom first (although not required, I think it's only fair).
 
Please be safe and don't worry about labels, those are created by a heterosexist society after all.

I, for one, don't fit into any labels and that's the way I prefer it.
 
Be safe and have fun. Worry about labels later but be safe!
 
uzaname, I discussed this with average_guy and moved it back to the coming out section. It seems that the labels is more of a problem for you than actually bottoming.
 
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