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I'm slowly coming out!

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Okay guys this came up faster than I thought it would!

It all started with DList and meeting some guys from my area. I met two guys and finally I felt comfortable with who I am. It was like breathing in a lot of fresh air. I had sex with one of the guys and it felt amazing! Like I planned, I was the one on top. I'm not sure when or if I'll be comfortable in being on the bottom.

What's funny was that it almost happened the weekend before all of this. A couple of friends and I were talking about life and the topic turned to homosexuality. The guy that brought it up is gay. He told me that he always thought I was gay and I was just like really? How come? Why? But I told him I wasn't. When I said that, it killed me. I was so close of just blurting it all out. Do you ever get the feeling when your body starts to slowly shake when you are about to say something huge? Well that's what was going on. I was really disappointed I did not say anything.

The other friend that was there I told him the easy way out via AIM. I am just sick and tired of holding all of this in that it started to kill me. I knew he would take the news well because he was supportive when my other friend came out. So when I told him, he just acted like it was not a big deal. It felt so good and I had so much stress lifted off of my shoulders. I have yet to tell my gay friend. You would think he would be the easiest?!

My current plan is to come out to people slowly. I'm not going to blurt it out. I'll just tell them individually. If they have a problem with all of this, they were never my friend in the first place!

Guys, I feel so much better!

(!)
 
You've taken the first step. And isn't is strange that the sun keeps coming up and everything? :) Go for it.

Lex
 
Congratulations!

I hope you feel the burden of keeping this a secret slowly evaporate.

All the best to you. Let us know how it goes!

..| :=D:
 
I think I am about to tell a second friend who now happens to be a girl. She has a thing for me. I have no idea how to tell her or where to begin! She really likes me in that way... Oh God...this is considered to be my first coming out because the first guy was easy since he was way liberal. Help! lol
 
guywithsecrets9 said:
I personally feel its easier to come out to girls. they seem fasinated by it, like "really?"
You seem 2 have the right attitude though.
good luck.
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You do have a point. She'll probably say, "Omg I have a gay friend!" But I don't want to be that guy though. I don't see myself doing all the stereotypical gay guy stuff with girls. Now I'm just ranting...Sorry there is a lot of stuff on my mind right now!
 
No the gay guys I have been with that's what we do is talk about guys. But I meant she'll probably want talk about and do all the stereotypical gay stuff with her. ha
 
Why do I feel like a slut now?! I had sex with the other guy from the second paragraph of the original post. He was the guy that I wanted from the getgo...I love life right now! It's hard to think of how I was a couple of weeks ago. Honestly, I did not like my life at all. Damn it feels good..lol
 
Well the first guy I had sex with was a complete joke. The most recent guy I have been with has been great. I'm scared because I'm starting to develop feelings for him! Last night I spent the night at his apartment and it felt so awesome waking up next to him. Currently, I feel the happiest I have ever felt! My roommate has left for the weekend so hopefully this will continue this weekend. I'm so excited! Yay... :)
 
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