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I'M So Angry!!!

That's a dick move for sure, but at least now you know you can't count on him. Don't be angry, though. Some people are just like that.
 
Never have too high expectations of people. It usually turns out to be disappointing when you do so. Go with the flow, try not to be dependant or judgemental, and always remember, things arent always about YOU ......
 
he asked for help an i help him alot witout asking anything in return for over a year now an this is how i get payed back! i will get over it for sure just dont know when or if things will be the same ever again!
 
My goodness. Just throw your tantrum and let it go.

And stop being so needy.

If you behave like this when he's around, he probably is just trying to escape.
 
I get it. I hate feeling like things, and relationships are one sided in my life. Part of being a friend is being able to count on them when you really need something or are in some sort of a pickle. It can be pretty shitty, emotionally more than physically, when they flake out on you, because you feel like you've lovingly put time and effort into a relationship, expecting the same back, and you don't get it, you don't feel appreciated, and things quickly fall downhill. I completely get it. The fact that he didn't physically do what he said he would do is an eye opening vision of the emotional problem thats bigger than picking bollywoodboy up from the airport. [I hope I worded that correctly!]
 
QuinnRider said:
I get it. I hate feeling like things, and relationships are one sided in my life. Part of being a friend is being able to count on them when you really need something or are in some sort of a pickle. It can be pretty shitty, emotionally more than physically, when they flake out on you, because you feel like you've lovingly put time and effort into a relationship, expecting the same back, and you don't get it, you don't feel appreciated, and things quickly fall downhill. I completely get it. The fact that he didn't physically do what he said he would do is an eye opening vision of the emotional problem thats bigger than picking bollywoodboy up from the airport. [I hope I worded that correctly!]
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thanks u that just right! all of it!!
 
bollywoodboy14 said:
he was going to pick me up at the airport an take me home an no it was not last minute i planed it with him at least a month ago!!
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Dude, he's not a friend. He's a user. Stop helping him. Or give him a payback. When he asks you to do ___________, say "sure, no problem", and then blow him off or 5 mins before call him up and say "Oh.... sorry I can't I have to get my haircut dude. Maybe next time."

I have zero time for flakes like that.
 
Hes been a good guy up until this point this is the first time i asked him to help me out. so i am still not sure what to do or say when i see him
 
One think i learn from life.

Never rely/expect anything from anyone.
Therefore you won't have huge disappointments after.
 
If he's generally been good as you say, then why are you so pissed?
 
altlover85 said:
If he's generally been good as you say, then why are you so pissed?
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over the passed year if i was late or forgot to pick something up anything like that he would make it into something serious! so him to do this to me makes his a Hypocrite
right?
 
I understand how you feel...I get fucking mad if my friend/boyfriend bails on me.

And I don't buy the "but sometimes things happen"shit. If he truly has respect for you he will try his hardest to prioritize your plan as much as possible.

So I say, don't do him a favor next time. Let him know how it feels to be bailed on.
 
i will tell him how it feels an give examples as well! like browing money from me twice
 
Sad thread.

On many levels.
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For the love of Pete.

Move on already.

Drop him as a friend. Stop behaving like this is actually an existential crisis and become more independent.

Or put a bag of burning shit on his doorstep and ring the bell. Don't forget to run away.
 
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