Twistedup
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He's gay or bisexual, and he's working through these feelings. Chances are, he may realize his sexuality because of you, or completely do a 180 and break your heart. Ultimately, you're both young, and this isn't going to work out for the rest of your lives.
Best case scenario: He realizes he's gay, becomes your boyfriend, and the two of you spend a life together for 1-5 years. You'll go through all his drama of coming out to his friends and family. You're in for a roller coaster of a ride as he figures himself out. On the plus side, you'll have lots and lots of sex and love with the hottest guy in your life. Enjoy the romance of your youth.
Worst case scenario: He reverts back to being "straight." He'll get a girlfriend, shut you out, and you'll be heartbroken. This may happen quickly, or drag out for months. You'll be a psychological mess by the end of it, and this thread will span 12 pages.
wow. jaded, are we?
man, i come here once a year or so and after a few days i can't handle it and have to leave until some other unforeseen dilemma comes along in my life. above are the words of a man who has truly seen it all, lol.
good luck, OP. you are young. move on. if you cherish your friendship with him you will put space into it and see where you can end up on your own. push it and risk losing your best friend forever.

