Keep in mind i'm 18, closeted, still live at home with my mom, and have never had a relationship with a guy and I go off to college in August... Okay so I met this really cool guy on grindr. While talking to him I made it clear that I was looking for someone to be by my side through the coming out process. After he sent me a face picture I immediately searched him on facebook and looked him up just to see what he is about.
On his facebook I saw that he had a picture with him laying with another guy. So I texted him and asked him two question 1. Was he out or not. and 2. Was he in a relationship just to see if he was going to lie about either. He denied both so I said "well dude your facebook says otherwise." He responded saying that his facebook name is something totally different then I told him that the same picture he had sent me was on his facebook and he responded saying that it was one of his friends who used his picture, phone, and grindr and that he didn't want to have any drama and he even gave me another number to text his friend who was using his info. he said me and him could be strictly friends but to text the other guy if I wanted. so I responded there will be no drama and I didn't want to get to know his friend and he would never hear from me again. he then came clean about everything and said that it was actually him the whole time and that he was sorry about all of it he just though that maybe I knew his ex. Yes I know it all sound like a lot because it is. Me, being the thirsty jackass that I am, forgave him and we talked all that night about how we have so much in common and we are looking for the same things in a guy he told me he didn't want me to hang up with him and he wanted to go to sleep with me on the phone.
I thought I had hit the jackpot. Well the day after he invited me to hangout at his house after we both got off of work and I agreed. well around 5 oclock when we were both supposed to be off he never would text me back. I stayed up all night waiting for a text back but I didn't get anything until the next day where he was like "sorry I came home and fell asleep you should have called". In my head i'm like "motherfucker you invited me over!" So I brushed it off and asked him how was his day. Well I didn't get a response for 2 whole days. I called like once a day and didn't get an answer.
I didn't want to blow him up and seem annoying or like a creep. I kept wondering what exactly I did wrong or was back he with his ex, being that that whole situation was so shady? Eventually I was like fuck it and deleted his number and every trace of him out of my phone, until today day 3 when he texted me and said "sorry I worked a 24 hour shift today" and im thinking there a whole other 24 hours missing here. I would have rather him just never text me again than do the same shit again. I responded "oh its okay dude. why do you work such crazy hours" and he responded "its just my job babe" I responded "oh well I would like to talk to you sometimes." and never got a response. this was about 14 hours ago. I guess my question is is it okay or would it be weird to text him and tell him that i'm confused and that I am not sure exactly what he wants from me and that if this is how it's going to be then to lose my number? I don't want him to out me or anything considering I added him on facebook.
On his facebook I saw that he had a picture with him laying with another guy. So I texted him and asked him two question 1. Was he out or not. and 2. Was he in a relationship just to see if he was going to lie about either. He denied both so I said "well dude your facebook says otherwise." He responded saying that his facebook name is something totally different then I told him that the same picture he had sent me was on his facebook and he responded saying that it was one of his friends who used his picture, phone, and grindr and that he didn't want to have any drama and he even gave me another number to text his friend who was using his info. he said me and him could be strictly friends but to text the other guy if I wanted. so I responded there will be no drama and I didn't want to get to know his friend and he would never hear from me again. he then came clean about everything and said that it was actually him the whole time and that he was sorry about all of it he just though that maybe I knew his ex. Yes I know it all sound like a lot because it is. Me, being the thirsty jackass that I am, forgave him and we talked all that night about how we have so much in common and we are looking for the same things in a guy he told me he didn't want me to hang up with him and he wanted to go to sleep with me on the phone.
I thought I had hit the jackpot. Well the day after he invited me to hangout at his house after we both got off of work and I agreed. well around 5 oclock when we were both supposed to be off he never would text me back. I stayed up all night waiting for a text back but I didn't get anything until the next day where he was like "sorry I came home and fell asleep you should have called". In my head i'm like "motherfucker you invited me over!" So I brushed it off and asked him how was his day. Well I didn't get a response for 2 whole days. I called like once a day and didn't get an answer.
I didn't want to blow him up and seem annoying or like a creep. I kept wondering what exactly I did wrong or was back he with his ex, being that that whole situation was so shady? Eventually I was like fuck it and deleted his number and every trace of him out of my phone, until today day 3 when he texted me and said "sorry I worked a 24 hour shift today" and im thinking there a whole other 24 hours missing here. I would have rather him just never text me again than do the same shit again. I responded "oh its okay dude. why do you work such crazy hours" and he responded "its just my job babe" I responded "oh well I would like to talk to you sometimes." and never got a response. this was about 14 hours ago. I guess my question is is it okay or would it be weird to text him and tell him that i'm confused and that I am not sure exactly what he wants from me and that if this is how it's going to be then to lose my number? I don't want him to out me or anything considering I added him on facebook.
