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I'm SO mad at myself

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Re: I'm SO mad

First off. Why the fuck would you tell your sister that? Theres not much that can be done.
Remember the landlords arent your parents and there isnt much they can do. You either need to stop talking to your sister or just move.
 
Your sister has already shown you that she cant be trusted. Cut off contact with her. If some guy means more to her then family. Then that says all you need to know about her.
 
Babe--if you have the means to do it then move--otherwise this same cycle will continue.
 
While I applaud your effort to fix this mess for yourself, I want you to know that it will take time. Know that nothing is impossible. If moving away from this is going to fix all your problems, do it. Make a plan, start saving money again, stockpile cardboard boxes. Circle a day on the calender and let that be the day you move.

On a side note, if it's only $275 keeping you from moving, stop smoking pot. How much do you spend on it that you could be using to make your life what you actually want it to be?
 
Love makes you do stupid things. Your sister needs you now more than ever. If you let her go now she will be lost. She just has to get over him mentally, it won't stop until she lets it. It may seem bad now, but it will be worse if shes living on the street somewhere with a pimp.
 
Swiff, I'm thousands of miles away, and only know what you tell us of this situation.

And even I knew he wouldn't be gone.

Many years ago, I was offered an "in" in the field I always wanted to be in. For $600/month. In another state. At the time, I had no car and no savings.

I took the job.

And for a couple months, it was rough. I skipped breakfast, had the "two Big Macs for two dollars" for lunch, and crackers for dinner. My entertainment consisted of library books, and washed my hair with dishwashing liquid because it was cheaper than shampoo.

It was the best thing I ever did.

You say you can't do it. I say you can.

Lex
 
I think that you should continue to look for a new place to live. Move away from the dysfunction. It does not have to be a part of your life. Just because you did not see a good place last month does not mean that there will not be a good place this week, next month, etc. Keep looking. You may need to be a little creative. Maybe you can help manage a building and get reduced rent that way. I know someone that does that in Westwood, where rents are typically over $2,500, and they only pay $500 per month. Or you might find a place for rent that is a guest house behind a home.

I'm curious to know why you are affraid of moving out of town? That sounds like it could be a good thing to me. Just make sure that it is in a good area.
 
Then you'll have to wait until the situation becomes more unbearable than your fear.

Lex
 
You are all apparently co-dependents.

So toxic.

So destructive.

Such a waste of the limited days of your lives.

You can change yourself.

You can't change others.
 
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Good lord - why am I not surprised to see this post here.

Sorry buddy - but this is just too much.

This should be the sign for this thread.
 

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Swiffer WetJet said:
Okay! Guys! UPDATE!!!!!!

HE'S MOVING OUT RIGHT NOW.

He's been pounding up and down the stairs and yelling and screaming at the top of his lungs for the last two (or so) hours. I had NO idea what the hell he was doing, and I didn't want to go out and check, so I assumed he was just being an asshole...

BUT HE'S MOVING. HE'S FUCKING GONE. Oh my GOD. I'm so happy I could cry right now.

I hope he breaks his fucking 46" flatscreen TV taking it down the stairs. (!) (!) :gogirl: (!) (!)

I think, and I REALLY hope, that today will be the last day I'll ever see his troll-like face and hear his constipated, whiny little voice.
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:=D: :=D: Glad to hear! Now...

46"?! I hope someone comes in with a sledgehammer and swings at it. But that's just me.

But seriously, (*8*).
 
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