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m1thousand

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I messaged a guy on Scruff and he ended up coming over to my place.

There wasn't the chemistry and after about 10 minutes, he said "this isn't working" and he left

Has this happened to you?
 
I don't remember if someone ever did it to me - if they did I forgot about it. I would be OK with it though - no chemistry is no big deal.

On the other hand - I have done it many times to someone else now that I think about it. I remember one thing in particular. According to over a thousand people ( I worked with the public) - I looked like a famous person - heard it almost every damn day in my 20s - on and off in my 30s.

I couldn't stand the guy - never knew how to respond - it went like this - "Has anyone ever told you....bah bah blah" and I tried a number of different responses trying to be polite - and that was from the general public and people I know (my friends knew better than to say that to me) BUT if I was going to have sex with a guy and he said that to me - I was DONE - it made my skin crawl - so , yeah, I said that many times.
 
m1thousand said:
There wasn't the chemistry and after about 10 minutes, he said "this isn't working" and he left
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Maybe I watch too many movies but I think what you're supposed to do in this situation is chop his head off.

Yes, this has happened to me. It's awkward and if you jerk off you feel like a total loser.

I've also left other guys apartments for the same reason. Now I insist on meeting in a public place, or at least outside somewhere.
 
I guess the 'benefit' before apps was that we would meet guys in nightclubs and you could get a sense of them and if you wanted to go home with them.
But with apps, that option isnt there now.
I was a little worried that he might rob me, or ??????
He had this horrible taste in his mouth when I briefly kissed him. It was so gross and unappealing.
 
m1thousand said:
I guess the 'benefit' before apps was that we would meet guys in nightclubs and you could get a sense of them and if you wanted to go home with them.
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I think that I met 90% of my sex partners as well as my husband and my ex in nightclubs face to face - it is easier to get the vibe I think - the other 10% at work.
 
You can't fall in love with everyone.

I was going to say you should be dating ME. Then I realized that, although I'm certainly available, I'm at the wrong end of the rainbow.
 
I hooked-up with a guy in a bar and went back to his, after a lot of groping and grunting on the couch we made it to his bedroom and he pushed me down on the bed and told me he wanted to strip for me, once he whipped his boxers off my cock went limp, he was totally hairless down below. No pubes is an instant boner killer for me. I was shitting myself thinking how the fuck am I going to get out of this when I remembered I had my work pager on me, so I pressed the alert button and lied and said I was needed at work. I was outta there like a rat up a drain pipe.
 
In the case of a lot of hookup apps, if there isn't a face pic beforehand, or if they used an old one, I think a lot of guys are already at "no" when the door is opened, but don't have the balls to back out on sight, even though the rejection is on sight. Maybe that's a good thing.
 
ChristianGianni said:
I hooked-up with a guy in a bar and went back to his, after a lot of groping and grunting on the couch we made it to his bedroom and he pushed me down on the bed and told me he wanted to strip for me, once he whipped his boxers off my cock went limp, he was totally hairless down below. No pubes is an instant boner killer for me. I was shitting myself thinking how the fuck am I going to get out of this when I remembered I had my work pager on me, so I pressed the alert button and lied and said I was needed at work. I was outta there like a rat up a drain pipe.
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UGH - hairless down there - shaved pubes is an instant turn off for me too. The kind of guy that turns me on would never do that (and never wear "beauty products" or use hairspray.) I am turned on by a guy who knows who he is and is natural and is comfortable in his own skin
 
NotHardUp1 said:
In the case of a lot of hookup apps, if there isn't a face pic beforehand, or if they used an old one, I think a lot of guys are already at "no" when the door is opened, but don't have the balls to back out on sight, even though the rejection is on sight. Maybe that's a good thing.
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Hookup ads are kinda alien to me. It is so easy to meet other gay men in person IMO - at least that is my experience.
 
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