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I'm Too Lonely On a Friday Night....

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Anyone else around lonely, too????? I feel like I was dumped TWICE tonight :...(
 
Yeah, it's like this for me every Friday/Saturday night. I really wish someone was around sometimes.
 
9Times said:
Anyone else around lonely, too????? I feel like I was dumped TWICE tonight :...(
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Long story VERY short......I was promised to visit a friend tonight when he got back to our hometown. He's already salty (pissed off) that I won't committ, yet we meet up time to time (90% for SEX). We are 21 yrs. apart (me 26-he 47), so, the relationship stage is TOTALLY different between us. The sex has been good (not lately, since I cut him off...) I guess my problem is wanting to still be civil towards him, but not with the fishing lines we put on each other. Makes sense???? If not, I have all night to explain more.
 
reone said:
Somewhat...yes, but I also enjoy my solitude at the same time. I need to choose a side.

/sigh
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Yeah, I'm listening to some music and relaxing home. But, I feel like when I am needed for anything--I go running. Yet, when I am alone, that's how it is.
 
me12121 said:
Yeah, it's like this for me every Friday/Saturday night. I really wish someone was around sometimes.
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The one I thought would want me around does not....sucks to be kicked to the curb, but I know how it feels for sure....:(
 
Venusasaboy said:
Why is that? (*8*)
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Well, I say I'm "dumped twice" because the man I speak of (47yrs.old) is a very nice guy with great capacity for love....the many things that held us back from committing are:

He never worked AT ALL when we first met (he just got his job again as a truck driver) and bummed money from myself and OTHER MEN.....

How we met was strange (he came to my job to APPLY for work) which set off red flags there

We had great sex in the past but out personalities DO NOT MESH AT ALL

It's my fault I say bc I fell into the sex-by-night routine (I'm 26 yrs.old) and really have nothing else to say to him

Yet, I still return his phone calls to "talk" which means I entertain him as an interest

I tried to play the nice guy role and still get played

I'M REALLY NOT INTO HIM AT ALL....yet, I feel remorseful still of dissing him

Pity sex and convo REALLY IS NOT WORTH IT...

I can go on and on....
 
reone said:
Sounds like you need to move on...
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And let go of being involved with another (on any level) out of pity??? I agree..

I know how it feels to be used for one thing (sex/money/attention etc.) then kicked to the curb... I don't like the idea of anyont being lonely (ironically, how I feel right now)

You're right, though- I'm too much of a worrier instead of a "doer"
 
very lonely actually...=(
watched movies with my parents, i feel like an Uber-Loser...
plans with straight friends tomorrow, but Friday always depresses me when im alone...
 
I'm apart of this group, lately I've been stressed and lonely I have no idea why, must be Spring. Plus feel very unappreciated most of the time.
 
NYDan815 said:
very lonely actually...=(
watched movies with my parents, i feel like an Uber-Loser...
plans with straight friends tomorrow, but Friday always depresses me when im alone...
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The real loser is me... I helped my mom FOLD LAUNDRY!!!!

Boredom does strange things....
 
GamerBear said:
I'm apart of this group, lately I've been stressed and lonely I have no idea why, must be Spring. Plus feel very unappreciated most of the time.
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I don't feel underappreciated actually, it's the idea of being "voted off"

Even though it's just for sex, he STILL HAS NOT CALLED BACK.....which puts his "I LOVE YOU" BS to rest...I always knew he's "taken care of" elseswhere
 
i mean i hung out with a friend like till 6ish (hes got some strict dinner times and stuff) but god, just felt alone tonite lol.

maybe some comfort here with my fellow non-losers, lol
 
9Times said:
I don't feel underappreciated actually, it's the idea of being "voted off"

Even though it's just for sex, he STILL HAS NOT CALLED BACK.....which puts his "I LOVE YOU" BS to rest...I always knew he's "taken care of" elseswhere
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Its what I feel, though I do understand how you feel.
 
NYDan815 said:
i mean i hung out with a friend like till 6ish (hes got some strict dinner times and stuff) but god, just felt alone tonite lol.

maybe some comfort here with my fellow non-losers, lol
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And I'm hungry for some Waffle House hashbrowns :) so food truly is a comfort...
 
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