Im Totally betraying a friend....

[LatinoSTAR]

Ok, So my bestfriend Eva got this new boyfriend, totally fucking gorgeous, tall, six pack, puerto rican, and i was sooo jealous of her, cuz he was the definition of my type..so on the 4th of july, i went with him to get some alcohol for the party, he pulls over, and asks me really politely to suck his dick, cuz he wants to know what it feels like to be with a guy, so i do it, knowing this is her boyfriend, and i kinda get a high from it, needless to say, weve been fucking around a lot behind her back from that moment...

Hes been sending me all these pictures to my email of him naked and whatnot.
i can tell hes into me.....but man, its killing me knowing im fucking around with my bestfriends man, but shes really not my bestfriend, shes a total bitch, she even came at me with a knife, but we have lots of fun together...

which is why i feel guilty, but i dont, i dont want to tell her, which im probably not going to, cuz im afraid of what she'll do to me...

and also, i do not want it to end with him, he is the hottest guy ive ever laid eyes on, literally....words cant describe him, best sex ive ever had in my life, hes so aggressive.....and im starting to feel like hes really into me, like not in love with me, but almost there.....im so confused........

 

[LatinoSTAR]

You should cut it out...

Your gonna lose both of them..

i know, i feel soooo bad, but for some reason, i like it, its like another high to me......

 

[spooger]

let's see, here....

she came at you with a knife...and

he came at you with his dick.....

you're blowing him, he's porking you...and she doesn't know?....

dude...we're going to be seeing your story on some morbid late night "you-won't-believe-what-she-did-to-him" t.v. docudrama bullshit....

or maybe on jerry springer....

you live close to the edge, LS....good luck!...

 

[LatinoSTAR]

let's see, here....

she came at you with a knife...and

he came at you with his dick.....

you're blowing him, he's porking you...and she doesn't know?....

dude...we're going to be seeing your story on some morbid late night "you-won't-believe-what-she-did-to-him" t.v. docudrama bullshit....

or maybe on jerry springer....

you live close to the edge, LS....good luck!...

ill take a knife for his dick any damn day of the year. its that good....i swear....im in deep shit now.....the things i get myself into....every day of my life is like a sitcom..

 

[sabot3ur]

lol, I'm with kenny.

but yeah.. fucked up people ARE addictive, and hard to stay away from for long

 

[StlKj]

You're addicted to chaos, STAR, and if you can't find it, you'll generate it. That's the high you're getting. It's not so much the guy, it's the guy-of-the-best-friend-who-is-crazy-and-will-kill-you that gets you off even more than he does.

 

[G-Lexington]

Why are you confused? You've made your choice - stick with it. We'll be here for you when you start the "My ex-friend is such a bitch" thread.

Lex

 

[racer2438]

Then deal with the drama and live with the consequences.......

But if you respected your friend, you would have told this guy , thanks but no thanks.

there a lot of lack of respect, morals, and friends taking advantage of the situation...

your mirror must be fogged up..

 

[GL]

this is going to come back and bite you in the ass.

but this isn't entirely your fault. your friend's boyfriend has his share in this mess.

"from such crooked wood as that which man is made of, nothing straight can be fashioned." -immanuel kant

 

[Jaime]

sounds like you're starring in the first ohio-based telenovela...

i think i'm gonna have to tivo this!

 

[LatinoSTAR]

Then deal with the drama and live with the consequences.......

But if you respected your friend, you would have told this guy , thanks but no thanks.

there a lot of lack of respect, morals, and friends taking advantage of the situation...

your mirror must be fogged up..

Shit, if you saw this guy, your morals would fly out the window, its hard to resist someone like him...lol

but thanks for all your support guys.......i really appreciate it, and yes, i lead a very drama filled life, but thats my own fault for being stubborn, stupid, and easily tempted..

 

[LatinoSTAR]

sounds like you're starring in the first ohio-based telenovela...

i think i'm gonna have to tivo this!

OMG, thats exactley what i said to my other friend, not the one im stabbing in the back...

 

[GL]

Shit, if you saw this guy, your morals would fly out the window, its hard to resist someone like him...lol

i'm sorry but that's bullshit.

if you had an honest bone in your body and actually cared for your friend you would have found some way to quell your baser desires.

why is it that gay men use such rationale as yours to justify such behavior? i guess you can't trust anyone at all in this day and age.

 

[G-Lexington]

GL, I don't think LS is looking for advice. He's looking for applause. Either start clappng or see yourself out.

Lex

 

[StlKj]

I would imagine it's easy to stab a best friend in the back if you know she's also good with a knife.

 

[LatinoSTAR]

i'm sorry but that's bullshit.

if you had an honest bone in your body and actually cared for your friend you would have found some way to quell your baser desires.

why is it that gay men use such rationale as yours to justify such behavior? i guess you can't trust anyone at all in this day and age.

i care for my friend, in a twisted way..

but, at the same time, its her own damn fault, if she would of been giving some good pussy, then this would never of happened, he even told me himself, thats why he wanted me to suck him off in the first place, cuz he was sooo damn horny, he thought it would be a one time thing, but he liked it, so he kept coming back for more......i cant help it, and i havnt been with a good guy in such a long time, he makes me feel different...and i like that feeling....but at the same time, i feel so bad for her, cuz its been a long time since shes been with a good man, all her other boyfriends beat her up.....and im ruining that....im just sooo torn, i think, do i care about the way i feel, or do i care about how she feels, i ultimatley choose myself...cuz ive lived my own experience, and i havnt lived hers, i dont know how she really feels, but i know exactley how i feel, so thats why i let it go on..

 

[sabot3ur]

I can take a reeeeeeally good guess at how she'd feel.

 

[The_Reaper]

Well, it seems like you've gotten yourself into quite the tricky situation.

Rather than condemn you for fooling around with a friend's man, which I will leave up to others who can likely do a better job, I will propose something else.

I'd figure out what is going on between you and him. If he's bi, then whatever. But if he's still calling himself straight, and doesn't count what you guys do together or what have you; you may have a bigger problem than just your best friend.

First and foremost however; SHE WILL find out about what you two are doing. Law of averages; it's just going to be revealed at some time and the potential problems that come from it may be worse considering the length of time in which it's been happening; and even worse that she found out about it on her own.

Once you can identify what you have with him, only then should you two figure out what to do from there. If this is just him testing the waters of his sexuality, then you have another problem. If this is him coming out as gay or bi, and he's comfortable with you and such, then whatever.

I will say this though, chances are, if he's already cheated on his girlfriend with you; chances are he's going to be fooling around with someone else rather than just yourself. Chances are even good that perhaps you aren't the first guy he's fooled around with.

Get the answers to that, before you start falling head over heels with this guy; because it sounds like both, him and your friend; have means of hurting you.

 

[Croynan]

i'm sorry but that's bullshit.

if you had an honest bone in your body and actually cared for your friend you would have found some way to quell your baser desires.


why is it that gay men use such rationale as yours to justify such behavior? i guess you can't trust anyone at all in this day and age.

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eM.

 

[Croynan]

has he discussed any of the other men he has done the same thing with but involving different girl friends.?????

you're being quite naive about this whole matter and the long this goes on the messier it is going to be when the walls come crumbling down.

eM.