Im Totally betraying a friend....

[yellowminicooper]

Well, it seems like you've gotten yourself into quite the tricky situation.

Rather than condemn you for fooling around with a friend's man, which I will leave up to others who can likely do a better job, I will propose something else.

I'd figure out what is going on between you and him. If he's bi, then whatever. But if he's still calling himself straight, and doesn't count what you guys do together or what have you; you may have a bigger problem than just your best friend.

First and foremost however; SHE WILL find out about what you two are doing. Law of averages; it's just going to be revealed at some time and the potential problems that come from it may be worse considering the length of time in which it's been happening; and even worse that she found out about it on her own.

Once you can identify what you have with him, only then should you two figure out what to do from there. If this is just him testing the waters of his sexuality, then you have another problem. If this is him coming out as gay or bi, and he's comfortable with you and such, then whatever.

I will say this though, chances are, if he's already cheated on his girlfriend with you; chances are he's going to be fooling around with someone else rather than just yourself. Chances are even good that perhaps you aren't the first guy he's fooled around with.

Get the answers to that, before you start falling head over heels with this guy; because it sounds like both, him and your friend; have means of hurting you.

Good advice.

 

[LatinoSTAR]

has he discussed any of the other men he has done the same thing with but involving different girl friends.?????

you're being quite naive about this whole matter and the long this goes on the messier it is going to be when the walls come crumbling down.

eM.

hes never been with another guy, he'd always had thoughts of doing it, but never had the oppurtunity until i was alone with him in that car..


i guess it very hard to comprehend, knowing many of you have never been in this kind of position, the feeling i get from doing all this is like a drug, the feeling i get is overwhelming, the feeling you get where its so powerful, you dont care about who you hurt.......knowing infact i have been addicted to many drugs during my life, im just trying to make sense of it all...i guess.

 

[JUBber-X]

You shouldn't feel any guilt since you're not the one to blame for this mess. It's her boyfriend's fault for being so hot and horny and it's also you friend's fault for being a lousy fuck.

You shouldn't feel bad in the slightest.

 

[LatinoSTAR]

Have you thought about you're feeling "high" from having sex with him because you're screwing a friend's bf.

Tell the friend what you did and I bet you the high feeling will be gone.

i know its from the fact im fucking him behind her back, its the feeling of getting caught.....idk i cant explain it....

but yeah, i know, thats why i dont plan on tellin the bitch...

i guess ive always lived on the edge....you know, doing something you know your not supposed to.

 

[LatinoSTAR]

She your friend and a bitch...

She can't be both.

I'm sorry, but a true friend never does this to another friend.

If a friend of hers does this to her, what will an enemy do?

she aint my TRUE friend, shes twofaced as hell, shes just my party partner, we have a lot of fun together. its kind of like that old saying, keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer, shes not my enemie, more like a Frienemie..yeah shes cool to party with, but beyond that....nope. we have a very twisted friendship..........

 

[Jaime]

if that's you in your av, then i can see why he left her for you...

 

[LatinoSTAR]

You're doing this to hurt her or this is payback?

Be careful when she finds out. And they always find out.

its not revenge....


and your tellin me, she'll cut my ass up, now shes a true puerto rican, she loves her knives....if shes gonna find out, its gonna be from him, cuz i keep secrets very well...but your right....she will find out eventully....and hell will raise....cuz when she found out her ex boyfriend was cheating on her back when we were 16....she beat the shit out of the girl, broke 3 ribs on her, knocked out 5 teeth, she went to juvie for 4 months for aggravated assault....so i know ill be the one she comes after...

 

[versatastic]

Is this a case of "bros before hos"?


Seriously though, the high you get from being so mischievious is one thing, but you obviously don't value her as a close enough friend if you're fucking her bf behind her back. And there's nothing wrong with that if you're not doing it just to hurt her, but you might wanna get yourself some mace just in case she comes at you with a knife when she finds out.

 

[CSI_3Stokes]

Take it where ye can get it.

 

[Centexfarmer]

hes never been with another guy, he'd always had thoughts of doing it, but never had the oppurtunity until i was alone with him in that car..


i guess it very hard to comprehend, knowing many of you have never been in this kind of position, the feeling i get from doing all this is like a drug, the feeling i get is overwhelming, the feeling you get where its so powerful, you dont care about who you hurt.......knowing infact i have been addicted to many drugs during my life, im just trying to make sense of it all...i guess.

Been there done that, bought the shirt and took it back because it was TOO SMALL!

I hate to rain on your parade, but there's a chance this this guy is playing both of you for fools.

Any guy who will "cheat" on his whoever, will sure as hell cheat on YOU TOO!

And, somehow I can't stop thinking, if this guy wasn't dipping his dick into your friends naughty-bits (think about that the next time you're swallowing his cock up to his balls), he probably wouldn't be nearly as hot as you think.

If there's one thing that I've learned, no matter how great the six-pack, or how big the dick, or cute the smile, or how wonderful you might think that the guy is, it's a sure bet that somebody somewhere is sick and tired of his shit.

So if that's what your friendship means with this "bitch" that you call a friend, knock yourself out.

Just don't be surprised if her guy that you're sucking isn't as perfect as you seem to think that the situation is.

I'm not saying, I'm just saying.

 

[supergurl]

Been there done that, bought the shirt and took it back because it was TOO SMALL!

I hate to rain on your parade, but there's a chance this this guy is playing both of you for fools.

Any guy who will "cheat" on his whoever, will sure as hell cheat on YOU TOO!

And, somehow I can't stop thinking, if this guy wasn't dipping his dick into your friends naughty-bits (think about that the next time you're swallowing his cock up to his balls), he probably wouldn't be nearly as hot as you think.

If there's one thing that I've learned, no matter how great the six-pack, or how big the dick, or cute the smile, or how wonderful you might think that the guy is, it's a sure bet that somebody somewhere is sick and tired of his shit.

So if that's what your friendship means with this "bitch" that you call a friend, knock yourself out.

Just don't be surprised if her guy that you're sucking isn't as perfect as you seem to think that the situation is.

I'm not saying, I'm just saying.

YOU BETTER SAY THAT!!!!!! YES INDEED!

 

[supergurl]

I COULD NEVER DO ANYTHING LIKE THIS TO MY BEST FRIEND! I'VE KNOWN HER FOR ALMOST 10 YEARS NOW AND AM GODFATHER TO HER BABY GIRL!

BUT AS YOU SAID THAT THAT BITCH REALLY ISN'T A FRIEND ANYWAY....BUT THE THING IS THAT I THINK THAT YOU WOULD DO IT ANYWAY REAL FRIEND OR NOT!-------FEELS TO DAMN GOOD TO STOP.........RIGHT?

 

[Giovanni]

With friends like you, who needs enemies?

 

[rareboy]

but man, its killing me knowing im fucking around with my bestfriends man, but shes really not my bestfriend, shes a total bitch, she even came at me with a knife, but we have lots of fun together...

You are all apparently getting exactly what you wished for and deserve.

I had to hold my nose while reading this thread.

Nice.

Very nice.

 

[1gayguy]

Sorry but no amount of "he has the most amazing" or "it's such a high" justifies this kind of behavior.
Do you have any self respect?
Or how about the ability to say no.

Thankfully it's not my life.

 

[star-warrior]

I'm with Kenny, don't. Otherwise you'll get a rep for being a cunt.

 

[andysayshi]

Errrr... ummm... hmmmmm...

You're not much of a friend.

He's not much much of a boyfriend.

She sounds psychotic.

You kids have fun!

 

[gabriel1]

GL, I don't think LS is looking for advice. He's looking for applause. Either start clappng or see yourself out.

Lex

*Holds the door open for GL and follows his cute ass out, then watches door on this thread close*