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I'm very emotional. What should I do?

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It's not your news to tell. You're going to have to bite your tongue.

That said, your sister should probably tell the rest of your family.
 
My prayers are with you and your sister .... However; She told you a confidence ... IF she wants, then she should tell the family. IF not; you just need to keep her secret.
 
Piggy; I know this has to have hit you like a ton of bricks. Be there for your sister, but respect her wishes. I'm sure she'll be willing to tell others once she's accustomed to the situation.
 
Piggy said:
How can I keep this secret from my family?
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Simple.

Don't talk to them about it.

You shouldn't worry about how they would feel about it, you should only be worrying about how you can be there for your sister.
 
I believe in prayer and I'll certainly say a prayer for your sister and for you. Let your sister spread the news. She has to tell someone else before surgery and she will when she is ready. I hope you have great news to share after surgery. Tell her to check with the doctors about chemo and radiation as a proactive treatment even if they think surgery got it all. You can never be too proactive about cancer. There, I took a moment for my prayer. May God bless your family.
 
Piggy...

Well, Sweetness... I'm not sure why she would want to keep such a
thing from her family.....

My advice is generic, but none the less true....

Just be there for her....
 
Hey Piggy,
I send prayers out for you and your sister. I (we) went through that three years ago.

Try and be strong for her.
 
OMG!

I am soooo very sorry to hear about your sister!

YOU and she have every right to be emotional; but listen, BOTH of you need your entire family's support...

I do hope she wants to involve the family from the very beginning; for it's just too, too much for you all to endure by yourselves!

How sad, indeed; but theseadays, having cancer is NOT necessarily a death sentence; but with the improvements in medical science and with early detection, it's entirely possible to become cancer free/in remission!

So, sweetie, know that your JUBBERS are behind you 110%, and try and get your beloved Sis to tell your family right away to get ALL the family involvement that's needed right NOW!

Hang in there my friend!(*8*)(*8*):kiss::kiss:
 
It certainly is ultimately your sister's decision to make,but she really needs the love and support of your whole family.Hopefully you can help her to understand this,Piggy...but you have to respect her wishes until and if she is ready to share the news.It's a terrible thing to hear for someone so young especially,and my thoughts are with her and your family.(*8*)
 
Sorry to hear of your sister's illness.

You have received good advice from friends, and I have nothing to add, except to remind you that although she has cancer, cancer need not have her.
 
I think she is making a mistake. The story seems familiar - when someone holds back crucial medical information from the family, it causes hurt. They are going to find out sometime and finding out later rather than sooner is not good.
 
I'm sorry to learn of your sister's diagnosis... :(

Cancer is a scary thing - and something no one should face alone. Talk with your sister, and see if you can convince her to tell the rest of your family. This is time for you to all pull together as a family. Speaking from experience, you're all going to need strength from each other.

Hang in there... You'll all be kept close in thought and prayer. (*8*)
 
She needs to process what's happening.

Once she's able to deal with what's going on, she may very well decided to tell them, but it's her life and her decision.

Just be there to support her.

She will be in my thoughts and prayers.
 
(*8*)Piggy, tell your sister that whether she wants to or not she needs to inform the rest of the family as to what's going on. She's not going tobe able to hide her treatment from other family members so why add more stress to the situation.
You know your family better than we do. Is there any good reason, and I do mean reason not an excuse or rationalization, as to why the rest of the family shouldn't be included?
I think it's unfairof your sister to put you in such a posistion.The fact that she told you says that she needs to let others know.
My prayers go out to and for both of you.(*8*)
 
Piggy

Support your sister

It is not up to you to tell your family if she wishes not to

But, you can encourage her to let them know by gently suggesting and reminding her of the added support and encouragment she can get from them as well.
 
My best wishes. While she asked you to keep it a secret, I would ask her how you could help her tell the rest of the family.
 
Piggy

Follow your heart................I most truly believe that postive thoughts and energies are very helpful in fighting cancer............I send my best to you and your family-------Yuki
 
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