IMPORTANT sisters bf sleep over

[chace1617]

my sister has a boyfriend about 2 months now, he is 20 gorgeous, drop dead body, blonde and masculine. at first i didn't consider doing anything with him cause ''he's too str8 to to do something with me'', the thing is that he lives very far away from where we live so he meets my sister once a week or so. today he came to our house and the last time he was with her is a week ago. he prefered spend time with me than my sister, came in my room we chatted asked if i could download him some songs and burn them to a cd, we were like 2 hours together and my sister was in her room dressing up so they could go out tonight. then my mother asked him where he's like to sleep at night and he prefered my room with me!!! i was like wtf? he is very nice with me but i don't know him very well, what is he up to? do you think i should do something tonight ? i know it's wrong what i am thinking but he gives me the vibes, and my sister is hot anyway so she will definately find someone else! he doesn't know i am gay though i pretend i am str8 as always, i haven't had sex since i was 15!!! i need your advise really soon cause we're about to spend the night together after he comes home with my sis

 

[NSX577]

I wouldn't do anything with your sister's boyfriend because one night of fun can create a world of drama in your household. Is it really worth your sister and parent's being mad at you? Also what if he doesn't feel the same way, then he will never feel comfortable around you again. Too much too loose here.

 

[theFallenGod]

He doesn't know you're gay. He thinks you're straight. Why would a straight man try to sleep with another straight man when he has a "hot" girlfriend in the next room?

He hung out with you because he was trying to be friendly with his gf's family. When I first met my bf's family I hung out with his sisters while he was busy working. His older sister and I have a lot in common. That didn't mean I wanted to do anything with them. I was making a good impression on his family getting to know them.

Also When your mother asked where he would prefer to sleep, he was being a gentleman and offering not to sleep with your sister under your parents roof. It's a polite thing to do and shows he cares about proving he is a gentleman to your parents.

He's dating your sister. He's just not into you.


I know that when one of these threads pop up its usually from someone who wants to be told to go ahead and do it, consequences be damned but sometimes some people need to be hit over the head with the reality stick.

What if you did try something and found out he isn't at all into you the hard way? Way to ruin your sisters relationship.

There are plenty of eligible, single, gay men out there. Find one of them. Don't go after your sisters straight bf.


Oh yeah, and whatever you do, don't try to molest him while he's asleep. That's rape and it could land you in A LOT of trouble.

 

[PSCGuy]

my sister has a boyfriend about 2 months now, he is 20 gorgeous, drop dead body, blonde and masculine. at first i didn't consider doing anything with him cause ''he's too str8 to to do something with me'', the thing is that he lives very far away from where we live so he meets my sister once a week or so. today he came to our house and the last time he was with her is a week ago. he prefered spend time with me than my sister, came in my room we chatted asked if i could download him some songs and burn them to a cd, we were like 2 hours together and my sister was in her room dressing up so they could go out tonight. then my mother asked him where he's like to sleep at night and he prefered my room with me!!! i was like wtf? he is very nice with me but i don't know him very well, what is he up to? do you think i should do something tonight ? i know it's wrong what i am thinking but he gives me the vibes, and my sister is hot anyway so she will definately find someone else! he doesn't know i am gay though i pretend i am str8 as always, i haven't had sex since i was 15!!! i need your advise really soon cause we're about to spend the night together after he comes home with my sis

If you and your sister are both living and home, and her boyfriend is spending the night, 20 or not it is not outside reason he'd rather stay in your room than her's -- particularly if he's making the request of your mother.

You should absolutely not try anything. How would you feel if the roles were reversed, and your sister tried something with your boyfriend?

 

[chace1617]

Poor Chace, you're not going to sleep a wink tonight.

But hey, if he touches you first, It's On!!

hope he does!!! wish me luck!

 

[HunterM]

But hey, if he touches you first, It's On!!

Try spraying yourself with women's pheromones...so he couldn't resist to touch you first. Then you can always say, "He started it first. It's not my fault."

 

[vampsrock1992]

Chace If it was me i would try something but ive been single for 6 years and im desperate. But in your case if you did something and it didnt work out you would loose alot more than you would gain so i would say dont do anything. However if he makes the first move then jump in the saddle.

 

[whatdidyousay]

He doesn't know you're gay. He thinks you're straight. Why would a straight man try to sleep with another straight man when he has a "hot" girlfriend in the next room?

He hung out with you because he was trying to be friendly with his gf's family. When I first met my bf's family I hung out with his sisters while he was busy working. His older sister and I have a lot in common. That didn't mean I wanted to do anything with them. I was making a good impression on his family getting to know them.

Also When your mother asked where he would prefer to sleep, he was being a gentleman and offering not to sleep with your sister under your parents roof. It's a polite thing to do and shows he cares about proving he is a gentleman to your parents.

He's dating your sister. He's just not into you.


I know that when one of these threads pop up its usually from someone who wants to be told to go ahead and do it, consequences be damned but sometimes some people need to be hit over the head with the reality stick.

What if you did try something and found out he isn't at all into you the hard way? Way to ruin your sisters relationship.

There are plenty of eligible, single, gay men out there. Find one of them. Don't go after your sisters straight bf.


Oh yeah, and whatever you do, don't try to molest him while he's asleep. That's rape and it could land you in A LOT of trouble.

Listen to this wise man. Please.

 

[On The Edge]

I wudnt do anything...from what u said....it looks like his being friendly....and most BF's like to have a good relationship with they sisters brother....especially in the long run....

 

[chace1617]

damn, he didn't even sleep in my room last night i am so pissed!! i know i will die a virgin it's simple, sex is not in my life, it will never be, my karma thinks different tham me...
fuck!

 

[Ganoderma]

Hi Chace1617,

I tend to advise you to consider telling your family and friends that you are gay, so not staying in the closet anymore. Ofcourse, you don't need to do this immediately, and you can also come out of the closet in may other ways. Being honest to your friends and family will not lead to this kind of questions and/ or more of less awkward situations anymore. Moreover, I think you would like to have a guy to make fun with, and finding such a guy is much easier when people around you know that you are gay.

I also tend to agree with the advise given by 'theFallenGod'. So be very cautious with a guy you don't know very well, and who might become a long-term boyfriend of your sister. Its much, much better to develop a good friendship with him, and your sexuality is just part of your identity. So better just tell him (or let him know on another way) that you don't have a girlfriend because you are not interested in girls. etc.

Good luck.

 

[theFallenGod]

damn, he didn't even sleep in my room last night i am so pissed!! i know i will die a virgin it's simple, sex is not in my life, it will never be, my karma thinks different tham me...
fuck!

Don't be too upset that you don't have the right equipment for this guy... As I said earlier... find a gay man to have sex with... they would be interested and you will have sex.

Or else you could just pine away for guys who probably would never want you because a) they aren't gay and b) they don't even know you are gay and then you will die a virgin.

 

[Kabluey]

Can't imagine how your sister would feel if anything did happen.
That would be awkward

 

[borg69unimatrix]

This is little difference then those lusty feelings you had for the plumber/handyman a while back. If you're THAT anxious to get laid, you're going to have to start looking farther outside your door then whatever guy happens to wander into your house.

I understand you're horny and frustrated, but you're letting your hormones make up scenario's that just aren't there, and are going to eventually get you in a LOT of trouble!

 

[AlmondMilk]

damn, he didn't even sleep in my room last night i am so pissed!! i know i will die a virgin it's simple, sex is not in my life, it will never be, my karma thinks different tham me...
fuck!

Don't think of it as karma. It's a blessing he didn't sleep in your room.

You look at him with lust.

Definitely look the other way and treat him as if he's family. Have respect for your sister.

 

[chace1617]

what an awfull person i am... i feel so sorry for myself, how could i think doing something with my sisters bf? this is not me, i could never think like that in normal circumstances... it's the hormones that make me do and think stupid things! i need to get laid soon! ( or fall in love )

 

[borg69unimatrix]

You're now awful... Just horny and thinking with the little head a bit too much. I've been there a time or two myself. Just learn to recognize it for what it is, and not act on anything you'll regret later.

 

[Kabluey]

what an awfull person i am... i feel so sorry for myself, how could i think doing something with my sisters bf? this is not me, i could never think like that in normal circumstances... it's the hormones that make me do and think stupid things! i need to get laid soon! ( or fall in love )

You're not bad, you're just massively randy right now