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In a bit of a pickle

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So basically I'm still a gay virgin and I started talking to thid married daddy online, he wants to put me up in a hotel room for the night and pretty much do everything I want to try with him.

It's sounds hot, but I'm having second thoughts, should I just throw away my first time?#-o
 
It's not "throwing it away" if it's what you want. Just make sure this IS something you want. This guy is married. His loyalties, presumably, lie with his wife. He's interested in fooling around with you. Presumably only once. So if you decide you really loved the sex, and want more, you're probably not going to get it from him...or if you do, it'll not be on your schedule, but on his.

Are you cool with that?

Does he know what HE's in for? Have you made it clear specifically what you want to happen? Do you want to give oral, receive oral, top, bottom? Does he know this will be your first time, and you (presumably) are looking for someone to take it slow and "indoctrinate" you into the world of gay sex?

Is he cool with that?

If everybody's cool with it, then go for it. Bring condoms and lube - do NOT count on him doing that. And go have a good time. :)

Lex
 
If you appreciate your first time enough... I don't know the way you expect it for.
You wanna give it to the one you really care about? or you wanna try it with an experienced man? or you just wanna try it to satisfy your curiousness? Think about it and make sure you you won't regret in the future.
Sometimes I wanna try, but I'm afraid I'll regret, so I decide not to do something I'm not sure I want it or not. If you want it, cool. And be safe, and make sure he'll be gentle.
 
The way I understand it, you haven't met the guy. I would meet up at a public place, like a coffee shop, first. Make sure you give what information you have about the guy and the meet up, to a trusted friend. Don't let your cock overcome your brain. If you have bad vibes about the guy at first meeting, trust your intuition, cut it off.

People don't always tell the truth on the web.
 
There is no way I am meeting someone who confesses to being married for the first time in a motel room. I stress the married part because I don't trust cheaters and liars.
 
The way I understand it, you haven't met the guy. I would meet up at a public place, like a coffee shop, first. Make sure you give what information you have about the guy and the meet up, to a trusted friend. Don't let your cock overcome your brain. If you have bad vibes about the guy at first meeting, trust your intuition, cut it off.

People don't always tell the truth on the web.

^^^QTF

Don't go to a hotel with a stranger.

I'm sure it's quite noble for this "married daddy" to offer to "pretty much do everything I want". How nice of him to make the sacrifice of taking your virginity.

Not.

There's no shortage of guys that are willing to have sex with you and let you do all the experimentation that you want. You might actually find one that likes you and you might even find someone that you like.

You can do better than this.
 
Well, I've decided I will meet the guy and take it from there, if I don't like the guy, I'll totally cut it off.
 
Good luck to you....though I don't think that's a good decision... anyway...
 
I think that's a good idea, actually. Make sure you meet up at someplace public and neutral - a coffeeshop is good. And whatever happens, do NOT hook up with him that same day. Talk with him, get a good feel for him, then go home and mull it over (alone) for a day or two.

Lex
 
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