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In A Relationship with a Atheist

A couple I know the one guy is spiritual and likes to go to church. He doesn't push it in anyone's face, but it is something that gives him comfort. The BF is agonstic to atheist. He doesn't mind when the BF goes to church and the other guy doesn't mind that his BF doesn't want to go to church. It's just something the feel differently about. Since one is not trying to convince the other of anything then is just a difference between them. Like one having blue eyes and the other brown. In all other things they are alike. And they love each other.
 
Muskox said:
Notice that the people who say it shouldn't make any difference are not strongly committed to a particular faith. If your religion is a major force in your life, it does make a difference that your partner in all other matters is not a believer. Jeffrey, don't be embarrassed if your friend's lack of faith is a problem for you. How you feel about it is part of who you are. In these circumstances, you are going to have to adjust if the relationship is going to flourish. It's up to you.
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And notice all the people that say it WILL make a difference and he should be careful and consider it more of an obstacle are what most would consider pretty religious. I fail to see the point in your statement, since this was about the very topic of bridging the worlds of people who belive and people who don't in the first place... :confused:

But there is an air of truth there, if he consider's himself so religious that he buys into the idea that there's going to be some shitfest of trouble down the road b/c of this, maybe he should just not get involved with the guy.

But if there's any tolerance at all in his beliefs or emotions, then it really shouldn't matter, should it?
 
Don't make it a problem if it isn't there to begin with.

It can work. Unless both of you have overwhelming feelings about your perspective religious views, there's no need to fret.
 
Christians want to proselytize; Catholics want to conform?

A good balance is what you both need. Just sayin'.
 
Funny that Jeffery00, your inquiry is one of the same I made to my love having just come out as you indicate....believe me & others here: it wont matter that much when you look back.......
 
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