In love with a friend...

[Fetishboy64]

Hey yeah so im in love and i mean deep deep in love with my friend who I THINK is bi, he knows I'm bi and like him and he still hugs me and flirts with me but does it mean anything and what should I do? thanks

 

[anchihiro]

Well if he knows about your sexuality and that you like him, and if he is indeed bisexual too then i guess its up to him to make the next move.
I'm sure there will be some point where you two are alone together so maybe he will edge closer.

However, he maybe bisexual but not attracted to you, or it could all just be wishful thinking on your behalf and he's straight.
Don't ruin your friendship.

 

[Just_Believe18]

If nothing has happened at this point.. nothing is going to happen.

 

[TX-Beau]

...and if you don't already know what to do, you never will.

 

[TX-Beau]

Now that that is out of my system.

What do you want? What you do is entirely dependent on where you're going.

There isn't enough context above to say much more than that.

 

[catee222]

How did he react at first when he found out you liked him and how long ago was it?

Like anchihiro said, based on your friends' actions, it seems like he may be secretly bi/gay, but not attracted to you...or maybe he is straight, secure of his sexuality, and trusts that you won't make a move on him because you two have such a strong friendship. There are a ton of possibilities here, but I don't know the guy and there aren't that many details you gave, so I can't tell you what he thinks...

You practically "dropped your pants" in front of him as soon as he knew how you felt, yet he hasn't pounced on your dick... That's a sign to pull up your pants, step back, enjoy your friendship with him, and find someone else you can make sexy time with!

You gotta realize that if he really is gay or bi, that does not mean he's going to be attracted to every person of the same sex, and that especially includes friends.

 

[hey123sexy]

best thing to do is ask... It's very hard to assume things. Been to this situation already.

 

[Fetishboy64]

i forgot to say that my other friend told me that he told her that he likes me in that way and when i say i THINK i mean there was a big thing going around that he told my friend he was bisexual and he hasnt denied it or anything and when i told him he just said 'how do i know that you're not fucking around with me'

 

[hey123sexy]

oh i c... at least evrything's clear. You just need to talk to him and clear things up.

at least it would be a lot easier for you that u know for a fact he's a bisexual. Compared to my situation right now. been a year now and still don't know if he's straight or not.hehe...

 

[TX-Beau]

i forgot to say that my other friend told me that he told her that he likes me in that way and when i say i THINK i mean there was a big thing going around that he told my friend he was bisexual and he hasnt denied it or anything and when i told him he just said 'how do i know that you're not fucking around with me'

"....Suzy said you like guys..."

"...How do I know that's what Suzy said..."


Come on, all this needs is some passed notes and a pep rally, you're not 15. What do you want? What are you willing to do about that?

What's the point of asking us? We don't know, all you have to do is grab your scrotum and say something.

But you're not going to do that are you, you want guarantees.

If you love him that much, why aren't you willing to make that gamble. It's never going to change, you're always going to have to risk yourself, and if you never do, you never get anywhere - and this is all pointless.

So I repeat, what do you want? What are you willing to do to get it?

Frankly if he's not mature enough to meet you halfway, he's not mature enough for a real relationship anyway.