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In love with way older straight man

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Oke so wanna get this off my chest, dunno if Im right here but ill just post it.

Now Im in love with my boss, you know that feeling that I get home and cant stop thinking bout him and wanna be with him, and when Im working with him hormones spinning through my body.
But the problem is: Im 20 yrs old and hes 59 yrs old + he has children a little older than me and a girlfriend, so basically I dont got a chance. It makes me really stressed out.

Is that weird, to fall in love with a man 3 times my age, or do you guys think more people wil have this problem?
Im not out of the closet yet, only told one person yet.
Now I dont think I can tell him as then there are gonna be only awkward moments left and I think Ill be to ashamed to go to work and cant search another job as I don’t have any higher school grades YET.

Cant talk bout it with anyone so hopefully there are people over here with some good advice.
Been thinking a long time if it would be smart to post over here but its nowhere on the internet.
So what would you do in this situation? Cause Im getting really depressed right now.
 
Welcome to JUB!

It is not weird to fall for a much older man. It is not good to fall for a man who is straight...a man who is taken (gay or straight)...a man who does not and will not return your affections (gay or straight).

Because you're not out, you're tormenting yourself by focusing on your boss. You need to go out and make new gay friends. Go out and date gay men.
 
I hope its not weird to fall in love with a guy that has a large age differance!! I am attracted to much younger guys myself and I see nothing wrong with it. Yes, the guy may be in a differant stage in his life than you, but that dosen't mean you can't have a lot of things in common! I wish you all the best! Hope you find someone that is available that you can have a relastionship with!
 
Thanks for the replies! Wanted to know this. Good to know its not that weird. Its gonna be hard but Imma make it haha.
Thanks!
 
Welcome! When a guy is in the closet he has a greater chance of having strong feelings for, and even fixating on, a guy who's already in his life, especially if that guy is nice or has given him some attention. Coming out will get you out of your head and into life. Good luck to you.
 
^ Exactly. Branch yourself out socially so you can focus on men who also feel the way you do and are more in a position to be available.
 
Good news is you're not in love with him at all. You're crushing on him, and fixating, and creating a fantasy. None of it is real. When you come out, and meet a wonderful gay guy who wants you as much as you want him, THAT will be real.
 
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