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Attention IN MEMORIAM: JUBBERS/SOCK PUPPEETS/TROLLS WHO LEFT in 2013
- Thread starter palbert
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It appears AshyPhoenix went inactive about 1/25.
EuroSoccer
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He said he was taking a break of few days............
xbuzzerx
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Yeah, self imposed break as far as I know, he said see you guys in a few days.
justanothershyguy
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What you call 'sucking up', others call 'cheering up'. Varying personalities, varying results.
xbuzzerx
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I see tough love as pointless in a situation where I can't, as a close friend or relative, actually put the person in my car and drive them to getting help. If you're giving "tough love" over the internet it's just a euphemism for being mean imo. Tough love isn't about just giving someone a rough and negative analysis of themselves and walking away. It involves follow up and an intent to do whatever it takes to make the help happen the way it needs to.
When someone comes here open about their problem, and their need for help, and their acknowledgment of needing that help, and talks about their plan and appointments to get that help, showing support isn't "burying your head in the sand." It's showing support. None of us are in any position to effect any real-life influence on whether or not someone gets help or improves. It's all we can do here. Tough love here is just "I'm gonna be negative."
I would consider some of my posts to Refuji to have been some variant of "tough love" but the truth is I can't control where he goes with any of it-- so harping on him nonstop about anything is just being mean and it's not productive.
borg69unimatrix
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I could be wrong, but I seriously doubt Ashy was affected by anything illgetbi said. He has a LOT tougher skin then that, and a quick enough wit to fire back scathing replies that would melt off anyone's face.
Ashy was taking time off earlier, and I believe he just popped back on long enough to let everyone know he was (for the most part) doing ok and still alive - and probably to stop me from spam posting his FB letting him know people here were worried about him.
Ashy was taking time off earlier, and I believe he just popped back on long enough to let everyone know he was (for the most part) doing ok and still alive - and probably to stop me from spam posting his FB letting him know people here were worried about him.
xbuzzerx
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I'll END YOU, Kien!
G-Lexington
Lex. Icon. Devil.
I have a feeling time will prove him 100% correct in doing so, though. I do wish Ashy the best, but I have a feeling he hasn't hit bottom yet.
Lex
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I would agree.
Ashy would tell you that a few years ago, no one was as hard on his ass as I was....and you know what I mean so get your heads out of the gutter.
I have made it clear to him that no matter how we sometimes slide...he is always safe and welcome here...everyone only wants the best for him because he has been an inspiration to so many.
I think everyone sees what a good, kind, clever and very human person that he is.
I don't think that illgetbi did any harm in his response...but he may have made Dante realize that it was time to get serious about coming back to an optimal state of health.
I love them both like brothers oddly enough and I won't hear anything bad about either of them. They are as imperfect as I am...so I enjoy their company.
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What psychopathy is this?
xbuzzerx
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As I said in another thread... Wanker90. He was legendary... someone everyone should emulate. I'm sure guys won't mind when you take photos of their butts in Bestbuy. I wish they didn't ban him
To me that was definitely the point where it stopped being rather yawn-inducingly self-absorbed and started to be actively creepy.
At least it was active something. Wish andreus, wanker, enchanted and, yes, navygaytion were here to stir the place up. This board has become a gay Redbook.
Just sayin'.
G-Lexington
Lex. Icon. Devil.
If I ever meet you in person, I'm totally taking you outside, kicking your ass, and fucking what's left.
Hey, just trying to keep things interesting.
Lex
Only if you post the video here.
Don't know opinterph's dietary requirement.
Talk later: have to catch the weather report in HT.
G-Lexington
Lex. Icon. Devil.
I can already hear the complaints.
* "This video promotes gay-bashing!"
* "Come on - neither of those guys are really gay. They're only gay-bash-for-pay."
* "Why doesn't that guy shave? Doesn't he care how he looks? Body hair is GROSS!"
* "JUB models are fugly. Get that guy from that pay website to beat up that other guy from that other pay website, and then fuck him, and then post the video here for free! Or I'll stop visiting this website!"
* "Where the fuck is the lemon curd?"
Lex
xbuzzerx
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"Um I'm sorry guys but that video was totally hot. Anyone know links to more porn like that?"
Is there something you might want to tell us about this? Pink or blue?