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Muscles4daze

Muscles4daze

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Say you came across a guy who posses the typical male characteristics, deeply in to sports etc., no feminine characteristics at all but he never mentions a girlfriend or even talks about females in casual conversation, and when a hott chick shows interest in him he brushes it off, what would you think?
 
Could be suspicious but I've known straight guys who seemed asexual or something until they met the right person and then married them.
 
Riverrick said:
Could be suspicious but I've known straight guys who seemed asexual or something until they met the right person and then married them.
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That's what I thinking. I pay close attention during our conversations, but still no mention of a girlfriend or even hey that chick is hott, but he loves his sports.
 
Muscles4daze said:
That's what I thinking. I pay close attention during our conversations, but still no mention of a girlfriend or even hey that chick is hott, but he loves his sports.
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Maybe he's into jock straps. ;)
 
Riverrick said:
Could be suspicious but I've known straight guys who seemed asexual or something until they met the right person and then married them.
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This is most likely the situation. I've seen it before.
 
I'd look for more clues before asking him. I think he would deny it anyway if he is that cautious. Get a cup of coffee and get to know him. You can pick up signals from the conversation. Eventually, alcohol is a great excuse for those who do not want to openly admit they are gay. Have a couple of drinks together and provide him the excuse if he needs it.
 
lonnie1 said:
I'd look for more clues before asking him. I think he would deny it anyway if he is that cautious. Get a cup of coffee and get to know him. You can pick up signals from the conversation. Eventually, alcohol is a great excuse for those who do not want to openly admit they are gay. Have a couple of drinks together and provide him the excuse if he needs it.
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He seems a little shy, but I am gonna try and probe a little deeper, but to be honest I am a little shy myself when it comes to guys, but I am really in to this dude.
 
Since you are apparently not the closest of the buddies, I'd stop definitely short of asking him anything that has to do with his sexual life. He might want to keep that bit to himself alone. Asking anything of the kind just might be the best way to send an immediate alarm thru his system and he may shut you out completely.

I have come across a few dudes over the years, who would never speak about their sexuality. They would certainly never admit to being gay, homosexual or anything. If the convenient and very private situation presented itself, they'd happily go with the flow but would never verbalize the issue.

It takes all kinds.

SC
 
SilverRRCloud said:
Since you are apparently not the closest of the buddies, I'd stop definitely short of asking him anything that has to do with his sexual life. He might want to keep that bit to himself alone. Asking anything of the kind just might be the best way to send an immediate alarm thru his system and he may shut you out completely.

I have come across a few dudes over the years, who would never speak about their sexuality. They would certainly never admit to being gay, homosexual or anything. If the convenient and very private situation presented itself, they'd happily go with the flow but would never verbalize the issue.

It takes all kinds.

SC
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Best advice so far, he seems like a private guy, so I don't want to put him on the spot and make him uncomfortable.
 
It sounds as if there is a decent chance that he could be gay... or maybe not even know what he likes yet. How old is he?

Also, the fact that he loves sports or doesn't have feminine characteristics doesn't mean anything.

I love sports and hate musicals - and yet... I'M GAY!! (!)
 
Drops of Jupiter said:
It sounds as if there is a decent chance that he could be gay... or maybe not even know what he likes yet. How old is he?

Also, the fact that he loves sports or doesn't have feminine characteristics doesn't mean anything.

I love sports and hate musicals - and yet... I'M GAY!! (!)
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He's in his mid-twenties, and I never hear a mention of a girlfriend during our conversations.
 
I have found that most of the guys that I hang out with that are sports fanatics can't stop talking about women. Even if they don't have a "girlfriend" its about some piece of ass on tv or in a restaurant or something. So his absence of "girl" talk is a bit puzzeling. I think its not out of the relm of possibilities he might be gay. But I would just talk to him like normal. Are you out to him? If not bring up some girl in the office, or go to lunch with him and make some comment about a waitress and see what he has to say? It can't hurt, but I wouldn't come out and ask him. It is possible he might just be the shy type that dosen't really bring up his love life with co-workers?
 
natedogg323 said:
I have found that most of the guys that I hang out with that are sports fanatics can't stop talking about women. Even if they don't have a "girlfriend" its about some piece of ass on tv or in a restaurant or something. So his absence of "girl" talk is a bit puzzeling. I think its not out of the relm of possibilities he might be gay. But I would just talk to him like normal. Are you out to him? If not bring up some girl in the office, or go to lunch with him and make some comment about a waitress and see what he has to say? It can't hurt, but I wouldn't come out and ask him. It is possible he might just be the shy type that dosen't really bring up his love life with co-workers?
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Well this hot chick at the office is really in to him, but he just brushes it off when other co-workers brings it to his attention, he tends to change the subject, and to be honest there is a lot of gorgeous girls at my job that make me do a double take and he doesn't even look in their direction, no stare, nothing.
 
Muscles4daze said:
Say you came across a guy who posses the typical male characteristics, deeply in to sports etc., no feminine characteristics at all but he never mentions a girlfriend or even talks about females in casual conversation, and when a hott chick shows interest in him he brushes it off, what would you think?
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Not only have I come across them, I've cum in them.

It's hardly a rarity man, some homos just don't give off the 'traditional gay vibe'.
 
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