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Hey I just rly wanted some honest opinions from guys around my own age (19) and older guys experience.

Would you ever fool around with a guy (me!) who was 2-3" soft, and about 5" hard? Could you ever honestly be turned on by him, or would if just turn you off.

I'm not that tall, about 5ft 8" but still my small penis is made to look even smaller. :( I'm not overweight, I think I might even be slighly athletic built (I like to run).

At college we never rly did sports to the extent where we needed to shower (not that the showers worked I think...) so I've never had any way to compare, not any redicule yet.

Oh yea, and I'm completely inexperienced so I havn't had anyone to ask that I would be comfortable asking.

The average internet surveys seem to average out about 5.5-6" but I just wondered if people might be OK to say what their partners have been and whether it was a issue.


Hope I havn't offended anyone it's just that I rly need some honest advice. Also I guess penis size is a rather FAQ so I'll apologise in advance for annoying the veterans. ;/
 
I've only had one guy with what could be considered a small penis...and it was the first guy I ever actually sucked off. And I don't think it was the penis that turned me off...it was the guy himself...I don't see why it would turn a person off unless they are a huge size queen. It should be the person that turns you on and not the size of his penis!
 
please lover,

some of us PERFER smaller dicks..

lol

five inches? That's not small, baby. That's just right.

:)

(God, I sound creepy)
 
I also prefer to have sex with a guy with a smaller size penis. Your stats are just what I like to find when I begin to have fun with someone. And everything else that you describe about yourself makes you even more desirable! I hope you find someone who is not hung up on size (pun intended) and you have wonderful experiences.
 
oh yeah I definitely would. For me attraction is in the face and body type. It's not in the cock size. In fact, cock like that is easier to take in the mouth whole :) and sometimes it's more fun that way as I like taking cock all the way in my mouth.

Cock size matters, but in this case it is within the normal range, and it will be just fine for me.

EDIT: I had an experience with a guy where I was apprehensive about my performance -- getting hard. I was not hard by the time he was ready to suck me, but he told me to just relax. And I did. And it was awesome !! I had an awesome time and so did he. Having a good partner who watches out for you is great. He made me feel Super !! even that I was apprehensive about myself before. Thus what I'm saying is having the right partner is important. A few of those and your concern will vanish.

Of course there may be a few who will comment on your size, but know that
* these people are not as experienced as they don't care about their partner's feelings and they haven't been out much yet, or they'd know that dicks come in all sizes and each one is fine.
* your dick is just fine. It's yours -- love it, kiss it, enjoy it :)
* there are people who like your dick just as much as you do and more.
 
I dated a guy who was maybe 4 1/2" hard. We dated for almost 3 years. He was over 6 foot tall and was extremely embarrassed by his dick size. I told him it didn't matter. He was a great kisser and had a fantastic ass.
 
Some people might not want to do anything. Other guys don't care. Personally, I don't care. The guy I fooled around with didn't care either. I would try not to worry about it since in the moment, size usually isn't an issue if everything is going well.
 
One of the best things about the penis - IMO - is the variety of them.

You ask for honesty so here goes.

YES, some guys prefer larger ones. Some also like them to be smaller than their own but some prefer, average, cut, uncut, shaved, unshaved, curved...I think you see where I'm going.

Truthfully 5" is on the small end of average but it doesn't matter as most guys wouldn't be "turned off". I think the % of men who'd turn down a cock based soley on size is very low.

One thing, however, that might turn a guy off about a smaller penis is not the size but rather the insecurity of the owner.

5" that can be worked over properly is far, far better than having someone gagging and scraping their teeth on 8 fat inches - unless you're into that:)

So, try to be happy with what you've got and others will enjoy it as well - trust me.

Finally, I'm about average length but thicker than usual and absolutely, without a doubt think there's no penis more perfect on another guy than a nice hard 5"

Good luck, be safe and enjoy.
 
5" sounds just about right. I can do a lot more with a cock that size than I can with 7 or 8 inches.
 
5 inches is nothing to be ashamed of at all! 5 - 6 is the average penis length...
 
That sounds a bit small, but probably not too small. I don't know, I think it's better to mess around with someone who's on the smaller side rather than the bigger side. I guess the possibility of painful sex is much larger when the penis is huge, so that would be a plus right there!
 
Thanks for the honest advice guys, I rly appreciate it.

Yea I was always aware that the insecurity could be the major turnoff but it's hard because I have quite severe depression (sadly it isn't to do with my penis size, that would be something more easily overcome 'in the moment').

Luckily I have a few good friends but I don't get to see them much (they're at their Uni's). Indeed the only guy I had sex with (was a in a close friend (gay) since forever) after was rly kind (Not that he was ever gonna be otherwise, but I still don't deserve it ...) ... tho we were completely pissed so we 'fooled' around more than had sex ;p
 
sinfulsimon said:
5" sounds just about right. I can do a lot more with a cock that size than I can with 7 or 8 inches.
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I agree.

Again, you are not defined by your dick size. Whether a persons dick is big or small, his feet are stinky or not, his face is square or round...it is all personal preference. No matter what, there will always be someone who would love to mess around with you, no matter what.(*8*) :kiss:
 
BiFlexible said:
Thanks for the honest advice guys, I rly appreciate it.

Yea I was always aware that the insecurity could be the major turnoff but it's hard because I have quite severe depression (sadly it isn't to do with my penis size, that would be something more easily overcome 'in the moment').

Luckily I have a few good friends but I don't get to see them much (they're at their Uni's). Indeed the only guy I had sex with (was a in a close friend (gay) since forever) after was rly kind (Not that he was ever gonna be otherwise, but I still don't deserve it ...) ... tho we were completely pissed so we 'fooled' around more than had sex ;p
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Well, you're still young and figuring things out. Hang in there and the fact that you had brains enough to come in here and ask questions tells me you're on the right track.

Keep in mind that there's wealth of info on a variety of subjects in this site - don't be scared to ask whatever questions you want.
 
BiFlexible said:
Hey I just rly wanted some honest opinions from guys around my own age (19) and older guys experience.

Would you ever fool around with a guy (me!) who was 2-3" soft, and about 5" hard? Could you ever honestly be turned on by him, or would if just turn you off.

I'm not that tall, about 5ft 8" but still my small penis is made to look even smaller. :( I'm not overweight, I think I might even be slighly athletic built (I like to run).

At college we never rly did sports to the extent where we needed to shower (not that the showers worked I think...) so I've never had any way to compare, not any redicule yet.

Oh yea, and I'm completely inexperienced so I havn't had anyone to ask that I would be comfortable asking.

The average internet surveys seem to average out about 5.5-6" but I just wondered if people might be OK to say what their partners have been and whether it was a issue.


Hope I havn't offended anyone it's just that I rly need some honest advice. Also I guess penis size is a rather FAQ so I'll apologise in advance for annoying the veterans. ;/
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I'll fool around with you, you'd be my first:)
 
I wouldn't worry about it at all. I dated a guy who was a lot smaller than you and I really didn't mind it at all. I am usually more interested how the guy acts and what his personality is like. Also, don't worry about not having any experience yet. We all have to start somewhere, and I'm sure you will be fine with what you got. No worries :)
 
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