Interesting Article: Found By Straight Guy Who is Curious

[Craigjk]

Over the past 5 years I've been dealing with a fascination of penises and the desire to experiment with one (other than my own, lol). I started smoking marijuana a few weeks ago and while high i was surfing the internet for people like me. I have a girlfriend and am in a great relationship but when I'm horny, I'm draw to gay porn.

I found this article that really cleared things up. Back when I was 18 a guy gave me blow job when I was drunk. Every since then I've been psychologically different.


Gay Guise: When Straight Men Have Sex With Other Men
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Hope this helps someone else out there figure their curiosities out.

 

[bulge]

Bad article

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...ay-guise-when-straight-men-have-sex-other-men

Men have always had sex with men. Period. Men don't have sex with men for the stupid reasons said in that article. That article is another exercice in self-deception as there are a lot when it comes to male-to-male sex. It is not because men are confused or any other in str8 compulsory thinking imagined resonings men have sex with men. Having sex with men is simply the most obvious thing to do for men. Period.

 

[Reality101]

thanks for the article. It is interesting.

 

[conrad]

I like all guys I knew grew up thinking myself to be just a regular guy who would do what regular guys did: get married.

However, I did discover that one can love a guy just as one can love a gal and for me that was the new guy in town and our love was such that the sex just happened one day. For two years we learned by doing and it all seemed so natural and right.

Then, we graduated and I also discovered that sex with a young lady was something I definitely could get hooked on.

The fact that I have been a happily married man for many years does not in any way detract from the memory and the continuing love I have for the three men who made that part of my journey such a happy adventure.

If you desire the gold standard in sex make sure that it is always prompted by the love you have for your partner and that partner's love for you.

 

[genthree]

the BS some of these people come out with, why did they do it, because they were just checking, why did they keep on doing it, because they enjoyed it.....................simple eh.

 

[fireman]

Bulge is partially right and the article is partially right but I think although I could never prove it their are only bisexual men. On the 0 to 6 scale (found in on JUB) most men if not all fall between 1 and 5, Str8 don't want to deal with the scrutiny of there buddies and Gays are usually so hidden in there political agenda to change everything they don't want to admit a hole is a hole

 

[Digicel]

i see what you mean

 

[clicker]

Bulge is partially right and the article is partially right but I think although I could never prove it their are only bisexual men. On the 0 to 6 scale (found in on JUB) most men if not all fall between 1 and 5, Str8 don't want to deal with the scrutiny of there buddies and Gays are usually so hidden in there political agenda to change everything they don't want to admit a hole is a hole

bull. No one is attracted to a hole. What are you, a barabrian? We are attracted to the gender we find arousing, period.

 

[alli-berri]

bull. No one is attracted to a hole. What are you, a barabrian? We are attracted to the gender we find arousing, period.

LOOK BUDDY, THIS FEELS A LOT BETTER THAN YA PROBABLY THINK

 

[clicker]

LOOK BUDDY, THIS FEELS A LOT BETTER THAN YA PROBABLY THINK

Like I said, bull. Your pic doesn't prove anything. real attraction and arousal are connected to the whole person, not merely a body part.

 

[blackbeltninja]

bull. No one is attracted to a hole. What are you, a barabrian? We are attracted to the gender we find arousing, period.

...except in prison.

Unless all the real tough hardcore prison guys are gayer than Christmas.

-d-

 

[Jackt1987]

The article makes it seem like the only reason that men have sex with men are those reasons they listed, which make it easy to dismiss it altogether. However, I think that some of the reasons are valid which cause a man to try it, then realize they don't hate it, or even might enjoy it so they keep doing it. Sometimes it really isn't as easy to hook up with a women that you actually want to hook up with so you explore different routes.

 

[EJMichaels]

There are definitely some problems with that article, but it makes some good points. Among other things, separating orientation, attraction, and behavior can be useful as an alternative to thinking the sexual act defines the person. However, I disagree with the statement that one's real orientation/identity doesn't change over time.

 

[clicker]

I like all guys I knew grew up thinking myself to be just a regular guy who would do what regular guys did: get married.

However, I did discover that one can love a guy just as one can love a gal and for me that was the new guy in town and our love was such that the sex just happened one day. For two years we learned by doing and it all seemed so natural and right.

Then, we graduated and I also discovered that sex with a young lady was something I definitely could get hooked on.

The fact that I have been a happily married man for many years does not in any way detract from the memory and the continuing love I have for the three men who made that part of my journey such a happy adventure.

If you desire the gold standard in sex make sure that it is always prompted by the love you have for your partner and that partner's love for you.

That's wonderful, CONRAD. I wish everyone had such affirming sexual experiences.