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Interracial Dating

Interracial Dating?

  • Yes

    Votes: 18 56.3%

  • No

    Votes: 2 6.3%

  • Don't Care/Whatever

    Votes: 12 37.5%
  • Total voters
    32
PATMAN said:
Just because anyone who thinks it's NOT okay is just as much of a bigot (if not more) as homophobes
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WOW... I have no problem with interracial dating but for you to say someone is a bigot or homophobes for not agreeing with you is shocking.

The true bigot is the one that doesn't see the other point of view.
 
bankside said:
Yes of course. I respect this is still an issue in some places, but to me it's like asking "so do you really think we should let women have the vote?"

Yeah, that ship sailed a long time ago.

I've dated people of different ethnicities, and of mixed ethnicities, which means this has been going on since at least my parent's generation (oh my! think of the children!!! LOL) And I'm in my late 30's.

When I think of all my friends from school, I can think of lots of multiethnic intergenerational families where a husband or wife, or the other husband, or grandparent is from some other ethnic background, or where the whole family is a total mix. Actually at the moment I'm finding it hard to think of a family that's not like that.

Seriously though? This is still a question in 2011?
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Unfortunately this is still an issue to some people in 2011 and not just in some places either.
 
80KGold said:
Hell yeah!

I don't think an ethnicity has been invented yet that I haven't been attracted to.

Fuck what people with shit for brains have to say. If the guy and I want to be together, then we'll be together for as long as we're good together. And why shouldn't we try?
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Well said.
 
thatgirl said:
There is obviously nothing wrong with interracial dating/marriage.

But sometimes people go into it for weird, racially loaded reasons. :nono:
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Yeah, like I once heard this chick say she wanted to get a Latin man so they can make pretty children. I was like that's all you want him for? Just crazy.
 
PATMAN said:
I know you don't - and I apologize if my words came across wrong... Basically what I guess I meant to say was that it's SAD that this question needs to be asked... And that's what disgusts me - not YOU. lol

Also, I am in Canada, where there really isn't such thing as a physical racial divide (except for Aboriginals, but that's a whole different ball game), whereas in the States there are a ton of places where it's a lot more prevalent. So in that sense, I guess I am not exposed to as much "racism" as the States, so sometimes I find it hard to believe that it's still out there, since there is so very little here.

Anyways - yes - the times we're in, I find it very sad and disgusting that that question even need be asked :(
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No need to apologize my friend. It's cool.
 
dhchitown1984 said:
I have absolutely no problem with interracial relationships.

I think it's funny that many lgbt people fight for equality and want to be treating as equals because we were "born this way" but yet when interracial dating comes into play people get prejudiced because they were born that way.

I'm a white guy, and I've dated black, asian, and hispanic, because I thought the guys were cute and we could have conversations. Funny thing is that when I was single, if I talked to a buddy of mine and said "Oh, I had a date with this guy the other night..." and he'd interrupt with "let me guess, he was black?" as though it somehow mattered or made a difference. He finally got the hint when he would talk to me in the morning and he would say "I met this guy last night..." and I'd interrupt with "Let me guess, you were both blacked out at the time?"
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LOL, what was your friend's response after what you said?
 
miken1999 said:
WOW... I have no problem with interracial dating but for you to say someone is a bigot or homophobes for not agreeing with you is shocking.

The true bigot is the one that doesn't see the other point of view.
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Wow... Seriously? "Doesn't agree"?? "other point of view"...?

Racism and homophobia are ILLEGAL for a reason. (illegal in the form of hate speech etc. of course)
 
@Darius - it was kind of funny! He was like "What's that supposed to mean?" so I just told him "Apparently, we both meet guys that the other doesn't approve of!"

But then we talked about it on a more serious tone. But the important thing is that he got the point. I just think it's funny that as gay men, we are consistently judged by people who think it's "gross" and yet many gay men criticize interracial dating/relationships and completely dismiss entire groups of people because of the color of their skin. Just seems hypocritical. I have no problem with someone saying that, on general terms, they aren't usually attracted to men of certain races... everyone has different triggers. It's when the reason they won't ALLOW themselves to find someone attractive because of their race that I become intolerant.
 
For every post that supports interracial dating, there will be one post on dating one particular race exclusively that will never be made.

Race will always be a factor. Just like height, cock length, butt bubbleness and body hair type, race has a turn on/turn off switch attached to it. People like to think they are "enlightened" when they believe that race should not matter, but in my opinion, race will matter to some and it still can be deemed not racist.

You like white guys? Only date blacks. A big no-no on Arabs? Your loss.

Personally, if you are cute, have a job and you can drive, I think you're my soulmate.
 
Well, i'm not white. Since I live in a predominantly White, Black, Asian and Latino country, any relationship i'd ever be in would be interracial.


So sure, why not. Race is overrated, anyway. A fun fact that Americans don't know: In the UK, Britons hate Irish; Irish hate Welsh, Northern Europeans hate Russians, etc. So it's not like white people are all viewed as "brothers" like the US white supremacists believe.
 
miken1999 said:
WOW... I have no problem with interracial dating but for you to say someone is a bigot or homophobes for not agreeing with you is shocking.

The true bigot is the one that doesn't see the other point of view.
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So... I'm a bigot because I don't understand my father's irrational hatred of "the coloreds"?

Yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhhhhh... I'm gonna call bullshit.
 
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