Into married guys

[wolfypdx]

It's like forbidden fruit for many married straight guys. Some of the guys I've sucked or been fucked by were far more excited by it than the guys who are used to having sex with other guys.

 

[USEDCAR]

There's something hot and "wrong" about hooking up with a married man. The straight guys I hooked up with always want to take it in the ass, which is amazing.

 

[wolfypdx]

I think of those guys as basically bi, but whatever they want to think about themselves is fine by me.

Definitely hot, and I can definitely see the wrongness of cheating. I might be fooling myself, but I figure if they're comfortable with it, then so am I.

 

[BiBtm64]

I think of those guys as basically bi, but whatever they want to think about themselves is fine by me.

Definitely hot, and I can definitely see the wrongness of cheating. I might be fooling myself, but I figure if they're comfortable with it, then so am I.

That's how I think of it too - if they've accepted cheating in their own mind, chosen to seek out sex, then they've made their choice. I'm only helping to facilitate the act. Better it's me than someone else, lol...I'm safe, discreet and will keep their secret.

And like you said, further up - forbidden fruit gets them extra excited. I've had married guys super excited to be getting it and they fucked like a demon - just how I like it.

 

[lckmyass]

I just LOVE getting FUCKED by married guys , they seem to get SOOOO hard and CUM gallons

 

[Joeblack222]

I’m a married guy in mid 30s. Had only ever hooked up with girls but ~75% of the porn I watched over the years was gay porn. After years of that I started just chatting on Grindr. The thrill of that was wild. Then eventually one day about two years ago, I don’t know what came over me, I was working from home and there was a cute twink who worked just down the street who wanted to blow me on his lunch break and I agreed. And now after similar experiences with some other guys I’m trying to stop for good.

 

[wolfypdx]

Why stop?

 

[wolfypdx]

I can think of several reasons, but just curious about why you want to stop. Not judging or anything like that.

 

[MusicMan321]

I’m a married guy in mid 30s. Had only ever hooked up with girls but ~75% of the porn I watched over the years was gay porn. After years of that I started just chatting on Grindr. The thrill of that was wild. Then eventually one day about two years ago, I don’t know what came over me, I was working from home and there was a cute twink who worked just down the street who wanted to blow me on his lunch break and I agreed. And now after similar experiences with some other guys I’m trying to stop for good.

Why stop you may enjoy it more with other man

 

[Joeblack222]

I can think of several reasons, but just curious about why you want to stop. Not judging or anything like that.

I am just worried about how much I like it. The thrill of it is so intoxicating and these guys have kind of blown my mind with their skills which just makes for an extremely intense experience. Have found myself craving it after it’s been a little while. If I had an ongoing arrangement with somebody I really trusted and was attracted to that would be one thing but meeting new people on the apps just feels more risky than I’d like

 

[BiBtm64]

I am just worried about how much I like it. The thrill of it is so intoxicating and these guys have kind of blown my mind with their skills which just makes for an extremely intense experience. Have found myself craving it after it’s been a little while. If I had an ongoing arrangement with somebody I really trusted and was attracted to that would be one thing but meeting new people on the apps just feels more risky than I’d like

I can totally understand how you feel. Part of the thrill is the sense of risk in meeting new people. One moment you've just met face to face, then the next moment you have your dick in his mouth. I also understand that the taboo side of it adds to the thrill for you. As a guy who is on the other side of the coin, doing the servicing - many or most of us are not risky. We do it because we enjoy it, we love cock and get a thrill from pleasing a guy. I've had lots of married guys and I'll always be safe and discreet and keep their secrets.

There are plenty of guys out there, on the apps too, who would become a regular suck buddy for you. Just put it out there in your profile and see who responds. Or, when you have a hookup, and it goes well and you both click, ask him if you can see him again some time. There's no need to stop, just change tack if you feel you're taking too big a risk. I've had several regular suck buddies and it's great when you get to know and trust each other, and know what makes each other tick.

 

[wolfypdx]

I am just worried about how much I like it.

Thanks for replying, Joeblack222. I can understand that, but I do want to echo BiBtm64's suggestion to find a regular suck buddy. We're out there. I'm looking myself these days. The hard part is that first time with somebody you've never met; it's much more relaxed and far less risky once you start connecting regularly.

 

[Joeblack222]

I ended up meeting up with another guy a couple weeks ago. Younger, very handsome Asian guy. Super attracted to him. My wife was out of town. He was also very discreet and “straight”. We were going to do my favorite thing, which was “watching tv in my basement.” This is good for straight guys because I can pull the blanket over us so we could discreetly start touching each other. You let your legs touch, then your fingertips. Then I’m dominant so I grabbed his thigh. At that point he rolled onto me quickly and we were making out passionately. I was so into it.

And right at that moment, he started giving me shit about doing this outside my marriage. “Why did I want I get married if I still wanted to play like this.” He was right obviously (which made it worse). I felt horrible. And that point when he sensed how badly I felt and he’d like swoop in and try to make me feel better about it. “Look, I’m just giving you shit. It’s not a big deal, this doesn’t mean anything and we’re just exploring.” Pretty soon we were back at it. Just us in our underwear making out passionately. Rubbing against each other really sensually. It was intense. And then right at that moment he started making me feel bad again! It was a mind fuck. At that point the mood had sufficiently been killed. I told him he’d made his point and asked him to leave. He tried to save it again but mood had been killed. Such a strange hot and cold thing that isn’t what I’m in this for.

He was right and I won’t do it again but it was a hook-up connection I wish i could’ve just enjoyed. I still think about it.

 

[wolfypdx]

I had a weird one the other night. Married, straight, really wanted this. He was nearly completely silent while I blew him other than to saying "I'm going to come". Then he gets up, gets dressed, and heads out the door without another word. Not so much as a "thank you" or "that was a great blow job" or even "you stink as a cocksucker." Sheesh. I'm used to married guys being more enthusiastic and appreciative. I'm not doing him again if he contacts me.

 

[Petallways]

Something about hooking up with married men thrills me. I don't feel right hooking up with guys who have boyfriends/husbands, but if they live "straight" lives it's a completely different story. I've been with at least a dozen. We connect online then discreetly meet up. There are a few men that claim they're married but I find it hard to believe...maybe they're just posing. But many of them are definitely married.

But what surprises me...is how non-discreet many of them are. Some of them send full pictures in the first email, give me their phone #s--even before my first reply, and send it with their work/professional email address which has their real name in it. It's so easy to look up stuff about them, and I've found out that quite a few men that have swallowed my cum are fairly prominent members of society. (and a LOT of them are ex-military!) I never spread their info to anyone, but if they give this info to the wrong person then some of these men could get themselves into serious trouble.

Anyone else into married men & have this experience?

I love being with married men, but only if it is totally condoned by their partner. Some getting involved and some just watch, but it’s hot no matter what!

 

[CurousMarriedCock]

I am married, closet bi, and I notice there are alot of gay men who like married men. I guess its exciting that he wants you more than his wife. Married bi the longer I've been married the more I want cock.

Once you start fantasizing about COCK and chatting with other men you want MORE. I started Eating my CUM and now I have to have MORE. Mmmm

 

[CurousMarriedCock]

Something about hooking up with married men thrills me. I don't feel right hooking up with guys who have boyfriends/husbands, but if they live "straight" lives it's a completely different story. I've been with at least a dozen. We connect online then discreetly meet up. There are a few men that claim they're married but I find it hard to believe...maybe they're just posing. But many of them are definitely married.

But what surprises me...is how non-discreet many of them are. Some of them send full pictures in the first email, give me their phone #s--even before my first reply, and send it with their work/professional email address which has their real name in it. It's so easy to look up stuff about them, and I've found out that quite a few men that have swallowed my cum are fairly prominent members of society. (and a LOT of them are ex-military!) I never spread their info to anyone, but if they give this info to the wrong person then some of these men could get themselves into serious trouble.

Anyone else into married men & have this experience?

The whole experience about married men is It's HOT as hell behind closed doors. You know men are Not getting their sexual needs met. They are so HORNY that they will SUCK COCK and gladly Swallow CUM.

 

[snakeeater1]

I’m a bi married man and when I want a hook up, I go to a gay bar and look for a man wearing a wedding ring. Most of the time they just want a blow job, but a couple of times of times they took me somewhere and fucked me!…I find most all of them never reciprocate!….