Introducing Wrestling

[Wdavidnc]

I've been with my bf for a little over 3 years, and most of our sex life has been pretty vanilla. I have a HUGE wrestling fetish and we both have singlets but he isn't into wrestling likeme. Most he's done is pin me down on the bed and force me to suck him. Lately I've really wanted to try actual wrestling and get put in different holds until I submit. Any suggestions on how to introduce this other than just saying I want to do it? I've screenshotted some pictures of wrestling holds I want to try for when I tell him but idk. And even if he is on board I'd also like to meet other wrestlers and wrestle (no sex) but wrestling is such an intimate thing it could be seen as me being bored and wanting to get my rocks off with someone else. If anything I'd want it to be something to spice up our sex life, like him wrestling with me, watching me wrestle someone else, or me getting horny and coming home to him to take care of it.

 

[ShadowCat]

Well you could always try the ol scratch my fetish i'll scratch yours, I mean everyone has one or more! Maybe he is afraid to let you in on his because its out there. Maybe come to subject by starting a porno that has wrestling in it and acting the porno out? All you can do is ask!

 

[KaraBulut]

Good sex starts with good communication.

Tell him what turns you on. If he doesn't get it, then watch a wrestling scene from a porn video together and act it out. If he's not into fetish wear, then start with regular gym attire with a jock or underwear that he finds a turnon.

It may not be his fetish-of-choice but it's yours and he should be willing to do things that turn you on. But if he does it, you should be thinking about things that you can do to return the favor for things that turn him on.

 

[MusicMan321]

Whatever makes you feel comfortable for you both if your into that. If you have any favorite moves you wanna show it off to him see what happens

 

[TX-Beau]

Why is there a problem with just saying you want to do this?

 

[jockofstrap]

One sport that pure man to man. The Greeks did it naked and just think of getting pinned.

 

[Superboy69]

I've been with my bf for a little over 3 years, and most of our sex life has been pretty vanilla. I have a HUGE wrestling fetish and we both have singlets but he isn't into wrestling likeme. Most he's done is pin me down on the bed and force me to suck him. Lately I've really wanted to try actual wrestling and get put in different holds until I submit. Any suggestions on how to introduce this other than just saying I want to do it? I've screenshotted some pictures of wrestling holds I want to try for when I tell him but idk. And even if he is on board I'd also like to meet other wrestlers and wrestle (no sex) but wrestling is such an intimate thing it could be seen as me being bored and wanting to get my rocks off with someone else. If anything I'd want it to be something to spice up our sex life, like him wrestling with me, watching me wrestle someone else, or me getting horny and coming home to him to take care of it.

I love wrestling too! Maybe you should watch Naked Kombat videos together. Any horny gay man will get the message.