Is a giant cock a curse?

[sonny10305]

I like em average or a little above, maybe 6 or 7 that's about it.
I want something I can deep throat easily or take it up the ass with pleasure and no pain. I don't like em really thick eather, don't wanna walk aroud with lock jaw all day
The big thing for me is he's gotta get real hard, don't care for those guys who get big without gettin super hard.

 

[SJB69]

The biggest I have have seen was about 9. This was a very long time ago.

I have a buddy that is 9" when hard...beautiful...soft or hard!!! He says it gets in the way sometimes though...clothing and such!!

 

[Homoerectus]

Well I would worship him. I love a big cock up my ass.

 

[Hard Luck]

I could envision problems with partners who don't want that monster inside them. Personally, I would hestiate to be fucked by such a tool with any sort of regularity, and I'd be intimidated about sucking that big a cock.

I manage to, ahem, impress with far less than such a gargantuan size ... and I think a happy medium between hefty size and fear-inspiring would be best.





Still ... if I had to choose between having 12 inches or 5 ... I'd go with the footlong.

 

[MidnightPrism]

Would guys tend to objectify you as "the guy with the huge cock"? Or fail to want to know anything about you beyond the big bulge in your pants?

That's the complaint I hear. People don't look past the cock size to see the real person.

Not to mention problems size might cause when it comes to sex. I'd imagine some people just wouldn't want to be fucked by a 12 inch cock.

 

[looseliam]

If someone whipped out a foot long on me I'd respond "You wanna put that WHERE?"

7"-8" is my max. I've learned I just can't take any larger.

Gimme a nice 5-6 incher any ol' day.

 

[Croynan]

by the way, you never did tell us how you handled the situation any way?

inquiring minds just like/want to know.

now the zipper was down, you were obviously looking at the appendage as was he and

then what happened? you have left us and yourselves in the dark, metaphorically speaking..​

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eM. ​

 

[moonrabbit]

I only have a 5.

My friend told me once that he was fucked by a guy who was 5 inches and it was incredible. Hope that makes you feel better.

 

[Hawkman]

Two experiences:

1. A year ago I met a hot-looking guy for a hookup, and when his jeans came off I was confronted with one of those 12-inch monsters. Although I could admire it, I didn't know what to do with it. I was unhappy but did my best. I think both of us were disappointed.

2. Last week I stopped by a video place here in NYC, and a cute little guy sat down next to me. When he pulled out his dick it turned out to be another monster. The problem was -- for me -- that he looked so unbalanced, a cute little guy with a dick that would have looked better on a donkey. Again, I was turned off.

Call me a contrary, picky, snotty, choosy bastard (or whatever), but those were my honest reactions.

I've always found my own (I have about 8") to be a good sized dick

Now, that's what I call an ideal male member!

 

[G-Lexington]

A female friend of mine said she sent a guy home because, when she got him to her place, he was too big. So I guess this stuff happens.

Lex

 

[Andreus]

are you objectified?

yes

are you turned down for sex?

yes... about half the time

are you made fun of in school as a kid?

yes... i had to learn to wear a jock under my boxers to hide it. i actually still do that as well as wear baggy pants all the time.

and people assume things about your personality based on your cock

that really sucks

 

[Pushover]

"You know, one of those monster cocks where you don't know whether to play with it or give a peanut." ~can't remember what that's from


Not that I ever did it, but I think i'm in agreement with most here in that I wouldn't want anything over 7-8"; that just sounds too big to handle. Personally, I think the shorter 5-7" ones (like myself) are cute.

 

[Crashdown]

A bigger cock = more to love!

 

[versa39]

a lot of people are intimidated by the" oh my god members" so a lot of them end up being bottoms because of fear of hurting someone, or not being able to keep it real hard.
personally...i like a challenge, the biggest i EVER had was 11 1/2 in real inches not AOL it was the ride of my life and he spent the whole time worrying he was hurting me.

 

[Andreus]

every penis gets objectified by someone.

if thats what you think you havent really participated in the gay communities I have

just try to remember that its not fun when every gay man you know focuses on your crotch before anything

not that the focus isnt wanted eventually

But i have to work hard to be taken seriously before i have sex with someone or it never happens afterwards

i know there are some guys that are well endowed that liek that kind of attention, and believe me we all know how to use our cocks

can you envision a life where no one allows you to be inside of them all the way?

i tell ya what...

for the next six months.,.. everytime you have sex, only let the guy suck the top half... when you are inside of someone... only go in halfway

what do you think that feels like?

 

[MidnightPrism]

for the next six months.,.. everytime you have sex, only let the guy suck the top half... when you are inside of someone... only go in halfway

well there are a number of size-queen cum-guzzling whores that can swallow and take all of a big one

 

[Jeimuzu]

I wouldn't want to have a bigger cock than I do. The middle-area of sizes is the best place to be. If it's big enough to fit in your hand comfortably and small enough that it can still fit in a mouth, then it's the right size

 

[cozmik]

well there are a number of size-queen cum-guzzling whores that can swallow and take all of a big one

I have to say, if I was so big that the only guys that I could have sex with were size queen whores, I'd feel pretty bad. Cock whores tend not to be good if you want something more than sex.

 

[Hard Luck]

While it might suck for people to make personality assumptions based on dick size, and it might be inconvenient to have to "take it easy" on a percentage of your sex partners .... it seems to me there are worse problems than having a huge cock.



I don't mean to make light of problems inherent at both ends of the dick-size scale ... but, and I think especially in the gay world, there plenty of potential partners who would both love and satisfy a giant dick.





Any way I look at it ... it's simply not one of the worst physical attributes I can imagine.

 

[MidnightPrism]

I have to say, if I was so big that the only guys that I could have sex with were size queen whores, I'd feel pretty bad. Cock whores tend not to be good if you want something more than sex.

SO maybe I phrased that the wrong way.

Some of us aren't whores, are good for a lot more than sex, but can still deepthroat a big cock