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Is a giant cock a curse?

Underdog said:
I wasn't questioning your manhood, I was wondering why you feel the need to disguise it. It's all good, we are all different, our Creator made our bodies the way they are.
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ahhh

well

i dont mind the guy i'm with being into it

i just mind a guy being with me only because hes into that part of me

so its a little suprise for later on when the pants come off after a few dates

and

i really dont like that seventies bulge look

its just an aesthetics thing
 
we love us some nina garcia
 
arteguy said:
I'm pretty chunky down there, but not gigantic. My build makes it seem bigger. I'm pretty happy with it, but don't make a big deal about it. I like all sizes. If I'm going to mess around, by the time our pants are off, I'm not going to let something like that bother me. It does break the moment when a guy says, as I'm going down, "I'm sorry it's so small." I really don't care how big your dick is, and I don't want that to be a part of some top/bottom, power, intimidation thing.
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I agree with your point...by the time the pants are off the decision has more or less been made...although I never encountered someone who apologized for a small penis (that would be a BIG turnoff)..i have encountered folks who were expecting a specific size with me because of race. Now I could buy into the stereotype and say, "and of course they were not disappointed." Instead I will say that I don't really care about dick size and I prefer to be with a guy who is also not concerned about it....
 
wow

perfect size and everyone wants to be fucked by you

lucky
 
Pushover said:
"You know, one of those monster cocks where you don't know whether to play with it or give a peanut." ~can't remember what that's from.
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That is so funny. I have seen only 2 monster cocks, and both guys were straight. They both were obsessed with showing it off. I was a happy (and somewhat jealous) observer.
 
Didn't see this thread the first time around. Big cocks are a nice visual when you want to watch porn or something, but we all know most guys don't fit that statistic. Personally, I like more average size guys. I'm 6 inches, and average girth. I have learned I like guys with fatter than average dicks, but the extra length does nothing for me.

When it all comes down to it, I choose a guy for who he is, and not just his dick.
 
my 2 cents...

It is a blessing and a curse....

It is a blessing because when you know you have a large penis in a community that all too often seems obsessed with size it tends to give you a good sense of self esteem...
and we all know self esteem is extremely important....

However there is a downside as many have stated... you do indeed tend to become objectified... people sometimes do begin to see you as the guy with the big cock....

I have a friend whom I hooked up with once who now whenever I see him at a bar he has to announce to all his friends in the area that I have a huge cock...

Which takes away something... I mean now I have guys coming up to me at a bar who are only interested in me because of my penis who really don't care about all the other things I have to offer...

Plus do you have any idea how uncomfortable it is to be with a guy who has a smaller penis and here you are with something that dwarfs it? I feel embarrassed. It's like bringing a bazooka to a knife fight.

And I now have a bf who is extremely wonderful but has a hard time taking it...

I have been with guys who become overzealous... they suddenly have the Big Cock they want but can't handle it and I ended up just jerking off.

While I am happy with what I have and it has greatly increased my self esteem and confidence I sometimes wish I could switch it out occasionally with a smaller model.
 
I would take a foot long cock.

Hey, if you can't handle it, there are plenty of guys that are willing to take him off your hands...

I don't like dicks under 6.
 
malearmpitfetish said:
The other night I met a guy for hookup. I really didn't know what to expect when I unzipped him, and was shocked to see he was hiding a cock that was easily 12" or so. I've always found my own (I have about 8") to be a good sized dick, but often have wondered what it would be like to pack a piece like Ken Ryker, Chad Hunt, Jeff Stryker, Kevin Dean, etc... so I made a comment to the guy about how great it must be to have such an abnormally large cock and he told me that if he had anything to do with it, he'd rather have something much more "average." He seemed reluctant to discuss it more, and it made me wonder if having such a big dick could actually be a curse.

Would guys tend to objectify you as "the guy with the huge cock"? Or fail to want to know anything about you beyond the big bulge in your pants?

I'm sure a lot of guys (like me) have thought about what it must be like to be so well endowed, but I am wondering if those who actually are find it a blessing or a curse.

Anyone with first hand insight? Or do you know guys that big who have shared what it's like, either way?
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actually a friend of mine has a big dick..(not 12"...closer to 9"-10") and he mentioned it once that he gets tierd from people that like him and talk to him and want to get to know him and in the end turn out to be after his dick......so ya...objectifing is part of the issue i think........
 
I've got no first-hand experience with this. However, I know several people (of both genders) who have refused to have sex, or at least a particular type of sex, with a guy because he was too big. I've never known one to turn one down because he was too small, though.

Lex
 
The only 'huge' guy I have been with was about nine-ish, and that was a bit too much. Excessive length does seem to be a problem, especially for gay men. The rectum just isn't that long, it is an average of 5-7, the latter being generous. The absolute maximum point I can get something up there is about seven and a half, and then I bottom out.

With the way this guy was going at it, every thrust jabbed me in a most uncomfortable manner. I love the feeling of having it hit bottom, but only if it presses a little. If it still has like an inch or two to go and he is throwing his hips behind it like he should, that can just plain hurt.

I remember talking with a guy who had a 10.5 with, and this is true I assure you, a 10 inch girth with a head that pushed it up to about 11. He was just a phenomenon. He was also suicidal depressed because he had never actually had intercourse. He was gay and said it was his fantasy to actually penetrate a man, but had come to grips that it would probably never happen. He had tried with women, and none of them could take it without being hurt either. Extreme example, yes, but I felt really bad for him. He has like the biggest dick ever (any girth bigger than that is insane) but he can't use it.

For me, and for a lot of people it seems, lengthwise 7-8 is the ideal window. I would probably say 7.5 for me because as I said that is my exact limit. That said, I am most definitely not a size queen, and I have a fetish for small dicks. I hate to say 'fetish,' but I really like them, and they are just as rare as a really big one. I just find guys with like 3-5 really sexy. I am not going to lie, the penetration is lacking, but the oral sex is so much better, and I imagine it must be really pleasurable to have your whole dick being stimulated at once. That, and I am never going to objectify someone like that.
 
i thought i was 8 but it turns out i am only 7.5 on good days :(
 
i would have run for the hills. I get kinda intimidated around 7inches so umm 12 theres no way. my last bf was around 7 and it was okay, but i think id have been happier around 5 or 6. then again he was an insensitive prick and i was a virgin so maybe it kinda ruined big boys for me.

but whatever, i like the average ones, theyre prettier imo. :P
 
I'm 7.5 inches and am always told that it is "very thick." I've never measured the girth but it is pretty big. It is not a blessing as too many guys look at it and say, "I don't think I can take that."

I dated a guy for awhile and when we first had sex, he pulled it out and I suddenly began to sweat as he stretched my Magnum XL condoms to try to get them over his dick. I do have to admit, however, that he was very good with such a big tool. He put it against the hole and pushed the head in gently. Apparently he could feel when I relaxed and slid it in. I thought he had lost his erection (and was relieved). Soon, I felt him begin to slowly push it in and out. I have to admit I was moaning and, according to my roommate and two of his friends in the living room, verbally enjoying the large tool.

Rog said that the key is to feel and know when to push and when not to push. He actually hurt far less than the one three inch guy I first hooked up with because I thought it would be easier on the ass!
 
I think giant cocks are like a table centerpiece; they're nice to look at but not very practical.

I like my 5.5, perfectly fine, thank you very much.
 
having a big cock isn't all it's cracked up to be. There are some size queens out there but a lot of guys can't handle having something that big inside them
 
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