Is a one-on-one date necessary?

[Soilwork]

Um... who cares?

Take him out to a movie.. alone... if that's all he needs to feel like you're really boyfreinds... well, I'd say give him that.

 

[brisboy21]

who cares? <<<<
^^^
come on leave him alone,
i think its sweet, go for a date with him .Its a good idea, that way if he is in to you like his says he is , he will go along and have a good time, 2,

hope you have a good date,

 

[Soilwork]

when I say "who cares?" I mean "Who cares if you haven't been out on a one on one date yet if you want to call each other boyfriends?"


What I mean to say is that it doesn't matter if you've followed a set of rules.. if you think of each other as boyfriends, then you're boyfriends.

Fair enough?

 

[rotary]

You don't have to be going out for "one on one" dates to be in a relationship, but I sure as hell wouldn't want a third wheel hanging around all the time. As long as the two of you get some alone time, let things grow from there.

 

[Just_Believe18]

Had you had sexual contact yet? If yes, I find the notion of having to have a "one-date, romantic evening" to officialize boyfriend status to be irrelevant.

If not, it would be great to have a romantic date leading up to it.

 

[Roland00]

Neccessary no.

You will find out that you will love the personal time eventually. Maybe you aren't ready for it now, but later on you will like it

 

[Roland00]

Aww cute (Your boyfriend)

Well things will fall into place by the sounds of it. Don't worry too much

 

[jockboy01]

hmmm, I don't know. I don't think I could call a guy my bf without a single date. But that's just me. Each person would have to define it for himself. I agree... just go on a date... it'll be fun and then you can be "official" whatever that means.

 

[mexamor]

You don't need to spend a lot of money but be romantic. Send him a note at work with flowers, but make it a riddle for a prelude to the date. do several lead up things for it. that is how i would do it. he wants romance, it sounds like to me so give it to him, it's lot s of fun being creative.

 

[confusedboy23]

Just send him text messages throughout the day with lovey dovey messages. Maybe it is just me, but I love that. I feel loved because I know the person thinks me throughout the day. LOL. I do that (well, used to) to him too.

You don't have to break the budget on a date. Just go to a park or some hill where you can just spend time together close to nature, away from the hustle bustle of the city and away form everyone. Just being close to each other is the awesome feeling one could ask for.

 

[brisboy21]

well if i had a b/f id take him out and spoil the shit out of him, but im still single, a virgin, so im not goin no were,

 

[190E]

It's really a good idea that you're doing this, I think you'll find it a lot better, the two of you can connect on a much better level alone than with a group all the time. Sometimes you need a break from a group, and it can be hard to connect on 'that' level if you dont have some alone time. I think ice cream and the beach is an awesome idea, and you will be thrilled with the outcome, it's the small things in life that make the biggest impact.

 

[confusedboy23]

i sent him a text earlier "yer mine on thursday" or something like that. he dug it =) i'm lookin for a late-night ice cream parlor, then i'm gonna take him to the secluded part of the beach.

I miss those texts

Hey, can I come along too? I've got a super-duper sweet tootj

Have fun!

 

[brisboy21]

lol, well said

 

[confusedboy23]

but we're supposed to be spending time alone! lol

ehh....true

maybe another time

anyway, have fun!!!