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is a relationship with bi guy different?

Wow! What an interesting and heated discussion :twisted: Well, I have nothing against bi guys but I'm a bit afraid that a bi guy would after some time in a relationship freak out, break up and grab some girl just to satisfy expectations of society (and maybe fuck guys aside while in relationship).

Sorry if I'm prejudiced or biased, I'm just seeking for understanding
 
Nice Boy said:
Wow! What an interesting and heated discussion :twisted: Well, I have nothing against bi guys but I'm a bit afraid that a bi guy would after some time in a relationship freak out, break up and grab some girl just to satisfy expectations of society (and maybe fuck guys aside while in relationship).

Sorry if I'm prejudiced or biased, I'm just seeking for understanding
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This is an old argument.

Bi guys complain gay men are prejudiced.

Gay men wonder why bi men on boards like these completely ignore the negative experiences huge numbers of gay men have had with bi guys and the guys who call themselves bi.

When you have a ton of bi guys (and if any of you bi guys say this isn't so I'm going to call you a liar) doing one of the following:

1. Fucking guys behind the backs of their women.

2. Telling you "men are for fucking women are for relationships."

3. Giving you attitude 'cause you don't dick twat, 'cause everyone knows your're better if you do.

3. Solely considering long term relationships with women (I can understand this one, if you have a choice, why make life harder)

4. Fucking you on Saturday night but never inviting you over to watch the game with the guys on Sunday afternoon.


Different category for which Bi guys get the shit but isn't actually about them:

5. BI NOW GAY LATER!!!!!!

OK so Bi guys are going to rush in here offended, but really, if you personally are a great guy, I've rarely met anyone of any orientation who's going to hate on you for being bi. You can come to my party, and (just like with everyone else) I'm goig to judge you on that basis.

BUT that doesn't make the rest of them go away, and when you have a ton of gay men saying pretty much the same damn things, you have some trends.

Frankly I don't understand why Bi guys feel the need to come to the defense of these guys. If you are a hateful vicious queen I'm not going to defend you just 'cause I'm a faggot too, you're on your own.


Why do Bisexual guys fall into the above? The same reasons gay men get into crappy behavior. The root causes are the same.

It would be nice to live in a world without homophobia where Bi men could frolic openly and gay men didn't have gender issues, but we don't and such is life.

What really matters is what kind of guy you are, and if you are an honest Bi guy who's fun to hang out with of course I'll date you.

But if you are hiding me, going behind the back of your woman, or giving me attitude because you think the twat makes you more of a man....

Fuck that.
 
hi Nice Boy,

I would like to advise you to read carefully the friendly and nice postings of 'sinfulsimon' and 'TheHardOne' and don't have firm judgements about this guy. I think it would be good to meet him in real life and see how he is and how he reacts in real life (and together with you). So open yourself to him, invite him for a date / meeting, and don't bother too much about the 'bi' aspect. He likes you (seems to like you), and that's what is counting right now.

Good luck and please keep us informed.

Take care.
 
So coming out here as a hopefully positive voice I'm Gay and dating a Bi guy, couldn't be happier.

So yeah, don't write Bi guys off...
 
Hey Ganoderma and MirrorMan!

Thanks for your comments, I appreciate them a lot. Well, I was not writing bi guys off, just was curious about some things. Hope I will meet this guy soon ;-) Still it will be more about friends with benefits but still better than nothing...
 
Nice Boy, in the end YOU are the one who can decide better for yourself, even if you go against the most people's views. There are guys who like girls, some who like boys, some who like both. Just as being gay or straight, it doesn't say anything about someone's personality. One can be faithful, idiot, mean, adorable etc regardless of sexual orientation.

I will never get the hate from gays towards bisexuals. It's pretty much the same the straight (homophobic) people give to gays. At least you can see the way some folks think so you can stay away from them, I assume...
 
The only person that can decide that is you. All I know is that if I had listened to some of the advice here,I'll still be single instead of being married soon.
 
It's kind of annoying when people say that. I'm sure in some cases it's true some bi guys are actually gay. Who knows maybe 70% or maybe 10%

But it's more than possible to like both sexes. I suppose even if truly bi you might have one sex you prefer, perhaps not. I can look at both men or women and be turned on. Sometimes more by guys other times more by women. I have a friend that is gay he lives kinda far from me and we often have sexual conversations and it's awesome.

However there is also a girl I really like as well. I get that nervous feeling around her so it's legit. I'm a little shy so it can be tough though I think she might have broken the ice. But are my feelings for her not true?

I can tell you they are and I can also tell you my interaction with my guy friend is also amazing. Odds are there will come a time I have to pick. If I pick her that doesn't mean I'm straight and if I pick him don't mean I'm gay.

People can like both equally or one a little more. Not sure why it always has to be 1'way
 
if you are doing none of the things listed above, don't personalize it. You'll just end up arguing against things no one said.

… If the dress doesn't fit, don't try it on…
 
Just b/c you've had bad experiences with bisexuals doesn't mean we're all like that. You (I hope) wouldn't think that all blacks are bad just b/c you've had some bad experiences with some. Bisexuals are perfectly capable of being monogamous. If in a relationship, we (generally) love the person we're with and don't feel the need to go "whoring around." There're bad people in every group. But you shouldn't let a few bad apples make you think the whole barrel is bad. :)
 
Man, things truly do become self defeating reincarnations of itself straights look down on gays, straights & gays look down on the the people playing both sides....makes sense....To say every bisexual guy or woman is the same is to say that every gay or lesbian is the worst stereotypical incarnation that the public sees them as. As a Bisexual guy myself, don't be the latter and base Bisexuals off your failed relationships. If you were in a straight relationship, wouldn't you ask yourself why you keep meeting douche bags that sleep with you or try to, lie, cheat, go into depression, denial, or just run away from you?? Bisexual/Straight/Gay doesn't matter the stereotypes, douche bags run through all sexual preferences, only thing that changes is who's getting screwed in the end....
 
Now that you've got that out of your system, you can go back and read, and hopefully discover that no one said any of that.

(or at least I didn't)

AND being Bisexual does not make you responsible for the reprehensible behavior of other Bi guys, so why own it?
 
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