Dude! This 100%! These days there seems to be a trend into violent stuff that I'm not into. A while back, I hooked up with this guy who starts slapping me while I suck his dick. Then, he grabs my hair and forces me onto his dick and I start gagging, he fucking slaps me. But the kicker was, at one point he wants to lick his armpit and it smells, so I back away, then he slapped me so hard I swear to god I started seeing spots. That's when I got up and I was like, ok, I'm done. Then he's all like "Oh sorry, I got out of hand, you didn't mention safe word, just suck my dick I'm close' I got dressed and told him I was done. I thought it was just him, but no man... all these profiles are into beating people up and getting their dick sucked.
Meanwhile, I'm a guy that prefers oil massages, cuddles, kissing and anal play, but finding guys into that is next to impossible now. I'm so sick of these guys playing at being some 'master'. Cuz before the guy that slapped me, there was this other guy who I was getting down with and I start sucking his dick, then he starts taking it away, making me reach for it and going "I'm your master and you want this" and I'm like, fuck off. Nothing turns me off faster than this weird stuff