is anal sex really that much fun?

[notseb]

I'm gay and prefer oral, always have. Now I can tell the guy I'm with if that happens again, I'm on bloodthinners so anal is out the window, period.

 

[Críostóir]

I'm gay and prefer oral, always have. Now I can tell the guy I'm with if that happens again, I'm on bloodthinners so anal is out the window, period.

? I don't know about this. Why is anal out if you're on bloodthinners?

 

[Taytay27]

if you dont like the idea, i say dont do it. i LOVE it. IMO its better then topping. it feels good but its just not meant for some people.

 

[bigwhiskers65]

? I don't know about this. Why is anal out if you're on bloodthinners?

Hmm, well since blood thinners are used to keep the blood from clotting - maybe it would make it
risky since during fucking you can fuck someone too hard or too deep etc and might cause your partner to bleed like a stuck pig.

 

[Críostóir]

Hmm, well since blood thinners are used to keep the blood from clotting - maybe it would make it
risky since during fucking you can fuck someone too hard or too deep etc and might cause your partner to bleed like a stuck pig.

I've never bled from anal sex, and neither has anyone I've ever fucked. Guess that's why it didn't occur to me.

 

[dadslover]

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
so fun !!!

 

[buddy1970]

I absolutely love the feel of a dick in my ass. I like it best when I'm on my back. You get the chance to kiss while you fuck, and I can watch the top's pelvis thrusting in and out of me. It's unbeatable. It's glorious sex. Love it, love it, love it.

I have a new fuck buddy who really knows how to plow it in. He's a bear, so his bush rubs right into my crotch while he's inside of me. He fucks like he's caressing my rump with his thighs and pelvis. Should have gone down there last night. *sigh...*

Life has shown me that one of the main reasons I have a dick is to fuck a hot guy in the ass.

What a wonderful worldview!

 

[snakeeater1]

I never had anal sex when I was completely sober! When I was in my 20s I’d go to a bar and drink until I was buzzed, then let some man pick me up and take me home! they sometimes asked me what I wanted do do and I’d say fuck me in the ass.. But most of the time it was some horny dude that would just pull off my pants and bend me over and fuck me hard .. I did this for almost 3 years before I ever sucked my first cock!

Once I got into cock sucking I did either one that the guy wanted. I’ve even has a guy fuck me for half an hour and pull out just at the last minute and stick it in my mouth and shoot his load!

Think I must have done too much alcohol in my youth! Do I enjoy gettin fucked? YOU BET I DO!…..

 

[ricksvca]

I've never had anal sex. I want to try it out but it doesn't look like it's fun. Is it really that enjoyable?

I had the chance to once, but when it came to it, I just couldn't go through with it. Are you supposed to feel that it is something you want to do? Because at the time, the guy was really hot don't get me wrong but the thought of doing it doggy style with him just didn't do much for me.

When I am drunk I really want to try it, but when I'm sober it doesn't really do much for me. Does this happen to anyone else?

Yes, it really can be that enjoyable if you are relaxed and both the cock of the man fucking you and your ass are properly lubed up. It is also very important to have the right partner, someone you trust to be patient with you and know will not hurt you by being too aggressive or too rough. I also think that if it is not something you really want to do then you probably shouldn't do it.

This is my experience with anal sex as a bottom only and how over time I came to love being fucked in the ass when it was the right man and the right cock.

First let me say that I am bisexual. When I first started having sex with men (age 22) I had no desire to have any kind of anal sex. I told who ever I was having sex with upfront that I was into giving and receiving hand jobs and that I really loved giving and receiving blowjobs, I would also tell them I loved sucking a man's cock and having him cum in my mouth and swallowing his cum.
Years later (age 26) I became involved with a very good friend who was gay. Having mutual oral sex on a regular basis with him changed the way I felt about anal. One time he was giving me one of his always excellent blowjobs when he suddenly lifted both of my legs up in the air (I was sitting on his couch with him kneeling on the floor in front of me - we were both naked ). He took his mouth off of my cock and started licking my asshole. I was startled but I decided to let him lick and kiss my asshole because it felt absolutely amazing. This went on for a good 30 minutes. It was pure ecstasy. and in some ways was more pleasurable than having him suck my cock. He didn't need to ask me if I liked it because my groans and squirming told him that I loved it.

After that session I started thinking about having anal sex with him. The more I thought about it the more I knew I wanted him to fuck me. Because we were very close friends and he knew I was an anal virgin I knew he would be gentle. I had absolutely no interest in being a top so I focused on being a bottom. Could I actually let another man fuck me? It was one thing to give a BJ or HJ to a man and have him reciprocate but letting another man put his cock in my ass was a huge step in my bi-curious experiences.

As time went by I became more comfortable with wanting to find out what it felt like to be fucked by a man. One night, after many very hot BJ/HJ sessions over the previous months I came right out and told him I wanted him to fuck me. We were both naked when I said this so he got up and came back with some lube and began preparing his very large (8-9 inches) and very thick cock to penetrate my ass. Terry had a very large mushroom cock head and I knew it might be difficult for my ass to accept his cock. He told me that it might be painful but he would be as gentle as possible. I got into the doggy position and he rubbed some of the lube on and around my asshole. I felt one, then two and finally three of his fingers enter me in an effort to loosen me up. It felt really good having his fingers in me. He then told me he was going to put his cock in me. All of a sudden I felt an excruciating pain shoot through my lower body. I immediately made him stop but I still wanted his cock in my ass so we tried again a couple of more times but I was just too tense and inexperienced to relax and let him enter me.

Many years went by and whenever I was with a man it was always just blowjobs and hand jobs, always where I had the guy cum in my mouth and I would swallow him. Then I met a gay couple on the internet and we started e-mailing each other. I told them I wanted to suck them both off and have them cum in my mouth. I also told them that if the chemistry was right they could fuck me with the condition that they would not cum in me so I could suck them both off after they were done fucking me...

Well, the chemistry was right and when one of them said "Let's have some fucking". I asked the other one if he wanted to fuck me and he said yes. Without hesitation I said OK and he went to get some lube. I wondered if he would also bring back condoms with him.

While he was gone, I started sucking his partners cock to get him ready to fuck me. When the other man returned to the living room with the lube he did not have condoms. They were going to bareback me. After all these years I was going to finally find out what it is like to have a cock in my ass and I was going to do it bareback.

We had exchanged pictures and I knew I could handle the size of these two men's cocks (both about six inches or so and cut) if they decided they wanted to fuck me.. I got in the doggy position and spread my legs. I wanted it to be easy for him. I felt him put his hand on my hip and his lubed cock slid right into my ass with no resistance. He wasted no time in getting into thrusting his cock into me repeatedly and after a few minutes I got used to the sensation of his cock in me and hitting my prostate also known as the P Spot.. I started to really like the feeling of being fucked, of knowing the cock I had been sucking earlier was now in my ass.

After about 20 minutes it was time for the other man, the one who had said "Let's have some fucking" to take his turn.. I was actually very attracted to this man and not just his cock. This was very rare for me. Only three times in my life was I actually attracted to the man, his personality and his cock and this was the third time. He was a tall, lean athletic man and doggy would not work for him so he had me get down on all fours and bend at the waist so that my head went down to the floor and then he entered me. .

By now I was really enjoying having my ass fucked. . I started making groaning and sighing noises and saying "fuck me, fuck me" and "harder, deeper" while moving my ass back and forth on his cock He kept fucking me for another 15 minutes or so and then he pulled out. It was time for me to suck them off and have them cum in my mouth.

This was my first and only time in an all male threesome so I was really excited about getting to suck two men off and swallow their cum in one night.. The first guy who fucked me said he wasn't ready yet so I told the second man I would do him first. I really like to suck cock, taking my time and exploring the man's cock and balls, finding the more sensitive spots on both when I give a blowjob. I give a really long wet and sensuous BJ and while I was sucking this guy off it struck me that we had gone straight from him fucking me to me taking his cock into my mouth and that this was my first ass to mouth blowjob. It wasn't too long before he was cumming in my mouth with me savoring his cum, the texture and the taste. After I took my mouth off his cock I squeezed his cock and a large droplet of cum appeared on the slit at the end of his cock. I took his cock back into my mouth and sucked out any remaining cum that had not already cum out in my mouth.. I then did his friend and got my second load of sweet cum to swallow.. Afterwards we talked about what we had done and they explained that they were both tops and not at all into bottoming.

This is my favorite male on male sexual experience. After this encounter I became much more comfortable with getting fucked and how to be a good bottom. Over time I also learned how to be able to take larger thicker cocks without it hurting.

 

[HornyHippy420]

I've never had anal sex. I want to try it out but it doesn't look like it's fun. Is it really that enjoyable?

I had the chance to once, but when it came to it, I just couldn't go through with it. Are you supposed to feel that it is something you want to do? Because at the time, the guy was really hot don't get me wrong but the thought of doing it doggy style with him just didn't do much for me.

When I am drunk I really want to try it, but when I'm sober it doesn't really do much for me. Does this happen to anyone else?

In my experience - YES!!!!

 

[BiBtm64]

Anal sex can be very much fun, or very unpleasant depending how you approach it.

For me, it's very pleasurable if I'm properly prepared. I could not imagine just bending over and taking it without prior preparation. Besides being naturally very tight and needing to stretch a little, I'd be turned off by the chance of a mess. To me, shit is simply not sexy.

For the OP, if the thought of doing it didn't seem all that exciting, then it's very likely it would not have been much fun at all. The good news is that you don't have to do it. Being bi or gay does not mean you're required to have anal sex. If it doesn't seem like something you'd enjoy, then don't do it.