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Is anyone else not into anal?

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I have tried anal a few times, but more and more I am thinking it's not for me.

There are a number of reasons.. but basically, I'm way more comfortable with and turned on by the frottage style of sex. (Note: I'm not the type who thinks of it as "heroic.")

I'm frustrated because anal seems to be the standard "legitimate" form of sex in the gay community. I even dated a guy who considered himself a virgin because he hadn't done it yet, even though we had several hot, passionate orgasms together.

Just looking for some reflections on this... does anyone else feel this way? For those of you who think of anal as the focal point of sex, could you be happy dating a guy who doesn't do it?
 
I like it, but it's just one item on the menu. I think of getting off as the focal point of sex generally.
 
I also have it on the menu, but it's rarely my first choice. Just depends on what we both feel like.

Lex
 
There are plenty of guys who are not into anal. I consider them as I do people who don't like chocolate: it's incomprehensible to ME, but their feelings are their feelings and I respect that.

Also, the sense of "more for me" applies in both cases.
 
I'm a top, but I'm not really into anal sex. I've done it (as a top and bottom), but I really like other things much more and, actually, rarely do it. To me, others things are much more fun and satisfying. So, don't feel so odd if you don't like anal. Of all my friends, I can honestly say that I don't know one of them who engages in anal sex regularly.
 
One of my good friends is like this. He doesn't like anal and even tried it to see if he would, but he still doesn't. I think there's more people like that than you would think.
 
>>>Also, the sense of "more for me" applies in both cases.

Unless it's your partner. :)

Lex
 
I don't think it's mandatory to be into anal just because you're gay. That's an old myth. It is a menu item for me as well but I know many, many guys who are not into it as a matter of routine. Most of my experience with anal has been with a dedicated partner.
 
My partner and I are much more oral than anal. To each his own. The concept of sexually active men as virgins escapes me. Stay open, though. You'll never know when a partner might have something to teach you.
 
I used to date a guy and never ever got to penetration. We had a great sex anyways. Just because you don't have anal sex it doesn't mean you cannot have sex at all.
 
I'm a virgin, and the idea of anal sex doesn't appeal to me, maybe intergluteal sex, though. Have you tried that?
 
Thanks for all of the comments, guys!

"I'm a virgin, and the idea of anal sex doesn't appeal to me, maybe intergluteal sex, though. Have you tried that?"

Yeah. There are lots of fun body parts to rub. The bum cheeks can make a nice landing pad too.

My hottest experience with a guy ever was frottage.. it was passionate "make up sex." Our arms, chest, stomach, legs, dicks all pumping against each other. That's a lot of skin contact, body heat and pheromones--with our faces at each others' necks. And we came at the same time.
 
yeah, i agree with everyone else... i know heaps of gay guys who hardly ever do anal but that doesnt mean theyre not having any less fun in the bedroom!
 
G-Lexington said:
>>>Also, the sense of "more for me" applies in both cases.

Unless it's your partner. :)

Lex
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Yeah, a relationship with someone who doesn't like anal wouldn't work out for me. In fact, a relationship with a total top wouldn't work out for me. A relationship with a total bottom would be possible, but it would have problems eventually.

Assuming monogamy in all these cases. I'm decreasingly interested in open relationships, though.
 
I am waiting for right opportunity to take time to enjoy anal sex.
 
One of my pet peeves: A guy who doesn't consider oral sex to be sex, even though that's what it's referred to. . .and it's capable of spreading sexually transmitted diseases.
 
I think its not even a root without at least one or two knocks on the backdoor
 
what can you do as an alternative, ive tried spicing up the pukana but nothing is a good enough substitute
 
jimmyjams said:
I think its not even a root without at least one or two knocks on the backdoor
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jimmyjams said:
what can you do as an alternative, ive tried spicing up the pukana but nothing is a good enough substitute
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Is this Ozian or NZer talk? I don't understand what you're saying at all. What do roots have to do with it? What's a pukana?
 
I usually top but I like to bottom sometimes too. As a matter of fact, I really enjoy anal sex both ways yet I agree there are plenty of other ways of enjoying sex as well. I believe that whether you practice it or not is your own personal decision, though for many is rather important to find that as a complement in a partner, as it is for me.
 
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