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Is bareback considered a fetish here?

bulge said:
Puzzling question. It can only be a fetish in the AIDS-context. As long as AIDS wasn't around, nobody was speaking about BB or even about anal. Anal seemed farther away from gay men than anything you could imagine. Since AIDS the only focus is unfortunately on anal at the cost of all other fetishes.
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I suspect that this post is an April Fool's joke, but in case it's not: wrong.

Everyone had anal sex ALL the time before AIDS. No one wore condoms. It wasn't a FETISH, but everyone was either an anal top or an anal bottom, and people who didn't do anal at all were shunned.

Right after the news of AIDS came out, lots of people stopped ever doing anal (personal ads that said "health conscious" were from people who wanted to let you know they didn't). They went back after the news came out that condoms stopped the virus.

Pre-AIDS, anal was the ONLY thing that counted as having sex at all.

bulge said:
As it can only be a fetish in the AIDS-context and gets all attention away from other fetishes, it is not a valid fetish anyway.
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The logic of this eludes me. Fetishes are always in a cultural context. There were no cigar fetishes in 1245 Germany. Bareback is cum-fetish porn; yes, the fact that it's dangerous is what makes it exciting, not unlike an extreme sport. People have always had various kinds of danger fetishes, mostly around the risk of getting caught having sex in public, and unfortunately disease fetishes are nothing new either.

Come to think of it, I don't even know what you mean by "a valid fetish." What is validity with respect to fetishes? Who decides? Where did you get this strange notion?
 
SamuraiGuy said:
Yum! I'm too scared to try. I don't know anyone well enough to trust... I do fantasize about having a big load inside me though and.. the throbbing cock. fuck!!! *|*
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Hey dude. I can feel that. Now i am with my bf we only ever fuck bare. I love having his cum pumped deep inside me. Bare is best.
 
Re: Anyone like really nasty bareback stuff?

bunny34 said:
Couldnt agree more...... I love to see one guy use anothers as lube. Pushing the cum back up a guys hole then seeing it all drip out.
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That is so hot. Just lubing up their cock by using another guys cum, then slammed up that willing hole again. Love it.
 
Críostóir said:
I suspect that this post is an April Fool's joke, but in case it's not: wrong.

Everyone had anal sex ALL the time before AIDS. No one wore condoms. It wasn't a FETISH, but everyone was either an anal top or an anal bottom, and people who didn't do anal at all were shunned.

Right after the news of AIDS came out, lots of people stopped ever doing anal (personal ads that said "health conscious" were from people who wanted to let you know they didn't). They went back after the news came out that condoms stopped the virus.

Pre-AIDS, anal was the ONLY thing that counted as having sex at all.



The logic of this eludes me. Fetishes are always in a cultural context. There were no cigar fetishes in 1245 Germany. Bareback is cum-fetish porn; yes, the fact that it's dangerous is what makes it exciting, not unlike an extreme sport. People have always had various kinds of danger fetishes, mostly around the risk of getting caught having sex in public, and unfortunately disease fetishes are nothing new either.

Come to think of it, I don't even know what you mean by "a valid fetish." What is validity with respect to fetishes? Who decides? Where did you get this strange notion?
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I was never as serious. In the gay community anal is a minority sexuality. The follwowing site evaluates it at about 15 %. In my experience it is below 9%. The problem is AIDS has put the focus on anal only, while no one focused on anal or BB before. It was totally irrelevant. Moreover most gays aren't tops or bottoms. This anal obsession biases all figures about male-to-male sexual desire as most guys tend to define themselves as gay only when they have anal desires and don't as long as they don't feel anal bottoms. The equation gay/anal is utterly false.

http://www.solarnavigator.net/animal_kingdom/humans/homosexuality.htm

I see fetishes as cultural only (BTW the str8 fetish too). The male instinct focuses on whatever in cultural surroundings for penis satifaction. This capacity is the greatness of male sexuality. What I say is entirely in keeping with your logic.

A valid fetish is a safe fetish. Smoking for instance is an unsafe oral fetish.
 
Prior to AIDS everyone had anal. Trust me. I was there.

And I see that 'valid' to you just means "appropriate in your sole judgment." So if you were a total vanilla prude, there would be no valid fetishes.

Most fetishes are a little unsafe or unhealthy. That's the nature of them; they're transgressive.
 
Is the str8 fetish transgressive? No. ALL male sexuality is fetishistic and is ONLY fetishistic inclusive and especially the str8 fetish. The str8 fetish is the worst fetish of them all. It is not because society doesn't label str8ness as a fetish, it isn't. Str8ness is in keeping with the clinical definition of fetish. I am a gay fetishist as I cann't orgasm ouside male representations exactly like a str8 cann't orgasm outside female representations. It is not because a fetish focuses on a human being, it would be less a fetish.

Valid is what is considered safe by anyone where ever, not only by me.

Before AIDS no more than 9 % were familiar with anal sex. Probably less. Other practices prevailed and still prevail.
 
bulge said:
Is the str8 fetish transgressive? No. ALL male sexuality is fetishistic and is ONLY fetishistic inclusive and especially the str8 fetish. The str8 fetish is the worst fetish of them all. It is not because society doesn't label str8ness as a fetish, it isn't. Str8ness is in keeping with the clinical definition of fetish. I am a gay fetishist as I cann't orgasm ouside male representations exactly like a str8 cann't orgasm outside female representations. It is not because a fetish focuses on a human being, it would be less a fetish.

Valid is what is considered safe by anyone where ever, not only by me.

Before AIDS no more than 9 % were familiar with anal sex. Probably less. Other practices prevailed and still prevail.
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From the above it is clear that you don't know the meaning of the word 'fetish' at all. Go look it up.

And where are you getting the nonsense in your last paragraph? Citation needed. I was there, and you weren't. Show me where you got that, or admit that you made it up.
 
bramallblade said:
It is so good. I virtually only ever bottom now just to have his cum pushed deeper and deeper inside me. Love it.
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Gay Stories. Tell us details of the first time you barebacked after you got together and how different it was for you.

Make a story. We'll love it.
 
Críostóir said:
Gay Stories. Tell us details of the first time you barebacked after you got together and how different it was for you.

Make a story. We'll love it.
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Blimey. I can't actually recall much about it. I'll be honest with you, i just don't. I remember us using condoms early on and we had talked about it (going bare). However, that first time, what i do remember is he just did it. Obviously i wanted it. It feels so good though. We wouldn't dream of using a condom now. We love each other, we have been together for nearly 3 years and the sex keeps getting better and better. As much as i have fantasy's about various stuff i couldn't go bare with anyone. I would never cheat on him and we go bare because we love each other. Simple as. Corny? Yeah! True? Never a truer word spoken!
 
I agree with bramallblade. My BF and i never use condoms, he loves breeding me and love feeling his cum filling me up:sex:
 
bunny34 said:
I agree with bramallblade. My BF and i never use condoms, he loves breeding me and love feeling his cum filling me up:sex:
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I know i keep saying it, but it really is amazing. We clearly are both in the same boat! Bare is definately best.
 
the next question is..... do you keep the cum in, or let it drip out?:cool:
 
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