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Is being a virgin a turn-off?

Welcome! :wave: Glad you found this place! :D

pupil34 said:
How would you feel, if the guy that you were trying to hook up with or be in a relationship with told you he was still a virgin in his twenties?
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Better than if he was still a virgin in his thirties.... :roll:
 
No. Not really.

The being in the closet thing however would be. For me at least.
 
I think it depends on the situation and the maturity level of both parties. I took the virginity of three of my ex's and it was wonderful (well at least for 2 of them--one had the "omg it's gonna hurt" syndrome [I'll talk about that later]). The second guy literally fell in love with me the night we met, although we didn't have sex.

I guess for some people, you being a virgin could be somewhat of a turn-off because they feel like they have to coach you through everything and start from scratch...and sometimes that can be frustrating, especially if the guy (virgin) is not TRYING to work with you. If you already have your mind set that it is gonna hurt and you can't bear the pain, then there will be complications.

But if you are mature enough to say "ok, well obviously this has to hurt a little bit, but I still wanna go through with it because I love him/I lost a bet/or whatever your reaons are, then you should be fine.

The most important concept to remember is "either you are ready or you're not"----because it's fine and it's one thing to be dealing with the apprehension yourself, but some guys feel disrespected or teased if you THINK you are ready and lead them on, but then in the middle of it, you all of a sudden say "uh, I don't think I can do this right now". It's better to just not even get in that situation altogether, until you know you are ready physically, mentally, and emotionally---it works out better for both parties.

But all in all, know your partner, know his mentality, maturity, and experience with virgins...that, I think, will be more important than (or as important as) the part you actually play in it....hope this helps ..|
 
Well, it would all depend on the guy that you meet. I'm sure there are guys that might be turned off by it, but you're pretty young so I don't think that will be an issue.

As to Chickenguy's comment about a virgin in his 30's, some may think that too would be an issue.

My guy didn't find it an issue when he learned I was a virgin when we met; we discussed it, moved on, and have been having fun together ever since :D.
 
Not a problem at all... I would probably go out of my way to try to make it super special for you... but honestly I think most guys wouldn't notice if you just went with the flow and didn't mention it beforehand.
 
Hm probably for me since I go for older guys than me and I usually expect them to teach me a thing or too since they've matured more.
 
I'm still in touch after 7 years with a then 19 year old, who gave my his virginity. I was 35 and he was looking for an older guy.

He lives on the other side of the world now and is in touch regularly. I was gentle and masterful (so he says).

Virgins are fun. For both parties in this experience.
 
Make up your mind Will...are you going to portray the innocent virgin (back several posts) or the Don Juan of whoredom ^ ...just curious:p

and Pupil besides saying welcome, welcome, welcome,

I leave you with this insight and thought

There are no VIRGINS just opportunities as yet unsought.

..|:gogirl:..|
 
I think as long as you don't use your virginity as a weapon or shield, it shouldn't be a turn-off.

When guys come across as 'I'm saving it for just the right guy'.........it immediately is a turn-off because they're either making it clear that they are rating every guy they meet, or that it is going to be a long hard slog to jump their bone, and usually not worth the trouble.
 
Depends on who you ask, actually. I know some guys who'd love to have a virgin and show him what it's all about. I'm one of those guys. ..|

Lex
 
Yep, thats our Harke, so gentle, so sweet, so understanding...it would be hard not to love a real man like him
 
Mr. B,

If you are still a virgin, then that is of your volition and not , i repeat, not from a

lack of opportunity. Damn, if we could only split the age difference.
 
Oh, and pupil.. you didn't sound desperate.

Just remember this is a rowdy, mouthy crude funny and say just about anything group you've joined.

DIG IN, have a laugh...hopefully with and not at...or ten.
 
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