Is being a virgin a turn-off?

[Ekim23]

(p.s. most gay guys are massive sluts.) Just sayin'.

U a hater ... LOOOOL

 

[Ekim23]

And why am I a hater?

Because u say gays are sluts which is NOT TRUE AT ALL

 

[IllgetyouHackman]

I hope its not a turn off >.>

 

[Ekim23]

You see...Just because I have class not to be a slut...Does not mean that the rest of you do. Mmmhmm. And I don't mean all gays. I mean...The ones who are either too unattractive to be sluts, too silly not to believe in commitment, or too hot to think they should have to commit. Le sigh.

But I was jokin nyway Dude

 

[hotatlboi]

It's not a big deal, but you've got to be a virgin who is eager to join in.

yeah that's key. Speaking from my experience as once the other kind, virgins who are too nervous to do anything are no fun at all, lol.

 

[Shepherd 2]

You are a virgin. You need nothing else, but the desire to meet someone. In your time, and at your pace make the decision to go for it. I know that I would consider it an honor to inntroduce a virgin to the gay life. I would promise you to be gentle and honest as a mentor. Make no mistake, we would both enjoy my taking your man cherry and bringing you out.

Shep+

 

[saymyname]

Virgins, especially bottom virgins, are a turn on to me because you get to pop their cherry for the first time. That's special.

Being in the closet, however, is a total, huge turn off. And if you're saying you're delaying coming out because you're depressed and have all of these issues, have you ever considered that maybe being in the closet is contributing to being depressed, and having all of these issues? When I was in the closet (until I was about16/17) I felt like it magnified every issue in my life, even if they weren't related to being closeted. You should come out.

 

[Robarob]

^^ You've echoed what went through my head when I read that post as well. I was closeted until fairly recently and it was a living hell, trying to balance really heavy emotions with trying to lead a normal life. The difference when I finally had the courage to come out was incredible.

But that's not specifically what the thread is about. Personally, as a virgin, I can't answer your question (why am I posting?!). However, it is comforting to know that it's not something I should personally worry about.

I'm also going to echo what's already been said about being in the closet being a turn off. I didn't try and experience anything while I was closeted, and I'd struggle to with someone who was now. Why? Because I'd want to be proud of who I was with, and I'd want them to be proud of me. You can't have that if one (or both) of you are trying to hide from who you really are.

 

[Lefty]

Shep

youse done a gode job a dizguyzing wat a horny old old gote eww arr in that post^^

Doan wurry, I ain't gonna tell the nize yung man on ya.