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Is Dating Someone 15 Years Older or Younger Too Big of an Age Difference?

Is Dating Someone 15 Years Older or Younger Too Big of an Age Difference?

  • Yes

    Votes: 21 24.4%

  • No

    Votes: 56 65.1%

  • Not Sure

    Votes: 9 10.5%
  • Total voters
    86
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Don't read or look at what other people chose or said before voting or replying.
 
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I voted yes, but anything can work in the short term. The problem with a decade and a half of age difference is the lack of experience vs [STRIKE]jaded tired ass bitter old queen[/STRIKE], um, I mean more experience.
 
Age is a number that some will use to incarcerate them selves, into a mindset that presumes to deny, them their birth right to live life in pursuit of happiness.

No waiting for tomorrow... today, I live as I please, and never as my birth certificate would dictate.

When a couple are happy, and contented then age ceases to be relevant.
 
Adrock-JD said:
^ :rotflmao:


I voted yes, but anything can work in the short term. The problem with a decade and a half of age difference is the lack of experience vs [STRIKE]jaded tired ass bitter old queen[/STRIKE], um, I mean more experience.
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I have to agree with you , But I have met some jaded tired ass bitter Young queens and they scare me more than the older ones.
Just imagine Them in 15 years.
 
Not at all, if you are happy and your younger or older partner is happy who cares???
 
No, it's only an issue if you are dealing with a minor. I think most people care when you are talking about and 18-20 year old with a 33-35 year old. No one really thinks about 30 and 45. It depends on the individuals. It depends on what they get out of it. Look at our community, what is sexually appealing is as varied as the human imagination. What can be a loving and fulfilling relationship is also as limitless as the imagination.
 
Well, if both people are of age then it's really no one's business but theirs....

That being said, I think it *does* tend to matter in a long-term relationship.

Love and sex are great things, but there's no denying that someone who is, say, 19 and someone who is 34 are in two very different places in their lives.

But, I think that the ages of... I dunno, 30 to 55 are pretty much equal territory...
 
"20 and 35" uh If you can find something in common I suppose..
 
Assuming both are legal the only thing is whether it works for the couple involved.
 
Dating or having sex with a much older man doesn't seem to be an issue at all to most of the young gay community, but I have to say: Yeah, I really do think that in most cases, that much of an age difference is going to be an issue; They both want different things in life, and I think they usually just grow apart. Regardless of age, it's vital to be in a relationship with someone who's on the same page with you.
 
Worked for me. When we met he was 53 and I was 36 and it went on for 27 years.
 
no , my b/f was 14 yrs my junior, we were together for 11yrs until god called him to greater glory - it wasn't his choice but god calls the shots !
 
Every serious relationship that I've had has been with a much older man and it's something I tend to steer clear off these days. The only reason it's an issue for me is because they've all made it an issue in one way or another. One guy would talk down to me whenever we got into even the smallest argument...used to piss me off to no end. Another guy loved the age difference at first and it was fun, but then he got all insecure and it got bad. It made social situations a little akward too...I mean a 40 year olds definition of a fun friday night and a 20 years olds is different.

I'm not completely closed minded about it though, like if I meet someone and there are some massive sparks I might give it another shot, but for the most part I'm over it.
 
This thread is depressing. :cry: It brings up feelings of midlife crisis in me. I'm trying my best not to go on a rant. :badgrin:
 
I guess it depends on what you mean by "too much". In a moral sense, no. Assuming everyone is of legal age, there is no such thing as too much of an age difference if everyone involved is happy. On an emotional level, I can imagine dating someone 15 years younger, which would make him 30, but not much younger than that. I have a very emotionally satisfying relationship with a 20 year old, but he is straight and it is not a sexual thing. It is more of a mentor/substitute father thing. I suppose I could imagine a similar relationship that did include sex, though.
 
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