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Is he just being nice or is he interested?

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Recently I have started having feelings for this guy I met a few months ago. He works at a store that I shop at often. Up until a few weeks ago I realized how much I enjoyed talking to him and I always thought he was flirting a bit whenever I would speak to him. I've always considered myself to be bisexual even though I have only dated women, but I have been with a guy once and by that I mean only kissing. So back to the topic on hand, I know sales associates are suppose to basically kiss your ass so you end up buying something, but with him I find it to be sincere and genuine. I had a hard time figuring out whether he was gay or straight but the other day by pure chance I found him on a dating website and he described himself as bisexual. I'm a little ashamed to admit that I was really happy to find this piece of information out. Now I don't really know what to do? I've never felt the need to ask anybody out before. I've always have had people approach me. Should I just wait to see what happens or do I just out myself out there? I'm terrified of being rejected, but I would be mortified if I was just misreading the signs and he was not interested in me all along.
 
Well he is on a dating site and showing himself as bisexual ! He is therefore interested in meeting other guys . I guess he has some interest in you so he certainly should not slap you down. I think you are both waiting for the other guy to take it further :) Go for it and show more interest and the best of luck.
 
and please let us know how things go........ :D
 
Just invite him for a drink somewhere, at your house ....
 
Ask him if he knows any good places to get a drink if you are afraid of rejection so that may open the door for him to ask you out if he is interested and you won't have to risk it.
 
Well, the first step is you coming clean that you're bisexual, too.

If you think he wouldn't freak out about it, message him on the dating website, say "Hi" and invite him for a drink or lunch.

If you think he might be uncomfortable being outed by the website, then go to the store, chat him up and then ask when he gets off from work and invite him out.
 
If you don't try it then you will never find out, he will never find out and you will always wonder what can happen, so I would try something yourself and do it like one of the methods said above!
 
I hit up up on the application.
 
I would say to go for it. I'm dealing with a similar situation. I work in an retail store and have begun to notice a customer, and it seems that we are both interested in each other but I'm not sure if I need to make the next move or wait until he does. After reading the responses the OP is getting I'm going to put myself out there and see what happens! Keep us informed on how yours turns out
 
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