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Is he just clueless? Please say yes!

Now that it seems you have this problem mostly resolved we can move on to more important matters, ie. your misplaced support of McLaren. BMW is where it's at!
 
screwnutty said:
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Okay guys...as the young guys say these days, who wouldn't tap this guy? (that's -02- by the way)

Come on....get your votes in now!! :D
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uhm... wow!

kudos to you O2 for taking the high road.
 
--O2-- said:
Guys, really, if I were that hot, I would at least turn a head when I go out. Only girls notice me haha- But, I do appreciate it :)
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God damn it boy!! What do I have to do to get you to see that you are fucking hot! SERIOUSLY!! Good god! I wish I had an ounce of that hotness that you have man! fuck look at my mood thingy. I'm lonely. Been alone for a long time. I have to cats and a rat. The biggest kick these days for me is moving up in rank on Rainbow Six Vegas 2 for xbox 360!

As for taking he high road. That doesn't make you a bad person. That doesn't make people not want to get to know you. Hell if you lived near me at all, we would be best buds! Because I like people who are honest. People who are caring etc. That trait you have is very rare. Lot of people don't care anymore and just think about themselves. You know, me me me me!!

MAN can somebody hit him for me at the next JUB meet that he goes to....PLEASE!!!!!!!!


by the way....love the shirt in this pic of you....or is it your 5 o'clock shadow.....hard to say...think it's the shirt! :D

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--O2-- said:
I don't know. I try really hard to do the right thing, be the change I want to see in others, you know? But I always wonder why that leaves me here, home with my cat, when a seemingly great guy like Dan ditches me. Karma shmarma.
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Love will come when you least expect it.

Learn to ditch guys like Dan very quickly. They are control freaks, and are only happy when they initiate. It's a very bad place to be unless you like self-immolation.

I'm currently in slut mode. Sleeping around a lot. But, you know, you learn an awful lot about how gay men interact, how they handle (or can't handle) relationships--the give & take that's required. It's very very enlightening. You meet some real jerks, and a few gems. Figure out what it is you like about the gems and what you hate about the jerks, and it will make it easier for you to find/identify the right guy when he comes along.
 
Sometimes you just have to think about the kind of guy that you want, and picture in your mind where he'll be. Odds are, it won't be in a gay bar.

Your knight in shining armor might be waiting for you at the gym, in the guitar shop, walking his dog in the park, or in a local bookstore on a Saturday night. You wouldn't believe how cruisy a Barnes & Noble could be on a weekend!

Look around for some local email groups or blogs for GLBT people. You'll find out about events - such as local political rallies, jogging buddies, and other events.

Just visualize the man of your dreams, then picture where you might find him.

I have a friend who I help set up. He was a cute 34 year old teacher. He loved to cook, and was into very healthy & organic/natural foods. I told him to start buying his groceries at Whole Foods on Saturday evenings. He's now dating the produce manager and they just celebrated their 4 month anniversary. (And he STILL owes me dinner!)
 
--O2-- said:
That high road, while it does allow a squeaky clean conscience, also means I have spent most of my life alone. I know it looks all noble and shit, but the high road is a lonely road.

I don't know. I try really hard to do the right thing, be the change I want to see in others, you know? But I always wonder why that leaves me here, home with my cat, when a seemingly great guy like Dan ditches me. Karma shmarma.
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at the end of the day you still have your principles and that has to count for something. at least i hope it does 'cause i do believe i'm in the same boat as yourself.

as for the guy you were seeing? i'm guessing he hasn't responded as yet. if he left you hanging without the courtesy of that response then i do believe you can dispense with 'seemingly great guy' and just call him the jerk that he more than likely is. i think the term is 'ditch the bitch?' ;)
 
--O2-- said:
Well, he did get back to me yesterday.

Obviously we aren't together anymore, but for what it's worth, after hearing why, I'm not upset with him. He actually is a good guy and I understand why he didn't want to tell me. Still, he should have said something before now.

Still sucks though. That one really excited me.

Ah well, thanks guys - I really do appreciate it (*8*)
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at the very least you're not out in the dark.

you know "why" and that ought to help you put him and this rough patch behind you.

as everyone else has already pointed out, you're a damned handsome guy and from what i've read of you here you strike me as pretty bright. it's only a matter of time before someone comes along and takes you off the market. i know it sucks but you hang in there. :)
 
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