is he just friendly or is there more?

[Notseingme]

Is he trying to start something or is.he just friendly??

Two days ago i saw this guy in two days ago i saw this guy in the sauna at my gym

We.nodded and exhanged glances a few times and being that i like to.cruise a bit i got hard and made dick.jump (we had on shorts) while pretending to read a newspaper and he looked once but no.more so.i gathered hes not interested

So.i saw him.again yesterday (a day later) and we made small talk mostly about the benefits of the sauna and hOw annoying the kids are in the pool and what time to.catch the bus....so

We shower at separate times
But wind up at the bustop together and contined talking
He glances down a few times at my bulge but i dont think much of it cause judging from our conversations n.overall vibe i think hes straight but he looked at my bulge again and asks me what am i doing later i said.just relaxing and he invited.me over his house turns out he live about a block away from me so i set my.bags n stuff home and went over his.house and we.hung out for about an hour or.two.and he cooked.dinner and we watched.a movie ....and we were watching the trailer for a movie and he pointed put this actress that had dick.sucking lips lol but i.didnt read to much into it tho and then.he.said he was tired so hes gonna go.to.bed and i left

And i called him this morning to see if he can.go.early in the morning tp the gym with me he said hes still sleepy lol.so yeah

So is.he trying something or.is he.just a friendly guy?

 

[HunterM]

Well, if it's a dinner and a movie...THAT's a date!

Continue to be friendly back to him. Hang out with him since you two live so close to each other. There is definitely something more!

Good luck.

 

[Brian Smith]

If you have not admitted to him that you are gay, you cannot have true honesty in the relationship even if you are friends and nothing else. You don't have to say something daft like "by the way, I'm gay." Allude to it by saying something like, "yeah, I have found the gym to be a great place to cruise for guys. That kind of sex gets to feeling cheap, though. Sometimes I find myself wanting something more meaningful." This gives him the option of saying, "well, I hope you find that," to which you can smile politely and say, "thanks," and smoothly change the subject.

Or who knows? He might get a shy look and admit to you that he has always wondered what it would be like to be with a guy, and you will still be screwing each other six times a day 50 years from now. A lot of times, guys who come across as straight are really bisexual, even gay, and they feel shy about saying it for the same reasons that you do or sometimes for reasons all their own. One of you has to break the ice, though.

And really, on the off chance this guy were a homophobe, which it doesn't sound like he is, you are better off knowing now than after you have gotten attached to him.

 

[Durango95]

OMG

Don't say anything about being gay yet. Geez Louise You had a one time dinner and watched a movie at his house. While that is somewhat suggestive it is by no means a ploy to get you. If it had been you would be relating how great the sex was. You have his number obviously. I'm assuming he gave it to you.

I'll say this. If you are confused as to his motives then don't read more into than is there.

 

[Notseingme]

thanx for the replies id like.to hang out with him.more before risking.him.pulling.away after i tell him........i.like ourchemistry
like i said we met two days ago so imo.i need to give it.two weeks

 

[loveguys72]

Just hang out together and see where it goes. Good luck!

 

[Durango95]

thanx for the replies id like.to hang out with him.more before risking.him.pulling.away after i tell him........i.like ourchemistry
like i said we met two days ago so imo.i need to give it.two weeks

Good deal. You don't play your whole hand on the first round. Two weeks sounds right. Just let it develop naturally. Keep your smarts about you.