This guy I have been dating for a couple years now was married for over 12 years and say he has only been with 5 women. Part of the problem in the marriage was lack of sex the other part that he was gay and he said he knew he was way back when he was in college. He said when he would have sex with his wife he would always go down on her first until she had an orgasm then he would make his move. He is ADAMANT he is not bisexual and not into women and that he is truly gay. But I can't imagine a guy who is truly gay going down on a women everytime they have sex to the point of her orgasm. I need some honest opinions what do you think???
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is he really gay
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giorgiobaby
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I'm gay and I have gone down on a woman. It was along time ago. I was young and experimenting, even thought I considered myself gay. Maybe he's telling the truth, he could've gone down on her to make her orgasm first, that way he wouldn't have to fuck her as long.
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Yeah, you're right! I consider myself to be bi-sexual, even though I'd rather be in a relationship with a dude than a girl........so I am gay but I do like women too!
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IMHO, I'm sure some guys would do just about anything to stay in the closet with their wives.
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One of the gayest men I have ever met--his drag name was 'Sparkle' and he was Fabulous!! if you know what I mean...got married and had an actual relationship for a while. He enjoyed going down on her. I was always amazed because if you ever pictured anyone in this world being a vaginaphobe, it was him.
He did it because he loved her so much as a person, he found her attractive and wanted her to have pleasure, which I think is just the sweetest thing ever. After that was over (wasn't him, her kids were seriously psycho and I don't mean 'hard to handle' I mean 'Norman Bates') he went on houseboy.com and became some guys sex toy. As far as I'm concerned, he's still gay.
I would take your guy at his word...for whatever reason he did it, to wear her bush as his 'beard' or because he loved her and wanted to make her happy, it sounds like he was really thinking about cock the whole time and is happy to have found yours.
He did it because he loved her so much as a person, he found her attractive and wanted her to have pleasure, which I think is just the sweetest thing ever. After that was over (wasn't him, her kids were seriously psycho and I don't mean 'hard to handle' I mean 'Norman Bates') he went on houseboy.com and became some guys sex toy. As far as I'm concerned, he's still gay.
I would take your guy at his word...for whatever reason he did it, to wear her bush as his 'beard' or because he loved her and wanted to make her happy, it sounds like he was really thinking about cock the whole time and is happy to have found yours.
wait, you mean they had kids together and the kids are psycho ?
if you can have "gay for pay" then why couldn't you have straight for marriage....well ok that was sorta a lame comparison, but the idea is if you can have gay sex just for money then why couldn't someone have str8 sex for no money.
Why do people need labels? And why is it so important to you that he be gay?
The thing is, people are unique, every one of us. Look at NeoSlacker for instance. He says bisexuality doesn't exist and yet there are threads and threads full of men on this forum who disagree. The experiences of those men tell them they can be sexually attracted to both men and women but the experiences of NeoSlacker says it's not possible, they're just deluding themselves. No person can actually tell what is going on inside the mind of another (some are really good at guessing, though, but it's still just a guess) so if he calls himself gay then he is gay.
People want labels because it's like a guarantee of what's inside, kind of like food labels. But since we're all unique labels don't really work. Take 5000 gay men and then find two among them who are exactly alike in every way. Even though they are all lableled as gay they still aren't going to be the same.
Focus less on labeling him and more on loving him.
The thing is, people are unique, every one of us. Look at NeoSlacker for instance. He says bisexuality doesn't exist and yet there are threads and threads full of men on this forum who disagree. The experiences of those men tell them they can be sexually attracted to both men and women but the experiences of NeoSlacker says it's not possible, they're just deluding themselves. No person can actually tell what is going on inside the mind of another (some are really good at guessing, though, but it's still just a guess) so if he calls himself gay then he is gay.
People want labels because it's like a guarantee of what's inside, kind of like food labels. But since we're all unique labels don't really work. Take 5000 gay men and then find two among them who are exactly alike in every way. Even though they are all lableled as gay they still aren't going to be the same.
Focus less on labeling him and more on loving him.