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is he the right guy? HELP

This is actually kind of a cute story, from my point of view looks like you really do like him. So when you guys do talk, just be out with it buddy. If not your always going feel regretful.
 
JJW234 said:
So this is what happen today or yesterday (Netherlands time)


I wake up thinking about him

I mean I was decided to go to his house and visit him and tell him that we can try out he never text me in the whole night I send him some texts but he didn't answer I was extremely worried

So I pick up my bike and ride to his house I already know where he lives so everything was ok when I arrive his mom told me that he was in his uncle house she told me that probably in 30 minutes he arrives I was ok with that her mom let me in and I just wait for him

So yeah I met his mom she's really nice she start asking me about him if I was his friend, where I meet him etc she start asking about me and yeah then he arrives he was literally in shock cuz he never expect me to be there sitting in his living room so he says:


Thomas: What are you doing here

Me: We have to talk

Thomas: I don't think so

Me: Why

Thomas: After what happen yesterday you are done to me

I was like WTF is wrong with this guy he have some issues or he still hates me or something but that was not ok at all

Me: Oh really? OK (mad face)

I said bye to his mom and I leave

Believe me I start to cry and I don't know why maybe because I was really thinking that we can move on about what happen yesterday and we can totally try it out but no everything was different now I ride my bike to my house and I just stay there in my bedroom really sad

I know everything sounds really cliche but yeah that happen I was depressed and mad at the same time so then he was calling me and saying that he is extremely sorry about it and if we can talk latter I said ok

So in that moment I haven't sleep for really long time I was extremely tired I fall sleep when I wake up my mom told me that my BF and other guy visit me

He text me saying that he visit me but I was sleeping and he call me later
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So question is,
are you still gonna go into a relationship with him?
It seems like you still have doubts. Feelings are complicated. Sort it out before you dive in.
And yes, you two are cute.
 
JJW234 said:
Best Friends he was visiting his family in Belgium :)


I'm not playing with him I never reject him I just don't give him an answer in that moment he took that as a rejection that is not my fault look I put the effort but then he reject me I was about to explain him everything but he didn't care
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So make it up to him. You're both young and easily susceptible to romanticism. Be romantic. Find some way to tell him how you really feel. Deep down inside he really likes you. You just have to show him that you care.
 
Thank you so much everyone I read every single one of your comments and advice and this forum help me a lot words can't describes how much u guys help me :)


So today was a pretty good day I wake up my best friend call me he told me everything about his trip to Belgium and yeah we reunite later

Thomas text me telling me that he want to talk with me so if we can meet somewhere I reply

Me: Where are you?

Thomas: My House

Me: Yeah what about if we meet outside your house?

Thomas: Ok in 30 minutes?

Me: Ok

I was pretty excited because this was our first meeting and a real talk

So yeah I pick up my bike (lol like always) I was really close to his house so yeah is pretty easy for some foreign people sounds crazy XD

But anyway Yeah I arrive there he was waiting for me (cute like always lol) and we start to talk he keeps saying sorry for what happen the other day (the rejection) and I say its ok so yeah we start talking about our lives and my problems with my dad and college etc

then he ask me if I already think about it and I said yeah

Me: Look I like you, you are a really nice guy and cute too but I don't know if I'm ready for this I mean being your boyfriend so I was thinking why don't we try it out like for 1 week and then let me decide if we can still be together (sounds horrible and mean I know)

Thomas: Its ok with me I know you have some issues in your house so for sure i'm ok with that

for me that was really important cuz I though that he was getting bored with all that stuff cuz personally I think is getting kinda silly LOL

Yah we decided to try it out this week

So we keep talking for hours then he invite me to drink something (there's a small mall close to his house) then later like at 11 pm we kiss for the first time I was so happy I think I like this guy a lot!


I excuse for my English again thank you Guys!
 
Gratz man :) I don't understand why you're so hung up on being "boyfriend" or not, just let it happen.
 
hi JJ,

Thanks alot for this nice update. Great that both of you just have decided to talk with each other open and about alot of things. And great that you are now dating a guy (is is really that difference compared to dating a girl?).

I agree with Charmander that you should not focus yourself too much on names like 'boyfriends of each other' or not. Why not just let things happen, and have a nice time with him. Definitely, both of you like each other very much. So meet each other frequently, do nice things with each other frequently, and just see how things are developing each other. Great man, that all goes so well!

So I assume that both of you won't hide at your college that both of you 'like each other very much', meaning also that it will become known that you out yourself as a gay/bi. I tend to think this is not really a big issue for you, especially because your friend is very open, and because you told us that there are alot of other gay guys as well on your college. In fact, this is a very easy and a very relaxed way to be open en relaxed about your own sexual identify.

I hope soon you will find ways to tell your mother the truth (=you are right now dating a guy, in stead of a girl). You were allowed to take home all kind of girlfriends? Maybe she is already aware that something is going on? I tend to think that you cannot hide to her that X is your very good friend (and that you will spend alot of time with him), and you told us you don't like to ly.

Anyway, good luck, take care & great there is 'something between you and him'.

Best wishes.
 
^^ Thank you so much!

I just tell my mom about my boyfriend (its official ) she was surprised cuz she though I was completely straight so I explain her everything and she was more than happy extremely happy that was even weird XD and yeah she told me that she really don't care if I was straight gay or bi the only thing that she cares is about my happiness so she meet with my boyfriend and you guys dont have idea how happy I am right now :)


(I excuse for my English again)
 
hi JJ,

Thanks alot for the feedback, and great that your mom is very supportive. Good you have told this soon to your mom. And I can imagine very well that you are right now very happy. So I would like to wish you all the best. You don't need to excuse you for your level of English.

[prachtig dat het nu officieel is tussen jullie beiden en dat jullie hier niet geheimzinnig meer over hoeven te doen. groetjes & veel succes.]

Take care & good luck.
 
JJW234, congratulations! I'm glad we could help you out. Your story of finding happiness through coming out and gaining a boyfriend is what makes this forum so worth it. :)
 
bcuz is all my fault I was seeing another guy I mean not dating him

How can I explain

There;s this guy who's a really good friend but he likes me so I kiss with him once in front of my best friend and other guy then the rumor starts and everyone know including him so he got mad I told him i'm sorry but yeah he didnt call me or anything he was mad then I think the best for the two of us is jut broke up

But i'm an asshole now I feel sorry im trying to call him but hes never answer I havent seen him :(
 
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