Is it a turnoff if your partner in bed is wearing MAKEUP?

[locksmithers]

This guy and I have been in communication for a while via texting and we've gotten to know each other a lot, which scares me. This is why I prefer sex with strangers better.

Anyway, he's young, 20 years old - slim, just recently came out of the closet and has only sucked 5 cocks, some of which are older. I'm his age. Same body type. He seems nice enough, but he's young, maybe he's shallow.

We agreed for him to come over, watch a movie, massaged each other, and just cuddle all night long all through the morning. If it goes well, we've also agreed to be cuddle buddies.

I watched a ton of makeup videos online and I also bought a bunch of liquid foundation just to see which one matches my skin tone best. I did my makeup today and I thought I look pretty fucking good. Natural light? CHECK. Lightbulb? CHECK.

The problem though is when I'm in front of the computer, my pores look HUGE and my acne scars HORRIBLE. Under fluorescent lighting also, my makeup shows.

So will this turn you off if you see your partner in bed is wearing makeup or has acne scars?

 

[DigitalFudge]

has only sucked 5 cocks

What a gentleman.


Someone can teach you how to wear makeup flawlessly. Do you have someone in your life who always looks good?

If not, run into Sephora or Mac and say you need to learn and they will be more than happy to deal with these acne issues.

Makeup is suppose to hide all that not show it.

Don't wear it in bed though, your skin will only get worse.

 

[refujiunderground]

wtf? ya think?

 

[bankside]

I don't think acne scars is a look I would hope for on someone, but if they didn't notice, I honestly doubt I would even notice either. Putting a bunch of make-up over the acne and testing it under different lighting conditions is the opposite of the casual approach, and it would freak me the fuck out.

 

[swerve]

Your post is SO FAR OUT there -- that I cannot even wrap my head around it...

When you get closer in to orbit -- let me know...

 

[TheLyingGame]

No way! If i get a bad breakout, I will totally use makeup to cover it.... AND i don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks.

This whole double standard thing is pathetic! If girls can use makeup to "improve" their looks, why can't men?

MAKEUP OR NOT

P.S. I really wouldn't sleep with it on though.....

 

[refujiunderground]

No way! If i get a bad breakout, I will totally use makeup to cover it.... AND i don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks.

This whole double standard thing is pathetic! If girls can use makeup to "improve" their looks, why can't men?

MAKEUP OR NOT

P.S. I really wouldn't sleep with it on though.....

lol. acne scars >>>> make up. being too self conscious is not sexy at all. a guy who gives too much of a fuck isn't sexy either.

 

[oakpope]

I don't care much for make-up and would go for no make-up personally, but on some men, some light make-up can be pretty good, Kohl like product for example can be nice on some people, so why not ? In bed, for sex, once in a while, again why not. In bed for sleeping, I don't think it is very healthy, but I'm not a specialist, so I can be wrong.

 

[TheLyingGame]

lol. acne scars >>>> make up. being too self conscious is not sexy at all. a guy who gives too much of a fuck isn't sexy either.

well, I agree...BUT it really depends on how bad your acne/scars are...

 

[HunterM]

I don't think you should wear makeup, just be you, let your natural beauty shine

Well, thank you Jason! I love you.

 

[Swellegant]

So long as it doesn't rub off on my sheets (the stuff I used for drag stains like you wouldn't believe)!

I wonder, though: how bad are these scars? Can they be as bad as you think? And can you possibly keep makeup on all night? If you're going to be actually intimate with someone, they're gonna have to see you au naturel sooner or later. And you can't live a life of casual stand-up-in-the-dark sex just because you're ashamed of your skin...you only do that if you really enjoy it. If you want love, you need to look for someone who'll love you, scars and all. This guy might, you won't know until you try.

 

[oakpope]

Sometimes natural is ugly. We don't wear clothes that make us ugly, so why not 'cheating' with our face if needed ? I don't mean drag queen level, but simple touches again, why not ?

 

[jensu846]

you can tell when people are wearing makeup usually and if you are wearing it to cover up acne scars, then its gonna be obvious. plus, what if he touches or kisses your face? imo, no makeup, its a turnoff.

 

[LilBit]

It's not a turn-off until it stains my pillowcases. But like others have said, he's gonna see you without it eventually, so you may as well get it over with instead of pretending that you have flawless skin.

 

[vulgar_newcomer]

This is why I prefer sex with strangers better.

Anyway, he's young, 20 years old - slim, just recently came out of the closet and has only sucked 5 cocks, some of which are older.

What was older his makeup or the 5 cocks he sucked?

Trust me, if I didn't crash with anyone in makeup I likely would just pass out on the floor. You just have to use good quality shit.
Some dudes like the look and say "no keep that shit on man" lets fuck like the devil".
If they are a old they may turn on Sweet Pain "and pain has got its reason, and if you don't stop your teasing, I am going to show you now, anyhow, anyhow...... Sweet Pain".

 

[G-Lexington]

I wouldn't mind the make-up, really, but I'd wonder why he bothered. I mean, I'm human. I've got imperfections and scars (and big ass pores) and whateverelse, and I'm assuming he will, too. I mean, will you kick him out of bed if HIS pores are too big? Or he's got a zit on his nose or something? If your looks were that important, he presumably would demand high quality 8 x 10s before meeting up.

Lex

 

[yeahright1991]

I mean....unless I'm doing something professional...I never wear it...but then again I have a skin care system that was reached through trial and error (with lots of ERROR)...and finally my skin looks flawless.

If I AM doing something professional though...I guarantee that Dior Airflash cans will have been used prior to me stepping out. And If I happen to get laid afterwards...I'd still have that airflash on... and if I were to be judged for it...I'd simply say a few F-U's and probably ramble about how I could take it off and look the same...and how even if I did they weren't getting NONE.

However...I've noticed some SHADE being thrown at the OP by people....Don't listen. If you feel you need it to look the best you possibly can for someone that YOU care for...go with your gut.

 

[oakpope]

And yet the cosmetic industry make hundred of billions of dollars in turnover each year...

 

[sixthson]

I don't like lipstick on my dick, so no make-up to bed.

 

[refujiunderground]

Sometimes natural is ugly. We don't wear clothes that make us ugly, so why not 'cheating' with our face if needed ? I don't mean drag queen level, but simple touches again, why not ?

i have to get this off my chest because this is something that i think is really quite annoying nowadays.

people in the western hemisphere need to stop being so fucking superficial. it's ridiculous. let go of all the bullshit that the media and all these companies distributing this poison is pushing into your mind. life is NOT perfect. nobody is perfect. life doesn't last forever. why can't people just let things be and be cool with it? you're not going to die if you have acne, some scars on your face, crooked teeth or whatever the hell else. what can't kill you can make you stronger. you'll live. if anybody doesn't like you for how you look or for some acne scars, then they probably don't give a fuck about you to begin with.

someone that looks too much into their looks has issues on the inside and if that's the case, that person NEEDS help. that person lacks something within themselves where they're trying to use their appearance to make up for it. it's called masking your issues. damn, work on fixing whatever issues you have in yourself that you're taking it out through your looks. as far as i'm concerned, nobody in here has been told to use makeup by someone else. they chose to do it because that's what they think about themselves. it's lame really. i think it's annoying how people put all this priority on how they look. i understand that if you want to look right for a date, a job interview, or etc but dayum, at some point, you have to know when and when it's not rational. it's real easy to let it become a habit where it becomes an obsession and then you end up going crazy worrying about how you look.

that's why i said wtf to begin with. if i seen you without the makeup already, what's the point of putting it on to hide what and in bed out of all places? how insecure can you be with yourself to wear makeup while you're going to sleep? besides, makeup looks silly on most people anyway. you might as well throw some paint on your face and call it a day.

and when you're sucking my dick or when i'm skeeting in your face, i don't want to be fucking your makeup. i would hate to be smacking my dick across someone's face and then seeing makeup on my dick. you better lick that shit off.