bankside
JUB 10k Club
Now you CLEARLY understand why you should NEVER-EVER leave your wife..This is where Common-Sense plays a major role in your Life...Gay Life will NOT make you happy...Everything you desire with a Gay Man will ONLY be temporary..Do you understand that?
One of these days you're gonna Find that Guy that will give you what you want..But will you be willing to GIVE him what he wants? He might want you To Fuck him without protection and he might want his Light-bill paid...
Now that you're OUT to your wife and you're searching 10-Times harder for Dudes than ever before; It's gonna be interesting to see how much self-control you have...It's gonna be interesting to see what you sacrifice to get what you want from Gay Men...
Gay life makes me happy. I have that kind of intimacy with my guy. We can fuck each other but we can also make love. And he's my best friend.
I think finding that in a poly or open relationship is really very difficult, but I don't deny someone the opportunity to try, as long as he's open and honest about it.
galesbi, it sounds like you want a "friend with benefits," not a "fuck buddy," and probably even a "best friend with benefits." I hope you find it and that will be fun and comfortable for all 3 of you. (or 4 depending on who is in his life?)

