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Is it bad to hookup?

hunky69

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So lately I've been even hornier than usual, and extremely tempted to do hookups from online. When I'm horny the idea seems really hot, but I feel like there's such a stigma attached to it that I can't get over. Is it really that bad if I do hookups? I'd always be safe. I donno. thought I'd get your thoughts.
 
That's totally your personal decision. One could also argue that there is a stigma to being gay if you want to go down that road. If you want to try it - try it. As you said yourself - be safe - and be careful.
There is nothing wrong with two adult persons having some fun in mutual agreement. You just need to be aware of the fact that it *shouldn't* be anything more, but it always can be come more - both in a positive and a negative way.
The question is - is it the right thing for you to do? You are already having some insecurities about it, so it seems you have some issues with it, too. But it seems a bit as if you have more problems with what others might think about it/you.
 
No, it is not bad to hookup. Just to be careful thats all. It is like one night stand.

Is it bad to have 1 night stand ?
 
hunky69 said:
So lately I've been even hornier than usual, and extremely tempted to do hookups from online. When I'm horny the idea seems really hot, but I feel like there's such a stigma attached to it that I can't get over. Is it really that bad if I do hookups? I'd always be safe. I donno. thought I'd get your thoughts.
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There's nothing "bad" about it. Sometimes hookups can be quite satisfying. Sometimes hookups are something you regret immediately after you come. Sometimes they're a horrible experience. Sometimes you meet someone that you like and it becomes more than a hookup.

From a practical standpoint, if you are really horny, then you get yourself off- with your hand, with a toy, by watching porn... This is a much more practical solution than having to spend a couple of hours trolling on a website looking for someone who is both hot and willing. And when you get yourself off, you don't have to worry about disease, you don't have a to take a shower, you don't have to clean your house and you don't have to spend your time giving directions to some dimwit at 1AM in the morning.

But there is more to your post- the thought of an online hookup also seems to have an erotic appeal to you because it has a bit of taboo.

If it's a turnon for you, then try it. See if you like it.

But keep in mind that online hookups are like McDonalds. It's fine when you're hungry and in a hurry but you don't want to eat there for every meal.
 
Not really into one night stands they make me nervous. But I do like to kind of daring. I consider it like a blind date. It is so important that there is a connection for me. I am like you is that when i am horny that takes over and I just want it. Must get my brain back involved to the right decision. You must make the choice yourself. Good Luck.
 
Ive been doing lots of hookups, 22 actualy, and ive only had maybe 3 good experiences, It gets old after a while.
 
Is it bad?
In what way?
Waste of time, yes.
Health hazard, yes.
Immoral, no. Two consenting adults, maybe more.

The worst that could happen would be getting a fatal disease or being taken out by a random psycho. The best that could happen would be a great fun time, quickly forgotten. Not enough for me.
 
Well depends on your values. Some people don't and can't take sex lightly, others have sex like its shaking hands. Just have one look at a gay magazine, and you'll see where taking sex lightly has taken us. So, if you're fine with it, go ahead, you're only accountable to yourself. I personally can't hook up, I've tried once before, it leaves me feeling empty afterwards.
 
bankside said:
Is it bad?
In what way?
Waste of time, yes.
Health hazard, yes.
Immoral, no. Two consenting adults, maybe more.

The worst that could happen would be getting a fatal disease or being taken out by a random psycho. The best that could happen would be a great fun time, quickly forgotten. Not enough for me.
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I think the best that could happen is that you lead a life without regrets and have some great memories.
 
I'm against the idea of hooking up. I want someone to care about me and not use me their own purpose. If your in the mindset where that doesn't matter, I'd examine why. Even risking your health should be enough to stop you. I hate the "no regrets" thing because those are the people who end up having regret as they get older. Just try to find a BF.
 
I've gone through spouts where I hookup a lot and then don't. I have to agree that most of my hookups have been negative, meaning the guy was something he didn't present himself as or used a picture from 10-15 years ago, etc.

Is it wrong? I don't think so, men are men and we have needs and as long as its two consenting adults what's the problem, as you can see from these posts everyone is different.
 
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