Is it better to share a lover than to have none at all?

[belamy]

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[Croynan]

 

[ahotjock71]

Aw HELL naw.

 

[belamy]

Aw HELL naw.

Why?

 

[teh_nathan]

I'd rather have none at all.

 

[BrandonSBCA]

I'd would rather be alone then to share someone I love, cause then he'll leave me for the other person.

 

[kurtwild]

ya better to share.i would be jealous but having noone is worse!

 

[freekyguy]

what mine is mine. what yours are mine.

yeah.we sahre the same thought

 

[pausanias_usa]

One of my favorite boyfriends wasn't exclusive to me, but I didn't mind as he had far more time on his hands than I did, and that gave me space to actually work for a living. It was more of a "friend with benefits," but the benefits were great when I had the spare time 8').

 

[belamy]

One of my favorite boyfriends wasn't exclusive to me, but I didn't mind as he had far more time on his hands than I did, and that gave me space to actually work for a living. It was more of a "friend with benefits," but the benefits were great when I had the spare time 8').

That was just sooo "European"

I think I´m beginning to understand why you call yourself "pausanias"

 

[taoisfabugly]

physically,maybe.....emotionally,no f***ing way

 

[1gayguy]

No easy answer to this question.
Some don't like to be alone ... ever... so if that works for them great.
Others want exclusivity ... always... and are willing to be alone if the right person doesn't come along.
Which ever works for that person

 

[belamy]

No easy answer to this question.
Some don't like to be alone ... ever... so if that works for them great.
Others want exclusivity ... always... and are willing to be alone if the right person doesn't come along.
Which ever works for that person

But it´s hardly ever a problem of individuals. Even if you are a lonely wolf it be end up being someone else´s problem-

 

[smile86]

if he was a fuck buddy i wouldn't expect him to only have sex with me. but if he was my lover and we were dating and having sex and i was attatched to him i wouldn't want to share him. i'm a jealous guy!

 

[NickCole]

Depends on the guy I'm sharing him with.

I've discovered, for me anyway, whether or not I feel jealous has a lot to do with the other people involved. For some people, I think motivating jealousy in their friends and lovers makes them feel bigger, more desired, more important.

I'd rather be alone than be in a relationship where I constantly feel jealous and hurt.

 

[tx_doc]

There are certain things I don't share:
Toothbrush
Underwear
my boyfriend

Ask to borrow some money from me and I'll gladly give to you. Ask to fuck my boyfriend and you'll get popped in the face.

 

[irish1]

My boy friend is not my property, but I would not share him.

Call me old fashioned.........