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is it cheating?

backseatboy

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Well, friends with benefits are sexual. And you are sexual with your regular partner, so you are cheating.. In my opinion.
 
If he's just "friends with benefits", why don't you just TELL him? "Hey, I found someone online, and I'm gonna go meet him."

Lex
 
As long as you and your "friend with benefits" both know that it's just a sexual thing between the both of you and nothing more is going to be coming of it, then I don't really see much of a problem with it.
 
No, it's not cheating. If it were me, I wouldn't mention a thing to either party. If the online guy becomes more significant, then I'd kindly tell the FWB so he could find another FWB. Otherwise, I'd leave things alone.
 
oh my! i recant. it is not cheating. i read it completely wrong. sorrryy
 
You have a duty to keep the FWB appraised of possible incoming relationships so he knows that things will be put on hold between you two. You need to be in a relationship before you can cheat on someone.
 
Yeeesssss, but....

The message I would be getting is a big put down. It is like the song from "Showboat." : After I' have been around the world for awhile, then Perhaps I might fall back on you. After I've convinced myself there's no better fate, , then I might decide that you will do."

Thanks. No thanks.
 
If it is true as you state it, as friends w/ben's, thenI dont think you.

But it you 2 are more involved the then there might be a issue.


I do hope you are playing safe...
 
not if its just friends with benefits. its not an exclusive relationship, and you said that you have no intention of hooking up with this other guy. i would just talk to him.
 
The fact you are even asking whether it would be considered "Cheating" makes me believe your situation is more than just a friends with benefits case, from one side at least.

This isn't really something we can answer for you; you need to have this conversation with your friend. :)
 
Just need to know, BOTH of you consider your relationship to be "friends with benefits". Or do you call it that while he thinks you may be his boyfriend.
 
I don't think you can "cheat" on a friend with benefits, especially without actually having sex with someone else!

Honesty, though, is always a good thing. I'd tell your FWB that you have a date, especially if you're excited about it. If they're a friend they'll be happy for you; if they want to be your partner they might say something.
 
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