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Is it harder to come out...

Hang in there and keep making your best efforts. Change is often very frightening, but the fear is almost always worse than reality. Embrace change with a brave face and you will be amazed at what you can accomplish. We are all pulling for you.
 
I don't refuse to change it. I really am trying.

It's just that the rate of progress is infuriatingly slow.

The rate of progress is the one thing that is entirely under your control.

Think about that.
 
WK, I know you want to change. However, you always seem to find a way to explain how you're trapped and how our suggestions aren't possible. Maybe we're recommending the wrong things to try. I don't know. I think that's why I feel like a professional who'd get to know you 1-on-1 might be a better bet.
 
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