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Is it okay for me to do bareback? What do you think of it?

Is it okay for me to do bareback? What do you think of it?

  • I do bareback, but I only when I REALLY trust the guy

    Votes: 11 64.7%

  • I never have and never will

    Votes: 3 17.6%

  • Never have but will someday

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Never have but not sure if I ever will or not

    Votes: 3 17.6%
  • Total voters
    17
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whoa2whoa

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It seems a lot hotter with no condom, but way riskier (if your partner can't be totally trusted). How long do you have to be with someone before you do this, or if at all?

This is a serious matter, what do you guys think of it?

I have been dating this guy for 3 months, too early? I havent done bareback yet btw
 
I don't find it any hotter myself, but I'm not you. It's "okay" for you to do it if you know the risks and are willing to accept the responsibility for said risks.

Lex
 
whoa2whoa said:
It seems a lot hotter with no condom, but way riskier (if your partner can't be totally trusted). How long do you have to be with someone before you do this, or if at all?

This is a serious matter, what do you guys think of it?

I have been dating this guy for 3 months, too early? I havent done bareback yet btw
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I probably shouldn't say this as it's a truly awful thing to say and I hope I don't upset anyone but in all honesty I think a fairly high percentage of guys with HIV would quite happily pass on the infection to others not infected.

I think there's a very common negative response in the human psyche of 'take someone else with me' mentality. I don't have any real evidence for this so perhaps i'm wrong, and I truly hope i'm wrong but it's a feeling I get and I can't shake it.

Even on this forum nobody ever seems to say they have HIV and if people can't even talk about it online anonymously I wouldn't count on people telling you face to face. I've had enough failed relationships to realise people aren't really who they pretend to be after you really get to know them. And sometimes this can take a very long time.

The only way I would bareback is if I was in a monogamous relationship and we went and got tested together and I heard for myself (and not take his word for it) that we were both negative. I'd also have to feel very comfortable he wouldn't cheat on me.
 
Benjoe said:
I probably shouldn't say this as it's a truly awful thing to say and I hope I don't upset anyone but in all honesty I think a fairly high percentage of guys with HIV would quite happily pass on the infection to others not infected.
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Of course they would. And I believe that's the main reason why HIV/AIDS is still around to this day (at least in America anyway), rather than it having died out in the 80s/90s.
 
Well, I think it's pretty damned stupid unless you're both guaranteed HIV- (or possible if you're already both HIV+). Here's an Australian take on the issue, called "negotiated safety":

http://www.stayingnegative.net.au/relationships/negotiated-safety/

And even if you don't care much about your own health, what about the health of future partners? No, staying negative, and hence playing safe, is too important. Treat condoms as part of your sexual play, not as a hindrance to it.

-T.
 
teadrinker said:
Well, I think it's pretty damned stupid unless you're both guaranteed HIV-
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As long as you both get tested regularly I don't think there would be too much risk..

It's up to you how lucky you feel. I don't need to tell you that people can lie, as often is the case with HIV status.
 
No...it is not OK for you to do BB unless you KNOW your partner's status (that is you have both been tested) and have been exclusive with him for a long time. Then you mutually agree to it and ...fine...probably low risk but NEVER zero risk...EVER!

Otherwise it is NOT ok.

Period.
 
No...it is not OK for you to do BB unless you KNOW your partner's status and have been exclusive with him for a long time. Then you mutually agree to it and ...fine...probably low risk but NEVER zero risk...EVER! And yes it's a matter of trust AND verification (tests).

Otherwise it is NOT ok.

Period.
 
The fact that you made a public poll for people to decide on something that can greatly impact your health for life, shows that you are not ready for any type of sex until you will start making adult decisions for yourself that require responsible thinking.
 
CupidBoy said:
Is he hot?
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:) I remember a JUBber saying he barebacked with a guy "because he was sooooo hot". I loved that explanation.

Oh, and if you're videoing and uploading, definitely bareback. Gay guys prefer bareback porn something like 15 to 1.

Lex
 
As long as you're both tested as negative and you completely trust him to never cheat on you (and you never cheat on him), then go for it if you want. In my life though I've only barebacked with a few very trusting people and I'm still negative. I do know some people who weren't so lucky.
 
Having been out in the BA (before aids) era I experienced quite a bit of bareback in the time, but not since around 1981 or so. Quite frankly I don't think there is all that much difference with or without a condom to warrant taking any kind of a chance that could result in such devastating, life-altering consequences. The differences are more psychological rather than in the physical feeling. No one is that hot to risk your health for the rest of your life.
 
Your life and your body, but unless it was a lifetime monogamous relationship, I wouldn't be doing it.
 
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